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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +47

Ben born May 23, 2003
Gemini ♊

Alyssa born September 5, 2002
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Ben and Alyssa’s Relationship

Alyssa and Ben’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Gemini. No individual is a pure Virgo or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Ben’s birth chart and the planets in Alyssa’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Ben’s Jupiter Trines Alyssa’s Pluto (+9.98 harmony) – Ben’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Alyssa’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both have the potential to accomplish something big together. There is harmony in encouraging the spiritual enlightenment of one another.

Alyssa’s Moon Trines Ben’s Pluto (+9.08 harmony) – Alyssa’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Alyssa and Ben. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Ben’s Jupiter Conjuncts Alyssa’s Jupiter (+8.77 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. Ben and Alyssa’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

Alyssa’s Mercury Sextiles Ben’s Jupiter (+8.75 harmony) – Alyssa’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Ben’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Alyssa’s ideas stimulate Ben’s dreams. Ben’s faith deepens Alyssa’s intellectual self-confidence. Ben sympathizes with Alyssa’s desire for mental advancement. Alyssa respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Ben.

Alyssa’s Mercury Trines Ben’s Neptune (+8.24 harmony) – Alyssa’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Ben inspires the creativity of Alyssa. Alyssa’s practical suggestions give form to Ben’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Alyssa’s Venus Trines Ben’s Saturn (+6.96 harmony) – Alyssa’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Ben’s protective trait is in harmony with Alyssa’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Alyssa’s Sun Trines Ben’s Mercury (+6.75 harmony) – Alyssa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Ben’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Alyssa and Ben is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Ben understands Alyssa’s intentions. Alyssa supports Ben’s intellectual excitement. Ben is able to discuss problems with Alyssa. Together they can work out a solution.

Ben’s Neptune Sextiles Alyssa’s Pluto (+5.24 harmony) – Ben’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Alyssa’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Ben stimulates the reforming urge of Alyssa. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Alyssa’s Sun Trines Ben’s Venus (+4.74 harmony) – Alyssa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Ben’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Ben and Alyssa. Ben’s power of attraction is in harmony with Alyssa’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Ben’s Sun Trines Alyssa’s Mercury (+4.54 harmony) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Alyssa’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Ben and Alyssa is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Alyssa understands Ben’s intentions. Ben supports Alyssa’s intellectual excitement. Alyssa is able to discuss problems with Ben. Together they can work out a solution.

Alyssa’s Venus Trines Ben’s Uranus (+3.89 harmony) – Alyssa’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Ben surprises Alyssa in one way or another. Alyssa has a pleasant way of toning down Ben’s eccentricity.

Ben’s Saturn Trines Alyssa’s Uranus (+3.82 harmony) – Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Alyssa’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Ben’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with Alyssa’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of Alyssa with the experience and caution of Ben toward a constructive goal. Alyssa is spontaneous and creative while Ben is sensible and levelheaded.

Ben’s Mars Sextiles Alyssa’s Pluto (+2.90 harmony) – Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Alyssa’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is extraordinary stimulation between Ben and Alyssa. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is excellent in a business partnership.

Alyssa’s Mercury Trines Ben’s Mars (+2.51 harmony) – Alyssa’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Alyssa’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Ben’s encouragement.

Ben’s Venus Trines Alyssa’s Mars (+1.84 harmony) – Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Alyssa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of Alyssa and loving nature of Ben. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

Alyssa’s Saturn Trines Ben’s Uranus (+1.60 harmony) – Alyssa’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Alyssa’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with Ben’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of Ben with the experience and caution of Alyssa toward a constructive goal. Ben is spontaneous and creative while Alyssa is sensible and levelheaded.

Alyssa’s Moon Conjuncts Ben’s Jupiter (+1.30 harmony) – Alyssa’s emotional needs combine with Ben’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The fusion encourages mutual confidence and respect in each other. Ben can be protective of Alyssa and can be too indulgent at the same time. Alyssa inspires and promotes Ben’s expansive aspirations. Even when things go wrong, Ben will not harbor any ill feelings toward Alyssa. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Ben to Alyssa. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it.

Ben’s Sun Trines Alyssa’s Neptune (+1.24 harmony) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Alyssa’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Alyssa and Ben. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Ben’s Jupiter Opposes Alyssa’s Neptune (+1.04 harmony) – Ben’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Alyssa’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

Ben’s Sun Sextiles Alyssa’s Jupiter (+0.82 harmony) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Alyssa’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Ben stimulates Alyssa to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Alyssa and Ben can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Alyssa’s Mars Sextiles Ben’s Saturn (+0.30 harmony) – Alyssa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Alyssa stimulates Ben’s ambition and self-confidence. Ben restrains Alyssa’s tendency to act impulsively.

Ben’s Uranus Conjuncts Alyssa’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Ben and Alyssa complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Ben’s Neptune Conjuncts Alyssa’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Ben and Alyssa share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Ben or Alyssa.

Ben’s Pluto Conjuncts Alyssa’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Ben and Alyssa enjoy the same cultural references. Alyssa and Ben have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Alyssa’s Sun Opposes Ben’s Uranus (-0.98 discord) – Alyssa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of Alyssa and the independent nature of Ben. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted Ben and Alyssa together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

Alyssa’s Jupiter Opposes Ben’s Neptune (-1.12 discord) – Alyssa’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

Ben’s Venus Squares Alyssa’s Jupiter (-1.22 discord) – Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Alyssa’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Alyssa may occasionally accuse Ben of not being entirely open and honest. Ben may accuse Alyssa of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Ben’s Mercury Squares Alyssa’s Jupiter (-1.95 discord) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Alyssa’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Ben will seem petty to Alyssa. Alyssa might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Ben’s Sun Squares Alyssa’s Uranus (-2.26 discord) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Alyssa’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Alyssa produces friction with the selfishness of Ben. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Alyssa might resent and even rebel against Ben’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Ben and Alyssa.

Ben’s Moon Squares Alyssa’s Pluto (-2.60 discord) – Ben’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Alyssa’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Ben’s defensive nature and Alyssa’s nastiness. Alyssa expects Ben to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Alyssa’s Sun Squares Ben’s Pluto (-3.70 discord) – Alyssa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Alyssa and Ben can cause damage to the relationship.

Alyssa’s Moon Opposes Ben’s Neptune (-4.19 discord) – Alyssa’s emotional needs confront and challenge Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Alyssa can overreact to the confusion caused by Ben. Ben can be deceptive or dishonest to Alyssa. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Ben’s Venus Squares Alyssa’s Neptune (-4.37 discord) – Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Alyssa’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Ben and Alyssa. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Alyssa’s Saturn Opposes Ben’s Pluto (-4.71 discord) – Alyssa’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the relationship when Alyssa and Ben compete for influence and dominance. Ben may try to reform Alyssa’s strict and severe attitudes toward life. Alyssa’s conservative opinion weakens the inner energy of Ben.

Ben’s Mercury Squares Alyssa’s Neptune (-5.21 discord) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Alyssa’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Alyssa’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Ben’s method of thinking. Both Ben and Alyssa are capable of lying to each other. Alyssa’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Alyssa’s Sun Opposes Ben’s Moon (-5.77 discord) – Alyssa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Ben’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of Alyssa and the sensitive nature of Ben. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

Ben’s Sun Squares Alyssa’s Mars (-6.96 discord) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Alyssa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Ben and Alyssa. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Alyssa and Ben is necessary for the union to work. Alyssa will have to work on patience while Ben will have to work on humility.

Alyssa’s Mars Opposes Ben’s Uranus (-9.47 discord) – Alyssa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. Alyssa resents the quiet side of Ben. Ben dislikes the over emotional side of Alyssa. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Ben’s Moon Opposes Alyssa’s Mars (-9.83 discord) – Ben’s emotional needs confront and challenge Alyssa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when Alyssa becomes rude or aggressive toward Ben. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Ben and Alyssa. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

Alyssa’s Moon Opposes Ben’s Mars (-11.35 discord) – Alyssa’s emotional needs confront and challenge Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when Ben becomes rude or aggressive toward Alyssa. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Alyssa and Ben. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

Ben’s Saturn Conjuncts Alyssa’s Saturn (-18.10 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. Ben and Alyssa share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if Ben and Alyssa are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

There are 5 mutual receptions in Ben and Alyssa’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -3.52 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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