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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -5

Ben born September 18, 1979
Virgo ♍

Jen born October 5, 1977
Libra ♎

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Ben and Jen’s Relationship

Jen and Ben’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Libra and Virgo. No individual is a pure Libra or Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Ben’s birth chart and the planets in Jen’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Jen’s Moon Trines Ben’s Uranus (+7.21 harmony) – Jen’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Jen and Ben are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Ben and Jen are together. Ben awakens and inspires ideas in Jen. Jen’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Ben’s inventiveness and creativity.

Jen’s Mars Trines Ben’s Uranus (+6.24 harmony) – Jen’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

Jen’s Mercury Conjuncts Ben’s Venus (+4.94 harmony) – Jen’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Jen’s communication style combines with Ben’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Ben makes Jen feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.

Jen’s Venus Sextiles Ben’s Uranus (+3.24 harmony) – Jen’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Ben’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Ben surprises Jen in one way or another. Jen has a pleasant way of toning down Ben’s eccentricity.

Ben’s Neptune Sextiles Jen’s Pluto (+3.19 harmony) – Ben’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Jen’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Ben stimulates the reforming urge of Jen. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Jen’s Neptune Sextiles Ben’s Pluto (+2.64 harmony) – Jen’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Jen stimulates the reforming urge of Ben. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Jen’s Moon Sextiles Ben’s Saturn (+1.55 harmony) – Jen’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The stimulation between Jen and Ben is based on mutual needs. Ben will be reliable, loyal, and can bring out the conservative qualities in Jen. Jen can expand the ideas of Ben with practical imagination. Both complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support in the relationship. Ben and Jen are in agreement in financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Jen and Ben.

Ben’s Sun Sextiles Jen’s Mars (+1.38 harmony) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Jen’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between Ben and Jen.

Jen’s Mars Sextiles Ben’s Saturn (+1.36 harmony) – Jen’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Jen stimulates Ben’s ambition and self-confidence. Ben restrains Jen’s tendency to act impulsively.

Jen’s Sun Sextiles Ben’s Neptune (+1.31 harmony) – Jen’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Ben and Jen. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Ben knows what Jen is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Jen’s Saturn Trines Ben’s Neptune (+0.53 harmony) – Jen’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Jen’s practical instincts are in harmony with Ben’s visions and dreams. Jen has a good sense of reality that Ben might not have. Ben is aware of a different dimension that can help Jen.

Ben’s Sun Conjuncts Jen’s Venus (+0.44 harmony) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Jen’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Ben has the same social interests and cultural values as Jen. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both Jen and Ben enjoy each other’s company.

Jen’s Sun Conjuncts Ben’s Venus (+0.34 harmony) – Jen’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Jen has the same social interests and cultural values as Ben. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both Ben and Jen enjoy each other’s company.

Jen’s Mercury Sextiles Ben’s Mars (+0.13 harmony) – Jen’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Jen’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Ben’s encouragement.

Ben’s Sun Conjuncts Jen’s Mercury (neutral) – Ben’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Jen’s mentality and powers of perception. There is effective communication and fewer misunderstanding between Ben and Jen. Both can work together in their similar ideas and points of view. Ben supports the progressive ideas of Jen. Jen understands the unique individuality of Ben.

Ben’s Mercury Conjuncts Jen’s Mercury (neutral) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine with ease between the couple. There is a similarity of ideas and way of thinking. Both are able to communicate intellectually to handle mental tasks. Ben and Jen have a similar approach to solving problems even if they have different educational backgrounds. Their two minds learn from each other. Both can read each other’s thoughts. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Ben’s Jupiter Conjuncts Jen’s Saturn (neutral) – Ben’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Jen’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. Jen’s practicality fuses with Ben’s expansive ideas. Ben provides vision while Jen creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Ben’s Uranus Conjuncts Jen’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Ben and Jen complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Ben’s Neptune Conjuncts Jen’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Ben and Jen share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Ben or Jen.

Jen’s Sun Conjuncts Ben’s Pluto (neutral) – Jen’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Jen and Ben are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

Ben’s Pluto Conjuncts Jen’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Ben and Jen enjoy the same cultural references. Jen and Ben have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Jen’s Moon Squares Ben’s Venus (-0.10 discord) – Jen’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Jen and Ben can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Ben and Jen. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Jen’s Moon Conjuncts Ben’s Mars (-0.55 discord) – Jen’s emotional needs combine with Ben’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Ben arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of Jen. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between Jen and Ben will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of Ben can be unbearable to the emotional character of Jen. Both Ben and Jen are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

Ben’s Venus Squares Jen’s Jupiter (-1.48 discord) – Ben’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Jen’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Jen may occasionally accuse Ben of not being entirely open and honest. Ben may accuse Jen of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Ben’s Saturn Squares Jen’s Neptune (-2.36 discord) – Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Jen’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Ben’s realism and Jen’s idealism.

Jen’s Venus Conjuncts Ben’s Saturn (-2.37 discord) – Jen’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Ben’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. Ben provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. Jen’s sympathy and affection stimulate Ben’s confidence. Ben can become possessive of Jen. Jen can feel restricted by Ben’s criticism and discipline.

Ben’s Mercury Squares Jen’s Jupiter (-2.96 discord) – Ben’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Jen’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Ben will seem petty to Jen. Jen might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Ben’s Mars Conjuncts Jen’s Mars (-3.24 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine within the couple. Both have similar instincts regarding sex and intimacy. The tendency of action will be identical in Ben and Jen. The same energy and desire may cause rivalry.

Ben’s Moon Conjuncts Jen’s Saturn (-3.87 discord) – Ben’s emotional needs combine with Jen’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Jen tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Ben. Ben may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Jen imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Ben and Jen.

Jen’s Venus Squares Ben’s Neptune (-5.93 discord) – Jen’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Ben’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Jen and Ben. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Jen’s Moon Squares Ben’s Pluto (-7.17 discord) – Jen’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Jen’s defensive nature and Ben’s nastiness. Ben expects Jen to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Jen’s Mars Squares Ben’s Pluto (-10.45 discord) – Jen’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Ben’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

There are 2 mutual receptions in Ben and Jen’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -19.02 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Ben and Jen don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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