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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +7

Esm born May 26, 1983
Gemini ♊

Nil born April 18, 1979
Aries ♈

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Esm and Nil’s Relationship

Nil and Esm’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aries and Gemini. No individual is a pure Aries or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Esm’s birth chart and the planets in Nil’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Esm’s Jupiter Trines Nil’s Jupiter (+14.59 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. Esm and Nil’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Esm’s Venus Trines Nil’s Uranus (+11.10 harmony) – Esm’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Nil’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Nil surprises Esm in one way or another. Esm has a pleasant way of toning down Nil’s eccentricity.

Nil’s Sun Trines Esm’s Neptune (+9.37 harmony) – Nil’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Esm’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Esm and Nil. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Nil’s Mars Trines Esm’s Jupiter (+9.20 harmony) – Nil’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Esm’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Esm has a broad impact on Nil’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Nil challenges Esm to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Nil’s Mercury Trines Esm’s Jupiter (+6.80 harmony) – Nil’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Esm’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Nil’s thoughts are in harmony with Esm’s dreams. Esm’s faith deepens Nil’s intellectual self-confidence. Esm sympathizes with Nil’s desire for mental advancement. Nil respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Esm.

Nil’s Jupiter Trines Esm’s Uranus (+6.52 harmony) – Nil’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Esm’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Nil’s visions are in harmony with Esm’s creative genius. Nil will expand Esm’s goals and creativity. Esm adds innovation and excitement to Nil’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Nil’s Mars Trines Esm’s Uranus (+6.25 harmony) – Nil’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Esm’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

Esm’s Sun Sextiles Nil’s Jupiter (+6.01 harmony) – Esm’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Nil’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Esm stimulates Nil to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Nil and Esm can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Nil’s Moon Trines Esm’s Mercury (+4.86 harmony) – Nil’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Esm’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Esm and Nil are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.

Nil’s Mercury Trines Esm’s Uranus (+3.56 harmony) – Nil’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Esm’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between Nil and Esm. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Esm’s Venus Trines Nil’s Venus (+3.55 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very comfortably with the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Esm and Nil have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Esm’s Mars Sextiles Nil’s Mars (+2.44 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly within the couple. Both have a fierce loyalty to each other and can cooperate effectively. The relationship stimulates each other’s courage and ambition. There is a unity of desire between Esm and Nil. Both enjoy sports and other physical activities together.

Esm’s Sun Sextiles Nil’s Mercury (+2.09 harmony) – Esm’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Nil’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between Esm and Nil. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

Esm’s Sun Sextiles Nil’s Mars (+1.35 harmony) – Esm’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Nil’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between Esm and Nil.

Nil’s Mercury Sextiles Esm’s Mars (+0.76 harmony) – Nil’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Esm’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Nil’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Esm’s encouragement.

Nil’s Saturn Trines Esm’s Neptune (+0.51 harmony) – Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Esm’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Nil’s practical instincts are in harmony with Esm’s visions and dreams. Nil has a good sense of reality that Esm might not have. Esm is aware of a different dimension that can help Nil.

Esm’s Mars Sextiles Nil’s Jupiter (+0.28 harmony) – Esm’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Nil’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates mutual helpfulness in achieving prosperity. Esm provides a foundation for aggressive action for Nil’s dreams of development. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Nil’s Moon Conjuncts Esm’s Neptune (neutral) – Nil’s emotional needs combine with Esm’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The fusion offers strong compatibility with each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Nil and Esm. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

Esm’s Neptune Conjuncts Nil’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Esm and Nil share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Esm or Nil.

Esm’s Pluto Conjuncts Nil’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Esm and Nil enjoy the same cultural references. Nil and Esm have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Nil’s Jupiter Squares Esm’s Pluto (-2.66 discord) – Nil’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Esm’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Nil.

Nil’s Moon Opposes Esm’s Venus (-4.17 discord) – Nil’s emotional needs confront and challenge Esm’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a mutual attraction for love and marriage between Nil and Esm. Much affection is shown between the individuals. There may be fewer mutual interests in the relationship.

Nil’s Venus Squares Esm’s Neptune (-4.42 discord) – Nil’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Esm’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Nil and Esm. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Esm’s Venus Squares Nil’s Pluto (-5.11 discord) – Esm’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Nil’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Nil’s Jupiter Squares Esm’s Saturn (-6.88 discord) – Nil’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Esm’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Esm’s view of responsibility and Nil’s dreams of expansion. Esm places too much responsibility on Nil. Nil feels confined and frustrated.

Nil’s Mercury Squares Esm’s Neptune (-7.71 discord) – Nil’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Esm’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Esm’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Nil’s method of thinking. Both Nil and Esm are capable of lying to each other. Esm’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Esm’s Sun Squares Nil’s Saturn (-7.83 discord) – Esm’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Nil’s controlling nature and Esm’s egocentric nature. Esm struggles to break free from the limits set by Nil. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

Esm’s Mercury Opposes Nil’s Uranus (-8.58 discord) – Esm’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Nil’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension when both minds meet. Nil may seem unstable and erratic to Esm. Esm may seem elusive and contradictory to Nil. Nil stimulates, excites, and irritates Esm’s mind simultaneously. Esm can’t understand the complex mind of Nil. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Esm’s Jupiter Squares Nil’s Saturn (-8.78 discord) – Esm’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Nil’s view of responsibility and Esm’s dreams of expansion. Nil places too much responsibility on Esm. Esm feels confined and frustrated.

Nil’s Sun Opposes Esm’s Pluto (-10.32 discord) – Nil’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Esm’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Esm will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of Nil. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

Nil’s Saturn Squares Esm’s Uranus (-14.63 discord) – Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Esm’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of Nil and the progressive nature of Esm. Nil will restrict Esm’s progress and expression of individuality. Esm will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of Nil.

Nil’s Sun Opposes Esm’s Saturn (-15.18 discord) – Nil’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Esm’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Nil and Esm. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Nil may feel Esm being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. Esm may feel Nil being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

Esm’s Mars Squares Nil’s Saturn (-16.27 discord) – Esm’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Nil’s constructive ideas and Esm’s enthusiasm. Nil may have unreasonable demands for Esm. This makes Esm impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

There are 4 mutual receptions in Esm and Nil’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -9.70 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Esm and Nil don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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