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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -85

Cait born July 13, 1991
Cancer ♋

Tom born October 17, 1992
Libra ♎

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Cait and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Cait’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Libra and Cancer. No individual is a pure Libra or Cancer but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Cait’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Cait’s Sun Trines Tom’s Pluto (+10.85 harmony) – Cait’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Cait can bring out the psychoanalyst in Tom. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Tom and Cait. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Cait and Tom to a long-term relationship.

Tom’s Mars Trines Cait’s Pluto (+7.48 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Cait’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between Tom and Cait. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

Tom’s Mercury Sextiles Cait’s Neptune (+7.41 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Cait’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Cait stimulates the imagination of Tom. Tom’s practical suggestions give form to Cait’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Cait and Tom. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

Tom’s Jupiter Trines Cait’s Saturn (+6.96 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Cait’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Cait’s practicality is in harmony with Tom’s expansive ideas. Tom provides vision while Cait creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Cait’s Sun Trines Tom’s Venus (+6.67 harmony) – Cait’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Tom’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Tom and Cait. Tom’s power of attraction is in harmony with Cait’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Cait’s Sun Trines Tom’s Mercury (+6.03 harmony) – Cait’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Tom’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Cait and Tom is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Tom understands Cait’s intentions. Cait supports Tom’s intellectual excitement. Tom is able to discuss problems with Cait. Together they can work out a solution.

Tom’s Neptune Sextiles Cait’s Pluto (+5.66 harmony) – Tom’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Cait’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Tom stimulates the reforming urge of Cait. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Tom’s Mercury Sextiles Cait’s Uranus (+4.82 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Cait’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. Tom and Cait bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Tom’s Uranus Sextiles Cait’s Pluto (+3.67 harmony) – Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Cait’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Tom’s Sun Sextiles Cait’s Mars (+1.21 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Cait’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between Tom and Cait.

Cait’s Neptune Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+0.48 harmony) – Cait’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Cait stimulates the reforming urge of Tom. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Tom’s Venus Conjuncts Cait’s Pluto (+0.09 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Cait’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. Cait may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than Tom is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

Cait’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Cait and Tom complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Cait’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – Cait’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Tom’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Cait and Tom. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Tom or Cait to evade responsibility.

Tom’s Uranus Conjuncts Cait’s Neptune (neutral) – Tom’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Cait’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Tom and Cait. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Cait or Tom to evade responsibility.

Cait’s Neptune Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Cait and Tom share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Cait or Tom.

Tom’s Mercury Conjuncts Cait’s Pluto (neutral) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Cait’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Cait can have an explosive effect on Tom’s viewpoints. Tom can expand Cait’s range of interest in various areas of life. Cait’s influence on Tom is stronger than Tom’s on Cait. Cait has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Tom and could be ruthless in doing so.

Cait’s Pluto Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Cait and Tom enjoy the same cultural references. Tom and Cait have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Cait’s Venus Squares Tom’s Pluto (-0.29 discord) – Cait’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Cait’s Venus Squares Tom’s Venus (-1.95 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully within the couple. Both have different romantic styles. There is friction in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Cait’s Jupiter Squares Tom’s Pluto (-2.57 discord) – Cait’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Cait.

Cait’s Sun Conjuncts Tom’s Mars (-3.01 discord) – Cait’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of Cait combines with the aggressiveness of Tom. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between Tom and Cait.

Tom’s Saturn Squares Cait’s Pluto (-3.29 discord) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Cait’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. Cait being a reformer might challenge Tom’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

Cait’s Mars Squares Tom’s Pluto (-3.75 discord) – Cait’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Cait’s Saturn Conjuncts Tom’s Saturn (-4.68 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. Cait and Tom share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if Cait and Tom are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

Cait’s Moon Squares Tom’s Pluto (-4.85 discord) – Cait’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Cait’s defensive nature and Tom’s nastiness. Tom expects Cait to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Tom’s Mercury Squares Cait’s Jupiter (-4.87 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Cait’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Tom will seem petty to Cait. Cait might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Cait’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Pluto (-4.99 discord) – Cait’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both Cait and Tom have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both Tom and Cait.

Tom’s Venus Squares Cait’s Mars (-6.52 discord) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Cait’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Tom and Cait in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Cait feels suffocated by Tom’s possessiveness. Tom can be deeply hurt by Cait’s thoughtless words.

Cait’s Jupiter Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-6.93 discord) – Cait’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Tom’s restrictive nature and Cait’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

Cait’s Sun Squares Tom’s Sun (-8.24 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Cait and Tom can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Cait’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Uranus (-8.69 discord) – Cait’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of Cait and the independent nature of Tom. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted Tom and Cait together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

Tom’s Mars Opposes Cait’s Uranus (-9.50 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Cait’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. Tom resents the quiet side of Cait. Cait dislikes the over emotional side of Tom. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Cait’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Neptune (-10.68 discord) – Cait’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between Tom and Cait is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. Tom can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Cait.

Cait’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Mercury (-11.89 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Cait’s Moon Squares Tom’s Mercury (-11.97 discord) – Cait’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Tom’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. Cait is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret Tom’s intentions. Tom pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of Cait. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

Tom’s Mars Opposes Cait’s Neptune (-11.97 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Cait’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Cait’s elusive reaction to Tom’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Cait’s Moon Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-18.32 discord) – Cait’s emotional needs confront and challenge Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between Tom’s practicality and Cait’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Cait resents Tom’s constant discipline. Tom is frustrated by the moody disposition of Cait. Tom sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. Cait sees the intuitive and magical side.

Cait’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-18.48 discord) – Cait’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Tom’s criticism and disapproval of Cait’s achievements. Cait may seem careless and annoying to Tom. Tom may appear cold and bossy to Cait. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Cait and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -18.89 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Cait and Tom don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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