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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +13

Cactus born May 22, 2005
Gemini ♊

HN born November 9, 2005
Scorpio ♏

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Cactus and HN’s Relationship

HN and Cactus’ relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Scorpio and Gemini. No individual is a pure Scorpio or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Cactus’ birth chart and the planets in HN’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Cactus’ Venus Trines HN’s Neptune (+12.17 harmony) – Cactus’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with HN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Cactus is willing to overlook HN’s faults. HN is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

HN’s Mercury Sextiles Cactus’ Jupiter (+10.16 harmony) – HN’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Cactus’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. HN’s ideas stimulate Cactus’ dreams. Cactus’ faith deepens HN’s intellectual self-confidence. Cactus sympathizes with HN’s desire for mental advancement. HN respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Cactus.

HN’s Moon Sextiles Cactus’ Pluto (+6.94 harmony) – HN’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Cactus’ sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between HN and Cactus. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Cactus’ Jupiter Trines HN’s Neptune (+6.52 harmony) – Cactus’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with HN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Cactus’ expansive dreams are in harmony with HN’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

HN’s Sun Trines Cactus’ Mars (+6.17 harmony) – HN’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Cactus’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. HN and Cactus are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Cactus and HN inspire creative passion in one another.

HN’s Moon Trines Cactus’ Venus (+5.55 harmony) – HN’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Cactus’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Cactus’ cuteness charms HN’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. HN and Cactus can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Cactus’ Jupiter Sextiles HN’s Saturn (+5.06 harmony) – Cactus’ sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with HN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. HN’s practicality stimulates Cactus’ expansive ideas. Cactus provides vision while HN creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

HN’s Jupiter Trines Cactus’ Uranus (+3.86 harmony) – HN’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Cactus’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. HN’s visions are in harmony with Cactus’ creative genius. HN will expand Cactus’ goals and creativity. Cactus adds innovation and excitement to HN’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

HN’s Sun Trines Cactus’ Uranus (+3.35 harmony) – HN’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Cactus’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Cactus’ unusual nature blends harmoniously well with HN’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between HN and Cactus.

Cactus’ Moon Trines HN’s Uranus (+3.08 harmony) – Cactus’ emotional needs combine very effortlessly with HN’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Cactus and HN are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when HN and Cactus are together. HN awakens and inspires ideas in Cactus. Cactus’ natural instinctual mind stimulates HN’s inventiveness and creativity.

Cactus’ Mars Sextiles HN’s Mars (+2.92 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly within the couple. Both have a fierce loyalty to each other and can cooperate effectively. The relationship stimulates each other’s courage and ambition. There is a unity of desire between Cactus and HN. Both enjoy sports and other physical activities together.

HN’s Mars Sextiles Cactus’ Uranus (+2.47 harmony) – HN’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Cactus’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.

Cactus’ Venus Sextiles HN’s Saturn (+2.26 harmony) – Cactus’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with HN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. HN’s protective nature stimulates Cactus’ loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

HN’s Sun Trines Cactus’ Saturn (+0.80 harmony) – HN’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Cactus’ sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. HN and Cactus are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

HN’s Venus Sextiles Cactus’ Uranus (+0.65 harmony) – HN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Cactus’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Cactus surprises HN in one way or another. HN has a pleasant way of toning down Cactus’ eccentricity.

Cactus’ Neptune Sextiles HN’s Pluto (+0.60 harmony) – Cactus’ mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with HN’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Cactus stimulates the reforming urge of HN. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

HN’s Venus Conjuncts Cactus’ Pluto (+0.42 harmony) – HN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Cactus’ sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. Cactus may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than HN is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

Cactus’ Moon Conjuncts HN’s Jupiter (+0.17 harmony) – Cactus’ emotional needs combine with HN’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The fusion encourages mutual confidence and respect in each other. HN can be protective of Cactus and can be too indulgent at the same time. Cactus inspires and promotes HN’s expansive aspirations. Even when things go wrong, HN will not harbor any ill feelings toward Cactus. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from HN to Cactus. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it.

HN’s Sun Conjuncts Cactus’ Moon (neutral) – HN’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Cactus’ emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of HN connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Cactus. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Cactus’ Uranus Conjuncts HN’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Cactus and HN complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

HN’s Moon Conjuncts Cactus’ Neptune (neutral) – HN’s emotional needs combine with Cactus’ sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The fusion offers strong compatibility with each other. A robust psychic connection exists between HN and Cactus. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

Cactus’ Neptune Conjuncts HN’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Cactus and HN share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Cactus or HN.

Cactus’ Pluto Conjuncts HN’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Cactus and HN enjoy the same cultural references. HN and Cactus have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

HN’s Venus Squares Cactus’ Jupiter (-0.71 discord) – HN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Cactus’ spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Cactus may occasionally accuse HN of not being entirely open and honest. HN may accuse Cactus of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Cactus’ Mars Conjuncts HN’s Uranus (-0.86 discord) – Cactus’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with HN’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a massive potential for success if the individual ambitions and goals are the same. If not, it will make cooperation difficult. The relationship brings out the aggressive and independent spirit in each other.

Cactus’ Venus Squares HN’s Uranus (-1.29 discord) – Cactus’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with HN’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Cactus’ Mars Squares HN’s Pluto (-3.03 discord) – Cactus’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with HN’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Cactus’ Moon Squares HN’s Moon (-3.08 discord) – The individual emotional needs interact stressfully within the couple. Cactus and HN’s hearts and souls lack a basic understanding or sympathy with each other. Minor clashes of mood and attitude can cause friction but not enough to destroy the relationship. Both HN and Cactus are moody by nature and have the tendency to exaggerate trivial disagreements.

Cactus’ Venus Opposes HN’s Pluto (-3.10 discord) – Cactus’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges HN’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is tension in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Cactus’ Sun Squares HN’s Moon (-3.21 discord) – Cactus’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with HN’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. Cactus’ domineering personality can overwhelm HN’s emotional and sensitive nature. HN can appear moody to Cactus’ inconsiderate behavior.

Cactus’ Mercury Conjuncts HN’s Mars (-4.42 discord) – Cactus’ mentality and powers of perception combine with HN’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Friendly debates can sometimes lead to irritation if HN is headstrong or argumentative. HN can be impatient and wants immediate action while Cactus intends to plan before taking any action.

Cactus’ Sun Squares HN’s Uranus (-4.63 discord) – Cactus’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with HN’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of HN produces friction with the selfishness of Cactus. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. HN might resent and even rebel against Cactus’ display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Cactus and HN.

Cactus’ Mercury Squares HN’s Saturn (-4.89 discord) – Cactus’ mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with HN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in HN’s criticism and disapproval of Cactus’ achievements. Cactus may seem careless and annoying to HN. HN may appear cold and bossy to Cactus. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

HN’s Mercury Squares Cactus’ Mars (-5.03 discord) – HN’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Cactus’ sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in Cactus’ aggressive attitude and HN’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. HN’s sarcasm could easily provoke Cactus’ temper.

Cactus’ Sun Opposes HN’s Mercury (-5.04 discord) – Cactus’ sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge HN’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of Cactus and HN. Communication between HN and Cactus is difficult. The mental energies of HN are frequently opposed by the creative powers of Cactus. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

HN’s Mars Squares Cactus’ Neptune (-5.07 discord) – HN’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Cactus’ sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Cactus’ elusive reaction to HN’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

HN’s Mercury Opposes Cactus’ Venus (-5.48 discord) – HN’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Cactus’ sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between HN and Cactus. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. HN tends to disregard the emotional needs of Cactus. Cactus may find HN cold and calculative.

Cactus’ Mercury Squares HN’s Neptune (-6.97 discord) – Cactus’ mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with HN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. HN’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Cactus’ method of thinking. Both Cactus and HN are capable of lying to each other. HN’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

HN’s Moon Squares Cactus’ Mercury (-7.20 discord) – HN’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Cactus’ mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. HN is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret Cactus’ intentions. Cactus pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of HN. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

HN’s Sun Squares Cactus’ Neptune (-7.59 discord) – HN’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Cactus’ sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between HN and Cactus can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Cactus can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards HN.

HN’s Saturn Opposes Cactus’ Neptune (-8.33 discord) – HN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Cactus’ sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in HN’s domineering nature and Cactus’ anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

HN’s Mercury Squares Cactus’ Uranus (-8.90 discord) – HN’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Cactus’ sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Cactus may seem unstable and erratic to HN. HN may seem elusive and contradictory to Cactus. Cactus stimulates, excites, and irritates HN’s mind simultaneously. HN can’t understand the complex mind of Cactus. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Cactus’ Moon Squares HN’s Neptune (-8.91 discord) – Cactus’ emotional needs interact stressfully with HN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. HN can be deceptive or dishonest to Cactus. Cactus can overreact to the confusion caused by HN. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.

HN’s Sun Opposes Cactus’ Mercury (-10.29 discord) – HN’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Cactus’ mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of HN and Cactus. Communication between Cactus and HN is difficult. The mental energies of Cactus are frequently opposed by the creative powers of HN. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

Cactus’ Moon Opposes HN’s Mars (-13.16 discord) – Cactus’ emotional needs confront and challenge HN’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when HN becomes rude or aggressive toward Cactus. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Cactus and HN. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

Cactus’ Moon Squares HN’s Saturn (-16.36 discord) – Cactus’ emotional needs interact stressfully with HN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between HN’s practicality and Cactus’ emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. HN can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward Cactus. Cactus can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward HN.

There are 10 mutual receptions in Cactus and HN’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +100 harmony to the total score. The remaining -22.60 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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