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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -60

Em born October 6, 1992
Libra ♎

J born February 14, 1977
Aquarius ♒

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Em and J’s Relationship

J and Em’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aquarius and Libra. No individual is a pure Aquarius or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Em’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Sun Trines Em’s Mercury (+9.10 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Em’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between J and Em is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Em understands J’s intentions. J supports Em’s intellectual excitement. Em is able to discuss problems with J. Together they can work out a solution.

Em’s Moon Trines J’s Pluto (+8.57 harmony) – Em’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Em and J. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Em’s Mars Trines J’s Uranus (+6.77 harmony) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

Em’s Moon Sextiles J’s Neptune (+6.51 harmony) – Em’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. Telepathic communication with each other is possible. Both Em and J have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

J’s Jupiter Trines Em’s Neptune (+5.29 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Em’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Em’s Uranus Sextiles J’s Uranus (+4.67 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with the couple. Em and J stimulate each other’s strange ideas. There is a feeling of openness. Both enjoy their own craziness. The relationship encourages one another to have a broader view of the changes affecting society in general.

J’s Moon Sextiles Em’s Venus (+4.20 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. J and Em have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between J and Em.

J’s Venus Sextiles Em’s Saturn (+3.64 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Em’s protective nature stimulates J’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Em’s Sun Sextiles J’s Neptune (+3.62 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between J and Em. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes J knows what Em is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Mercury Trines Em’s Jupiter (+3.25 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. J’s thoughts are in harmony with Em’s dreams. Em’s faith deepens J’s intellectual self-confidence. Em sympathizes with J’s desire for mental advancement. J respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Em.

Em’s Saturn Trines J’s Pluto (+2.97 harmony) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Em’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with J’s quiet but immense power. Both Em and J are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Em’s Moon Sextiles J’s Venus (+2.96 harmony) – Em’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. Em and J have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between Em and J.

J’s Uranus Sextiles Em’s Neptune (+2.59 harmony) – J’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with Em’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. Em and J have a strong intuitive connection.

Em’s Sun Sextiles J’s Saturn (+2.49 harmony) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Em and J can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. Em and J can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

J’s Jupiter Trines Em’s Uranus (+2.17 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. J’s visions are in harmony with Em’s creative genius. J will expand Em’s goals and creativity. Em adds innovation and excitement to J’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Em’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Uranus (+1.98 harmony) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. J is tolerant and encouraging toward Em. Em can be more creative than J. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

J’s Mars Trines Em’s Jupiter (+1.59 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Em has a broad impact on J’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. J challenges Em to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Em’s Saturn Sextiles J’s Neptune (+1.02 harmony) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Em can stabilize J to be practical. J can inspire Em to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Em’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Em and J are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

J’s Sun Conjuncts Em’s Moon (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Em’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of J connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Em. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Em’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Mercury (neutral) – Em’s emotional needs combine with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. Em intuitively knows what J is thinking. J can clearly describe Em’s emotions. J can be an excellent listener to any weird things that Em has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

J’s Moon Conjuncts Em’s Uranus (neutral) – J’s emotional needs combine with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The fusion excites mutual interest and is intellectually stimulating. There’s a degree of spontaneous, unexpected, and magnetic attraction linking J and Em. Boredom is never a problem in the relationship. Sometimes J’s traditional attitude clashes with Em’s odd behavior. The union arouses romantic feelings that can be temporary unless other harmonious aspects support it.

J’s Moon Conjuncts Em’s Neptune (neutral) – J’s emotional needs combine with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The fusion offers strong compatibility with each other. A robust psychic connection exists between J and Em. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts Em’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if J and Em have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

J’s Sun Squares Em’s Venus (-0.14 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Em’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Em’s romantic sensibilities and J’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Em’s Venus Opposes J’s Jupiter (-0.30 discord) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. J may occasionally accuse Em of not being entirely open and honest. Em may accuse J of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Em’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Mars (-0.37 discord) – Em’s emotional needs combine with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. J arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of Em. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between Em and J will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of J can be unbearable to the emotional character of Em. Both J and Em are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

J’s Sun Conjuncts Em’s Saturn (-0.60 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. Em has the tendency to criticize and judge J’s actions. Em sometimes blames J when something goes wrong. J is more tolerant and forgiving towards Em. J can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from Em.

J’s Moon Squares Em’s Jupiter (-0.95 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Em’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. It’s common to have disagreements about religion, finances, and family matters. The friction between J and Em is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. J may feel uncomfortable when Em misunderstands a passing mood. Em may make extravagant pledges making J to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

Em’s Moon Squares J’s Jupiter (-1.35 discord) – Em’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. It’s common to have disagreements about religion, finances, and family matters. The friction between Em and J is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. Em may feel uncomfortable when J misunderstands a passing mood. J may make extravagant pledges making Em to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

J’s Mars Conjuncts Em’s Saturn (-1.47 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The relationship induces cooperation and working for a common goal. Both either complement each other well or antagonize each other’s differences. J stimulates the ambition and progressive instinct in Em. Em in some ways restricts or limits the activities of J.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts Em’s Saturn (-2.04 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J may feel inadequate when Em imparts knowledge and wisdom. Em has the tendency to discipline J. J may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Em. J can talk Em out of negative attitudes. J can encourage progressiveness in Em.

J’s Venus Squares Em’s Neptune (-3.41 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between J and Em. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

J’s Jupiter Opposes Em’s Pluto (-4.35 discord) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Personal struggles between J and Em can’t be avoided. There will be conflicting ideas that can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult.

J’s Venus Squares Em’s Uranus (-4.97 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Em’s Mercury Squares J’s Mercury (-5.61 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Em’s Sun Opposes J’s Venus (-6.20 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also tension between Em’s ego and J’s romantic sensibilities. Both do not have the same social ideas or desires. J and Em can be emotionally confused with one another.

Em’s Moon Squares J’s Uranus (-6.41 discord) – Em’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between J and Em. J is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Em is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

J’s Sun Squares Em’s Pluto (-7.68 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Em’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of J and Em can cause damage to the relationship.

Em’s Sun Squares J’s Moon (-7.75 discord) – Em’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. Em’s domineering personality can overwhelm J’s emotional and sensitive nature. J can appear moody to Em’s inconsiderate behavior.

Em’s Neptune Squares J’s Pluto (-7.75 discord) – Em’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of Em and J. J will likely have a more forceful personality that Em. Em attempts to give J spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. J in return will psychoanalyze Em’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

J’s Venus Squares Em’s Mars (-7.99 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between J and Em in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Em feels suffocated by J’s possessiveness. J can be deeply hurt by Em’s thoughtless words.

Em’s Venus Squares J’s Saturn (-8.24 discord) – Em’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in the controlling nature of J and the affectionate nature of Em. Em feels dominated. J tends to impose too much responsibility on Em.

Em’s Mercury Squares J’s Mars (-8.41 discord) – Em’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in J’s aggressive attitude and Em’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Em’s sarcasm could easily provoke J’s temper.

Em’s Uranus Squares J’s Pluto (-9.83 discord) – Em’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between Em and J. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

Em’s Mars Squares J’s Pluto (-11.01 discord) – Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Em’s Saturn Squares J’s Uranus (-11.84 discord) – Em’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of Em and the progressive nature of J. Em will restrict J’s progress and expression of individuality. J will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of Em.

J’s Moon Opposes Em’s Mars (-14.35 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge Em’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when Em becomes rude or aggressive toward J. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between J and Em. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

Em’s Moon Opposes J’s Saturn (-15.13 discord) – Em’s emotional needs confront and challenge J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between J’s practicality and Em’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Em resents J’s constant discipline. J is frustrated by the moody disposition of Em. J sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. Em sees the intuitive and magical side.

Em’s Saturn Opposes J’s Saturn (-26.57 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges each other. There is tension in the relationship between how the couple handles responsibility and security. Em and J mistrust each other that it can create severe problems of adjustment.

There are 6 mutual receptions in Em and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +60 harmony to the total score. The remaining -18.67 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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