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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -40

A born September 4, 1981
Virgo ♍

M born March 31, 1984
Aries ♈

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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A and M’s Relationship

M and A’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aries and Virgo. No individual is a pure Aries or Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in A’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

A’s Sun Trines M’s Jupiter (+11.69 harmony) – A’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in A and M’s goal of expanding their horizons. There are much optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship. A inspires M to plan big dreams. M will make A feel terrific. This aspect helps bring good luck and financial success in a business partnership.

A’s Jupiter Sextiles M’s Uranus (+8.81 harmony) – A’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. A’s visions stimulate M’s creative genius. A will expand M’s goals and creativity. M adds innovation and excitement to A’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

A’s Moon Trines M’s Venus (+8.09 harmony) – A’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. M’s cuteness charms A’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. A and M can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

M’s Venus Trines A’s Uranus (+5.60 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with A’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. A surprises M in one way or another. M has a pleasant way of toning down A’s eccentricity.

M’s Mercury Trines A’s Neptune (+4.51 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with A’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when A inspires the creativity of M. M’s practical suggestions give form to A’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

A’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Mars (+2.88 harmony) – A’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. A’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by M’s encouragement.

A’s Mars Trines M’s Mars (+2.33 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of A and M. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. M and A are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.

M’s Sun Trines A’s Mars (+1.94 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with A’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. M and A are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both A and M inspire creative passion in one another.

A’s Sun Sextiles M’s Saturn (+1.76 harmony) – A’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A and M can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. A and M can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

A’s Saturn Sextiles M’s Uranus (+1.27 harmony) – A’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both A and M. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. M is spontaneous and creative while A is sensible and rational.

M’s Sun Trines A’s Neptune (+0.87 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with A’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between A and M. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

A’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Pluto (+0.19 harmony) – A’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. M may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than A is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

A’s Jupiter Squares M’s Jupiter (neutral) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the moral sentiments, ethical principles, and spiritual values. Both have difficulties in finding a familiar path. This may create problems of adjustment in the relationship.

M’s Uranus Conjuncts A’s Neptune (neutral) – M’s respect for expression of individuality combines with A’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between M and A. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage A or M to evade responsibility.

A’s Neptune Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both A and M share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in A or M.

A’s Pluto Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. A and M enjoy the same cultural references. M and A have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

M’s Saturn Conjuncts A’s Uranus (-0.44 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with A’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. A is radical and rebellious while M is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

A’s Moon Conjuncts M’s Mars (-0.56 discord) – A’s emotional needs combine with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. M arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of A. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between A and M will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of M can be unbearable to the emotional character of A. Both M and A are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

A’s Mercury Squares M’s Jupiter (-1.36 discord) – A’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. A will seem petty to M. M might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

A’s Sun Opposes M’s Venus (-1.43 discord) – A’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also tension between A’s ego and M’s romantic sensibilities. Both do not have the same social ideas or desires. M and A can be emotionally confused with one another.

A’s Mercury Opposes M’s Venus (-2.69 discord) – A’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between A and M. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. A tends to disregard the emotional needs of M. M may find A cold and calculative.

M’s Sun Opposes A’s Jupiter (-2.92 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge A’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between M and A’s philosophy of life. A and M are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

M’s Sun Opposes A’s Pluto (-3.30 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge A’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. A will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of M. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

A’s Saturn Squares M’s Neptune (-3.58 discord) – A’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in A’s realism and M’s idealism.

M’s Mars Conjuncts A’s Uranus (-3.58 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with A’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a massive potential for success if the individual ambitions and goals are the same. If not, it will make cooperation difficult. The relationship brings out the aggressive and independent spirit in each other.

A’s Moon Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-3.96 discord) – A’s emotional needs combine with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. M tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of A. A may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that M imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between A and M.

M’s Mercury Opposes A’s Venus (-4.13 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge A’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between M and A. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. M tends to disregard the emotional needs of A. A may find M cold and calculative.

M’s Sun Opposes A’s Venus (-4.41 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge A’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also tension between M’s ego and A’s romantic sensibilities. Both do not have the same social ideas or desires. A and M can be emotionally confused with one another.

A’s Sun Squares M’s Uranus (-6.37 discord) – A’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of M produces friction with the selfishness of A. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. M might resent and even rebel against A’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between A and M.

M’s Sun Opposes A’s Mercury (-6.40 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge A’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of M and A. Communication between A and M is difficult. The mental energies of A are frequently opposed by the creative powers of M. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

M’s Venus Squares A’s Neptune (-6.64 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with A’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between M and A. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

M’s Jupiter Squares A’s Saturn (-7.39 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with A’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in A’s view of responsibility and M’s dreams of expansion. A places too much responsibility on M. M feels confined and frustrated.

M’s Mercury Opposes A’s Pluto (-8.08 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge A’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. A has a natural tendency to dominate if M appears weak. There is tension in the relationship that both A and M will be uncomfortable with each other. The intensity can sometimes feel overpowering. M might have difficulty being heard out of fear of making A unhappy.

A’s Mercury Squares M’s Neptune (-11.06 discord) – A’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. M’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in A’s method of thinking. Both A and M are capable of lying to each other. M’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

A’s Mars Squares M’s Pluto (-12.21 discord) – A’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

M’s Mercury Squares A’s Mars (-12.54 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with A’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in A’s aggressive attitude and M’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. M’s sarcasm could easily provoke A’s temper.

M’s Sun Opposes A’s Saturn (-19.62 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge A’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between M and A. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. M may feel A being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. A may feel M being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

There are 5 mutual receptions in A and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -17.27 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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A and M don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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