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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +9

Esm born May 26, 1983
Gemini ♊

Nil born October 21, 1980
Libra ♎

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Esm and Nil’s Relationship

Nil and Esm’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Libra and Gemini. No individual is a pure Libra or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Esm’s birth chart and the planets in Nil’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Nil’s Mercury Trines Esm’s Venus (+13.73 harmony) – Nil’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Esm’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Nil’s communication style is in harmony with Esm’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Esm makes Nil feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Esm’s Venus Sextiles Nil’s Venus (+8.15 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Esm and Nil have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Nil’s Sun Sextiles Esm’s Neptune (+6.76 harmony) – Nil’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Esm’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Esm and Nil. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Esm knows what Nil is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Esm’s Mercury Trines Nil’s Venus (+6.42 harmony) – Esm’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Nil’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Esm’s communication style is in harmony with Nil’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Nil makes Esm feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Esm’s Jupiter Sextiles Nil’s Saturn (+4.42 harmony) – Esm’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Nil’s practicality stimulates Esm’s expansive ideas. Esm provides vision while Nil creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Esm’s Sun Trines Nil’s Saturn (+3.49 harmony) – Esm’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. Esm and Nil are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

Esm’s Sun Trines Nil’s Jupiter (+3.21 harmony) – Esm’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Nil’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in Esm and Nil’s goal of expanding their horizons. There are much optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship. Esm inspires Nil to plan big dreams. Nil will make Esm feel terrific. This aspect helps bring good luck and financial success in a business partnership.

Esm’s Venus Trines Nil’s Uranus (+3.20 harmony) – Esm’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Nil’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Nil surprises Esm in one way or another. Esm has a pleasant way of toning down Nil’s eccentricity.

Nil’s Mars Conjuncts Esm’s Jupiter (+2.90 harmony) – Nil’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine with Esm’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates aspirations and ambitions in one another. This aspect may also encourage extravagance in one or both individual. Esm enjoys teasing Nil which Nil doesn’t find amusing.

Esm’s Mars Trines Nil’s Jupiter (+2.57 harmony) – Esm’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Nil’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Nil has a broad impact on Esm’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Esm challenges Nil to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Esm’s Mars Trines Nil’s Saturn (+1.72 harmony) – Esm’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in Nil’s patience and Esm’s aggressiveness.

Nil’s Saturn Sextiles Esm’s Uranus (+1.72 harmony) – Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Esm’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both Nil and Esm. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. Esm is spontaneous and creative while Nil is sensible and rational.

Esm’s Neptune Sextiles Nil’s Pluto (+0.47 harmony) – Esm’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Nil’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Esm stimulates the reforming urge of Nil. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Esm’s Neptune Conjuncts Nil’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Esm and Nil share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Esm or Nil.

Nil’s Sun Conjuncts Esm’s Pluto (neutral) – Nil’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Esm’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Nil and Esm are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

Esm’s Pluto Conjuncts Nil’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Esm and Nil enjoy the same cultural references. Nil and Esm have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Esm’s Sun Opposes Nil’s Uranus (-0.51 discord) – Esm’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Nil’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of Esm and the independent nature of Nil. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted Nil and Esm together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

Nil’s Venus Squares Esm’s Neptune (-0.62 discord) – Nil’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Esm’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Nil and Esm. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Esm’s Saturn Conjuncts Nil’s Pluto (-1.61 discord) – Esm’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Nil’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between Esm and Nil is repeatedly tested in this aspect. Nil may try to reform Esm’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

Esm’s Mercury Opposes Nil’s Uranus (-3.26 discord) – Esm’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Nil’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension when both minds meet. Nil may seem unstable and erratic to Esm. Esm may seem elusive and contradictory to Nil. Nil stimulates, excites, and irritates Esm’s mind simultaneously. Esm can’t understand the complex mind of Nil. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Nil’s Mars Conjuncts Esm’s Uranus (-3.30 discord) – Nil’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Esm’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a massive potential for success if the individual ambitions and goals are the same. If not, it will make cooperation difficult. The relationship brings out the aggressive and independent spirit in each other.

Esm’s Venus Squares Nil’s Pluto (-3.59 discord) – Esm’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Nil’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Nil’s Jupiter Squares Esm’s Neptune (-4.83 discord) – Nil’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Esm’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. Nil might unintentionally hurt Esm’s sensitive feelings. Esm may appear elusive to Nil. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

Nil’s Sun Conjuncts Esm’s Saturn (-5.25 discord) – Nil’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Esm’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. Esm has the tendency to criticize and judge Nil’s actions. Esm sometimes blames Nil when something goes wrong. Nil is more tolerant and forgiving towards Esm. Nil can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from Esm.

Nil’s Saturn Squares Esm’s Neptune (-7.24 discord) – Nil’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Esm’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Nil’s realism and Esm’s idealism.

Esm’s Sun Opposes Nil’s Mars (-11.32 discord) – Esm’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Nil’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Esm and Nil. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Nil and Esm are together.

Esm’s Mercury Opposes Nil’s Mercury (-11.69 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception confront or challenge each other. Differences in points of view can cause tension and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. Agreeing with each other can be difficult.

Esm’s Mars Opposes Nil’s Mars (-20.93 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge each other. Ordinary activities together can lead to conflicts. There is a tendency to obstruct each other’s work. The relationship creates hostile energy making cooperation challenging to achieve.

There are 4 mutual receptions in Esm and Nil’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -15.61 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Esm and Nil don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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