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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -42

Ethan born October 19, 2005
Libra ♎

Tom born November 22, 2005
Scorpio ♏

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Ethan and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Ethan’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Scorpio and Libra. No individual is a pure Scorpio or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Ethan’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Tom’s Moon Trines Ethan’s Venus (+12.10 harmony) – Tom’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Ethan’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Ethan’s cuteness charms Tom’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Tom and Ethan can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Tom’s Jupiter Trines Ethan’s Uranus (+10.07 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Ethan’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Tom’s visions are in harmony with Ethan’s creative genius. Tom will expand Ethan’s goals and creativity. Ethan adds innovation and excitement to Tom’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Ethan’s Mercury Sextiles Tom’s Venus (+9.89 harmony) – Ethan’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Ethan’s communication style stimulates Tom’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Tom makes Ethan feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

Ethan’s Jupiter Trines Tom’s Uranus (+6.92 harmony) – Ethan’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Ethan’s visions are in harmony with Tom’s creative genius. Ethan will expand Tom’s goals and creativity. Tom adds innovation and excitement to Ethan’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Ethan’s Venus Trines Tom’s Saturn (+6.58 harmony) – Ethan’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Tom’s protective trait is in harmony with Ethan’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Ethan’s Venus Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+5.65 harmony) – Ethan’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Ethan is willing to overlook Tom’s faults. Tom is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Ethan’s Moon Trines Tom’s Venus (+4.98 harmony) – Ethan’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Tom’s cuteness charms Ethan’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Ethan and Tom can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Tom’s Venus Trines Ethan’s Mars (+4.65 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Ethan’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of Ethan and loving nature of Tom. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

Tom’s Moon Trines Ethan’s Pluto (+4.45 harmony) – Tom’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Ethan’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Tom and Ethan. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Ethan’s Sun Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+4.23 harmony) – Ethan’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Ethan can bring out the psychoanalyst in Tom.

Tom’s Mercury Trines Ethan’s Saturn (+3.54 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Ethan’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Ethan helps give form to Tom’s ideas. Tom learns a lot from Ethan’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when Ethan offers practical guidance that improves Tom’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Ethan’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Uranus (+3.01 harmony) – Ethan’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between Ethan and Tom. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Ethan’s Jupiter Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+2.81 harmony) – Ethan’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.

Ethan’s Jupiter Conjuncts Tom’s Jupiter (+2.69 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. Ethan and Tom’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

Ethan’s Mercury Conjuncts Tom’s Jupiter (+2.51 harmony) – Ethan’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Ethan’s ideas combine with Tom’s dreams. Tom’s faith deepens Ethan’s intellectual self-confidence. Tom sympathizes with Ethan’s desire for mental advancement. Ethan respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Tom.

Tom’s Mars Sextiles Ethan’s Uranus (+2.09 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Ethan’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.

Tom’s Mercury Conjuncts Ethan’s Venus (+1.95 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Ethan’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Tom’s communication style combines with Ethan’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Ethan makes Tom feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.

Ethan’s Sun Conjuncts Tom’s Jupiter (+0.67 harmony) – Ethan’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is a combination of great abundance and boundless possibilities in the relationship. Both Ethan and Tom share similar values and philosophy in life. Each will protect and defend one another when threatened by others.

Ethan’s Venus Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (+0.28 harmony) – Ethan’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. Tom may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than Ethan is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

Ethan’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Ethan and Tom complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Ethan’s Neptune Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Ethan and Tom share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Ethan or Tom.

Ethan’s Pluto Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Ethan and Tom enjoy the same cultural references. Tom and Ethan have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Ethan’s Mars Squares Tom’s Saturn (-0.35 discord) – Ethan’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Tom’s constructive ideas and Ethan’s enthusiasm. Tom may have unreasonable demands for Ethan. This makes Ethan impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Ethan’s Moon Conjuncts Tom’s Mars (-0.40 discord) – Ethan’s emotional needs combine with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Tom arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of Ethan. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between Ethan and Tom will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of Tom can be unbearable to the emotional character of Ethan. Both Tom and Ethan are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

Ethan’s Mars Conjuncts Tom’s Mars (-0.63 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine within the couple. Both have similar instincts regarding sex and intimacy. The tendency of action will be identical in Ethan and Tom. The same energy and desire may cause rivalry.

Tom’s Sun Squares Ethan’s Uranus (-1.13 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Ethan’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Ethan produces friction with the selfishness of Tom. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Ethan might resent and even rebel against Tom’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Tom and Ethan.

Ethan’s Moon Squares Tom’s Neptune (-3.24 discord) – Ethan’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. Tom can be deceptive or dishonest to Ethan. Ethan can overreact to the confusion caused by Tom. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.

Ethan’s Venus Squares Tom’s Uranus (-3.24 discord) – Ethan’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Ethan’s Mars (-3.53 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Ethan’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Tom and Ethan. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Ethan and Tom are together.

Tom’s Jupiter Squares Ethan’s Saturn (-3.60 discord) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Ethan’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Ethan’s view of responsibility and Tom’s dreams of expansion. Ethan places too much responsibility on Tom. Tom feels confined and frustrated.

Tom’s Mars Squares Ethan’s Neptune (-4.41 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Ethan’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Ethan’s elusive reaction to Tom’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Ethan’s Moon (-4.49 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Ethan’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of Tom and the sensitive nature of Ethan. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

Ethan’s Moon Squares Tom’s Moon (-5.08 discord) – The individual emotional needs interact stressfully within the couple. Ethan and Tom’s hearts and souls lack a basic understanding or sympathy with each other. Minor clashes of mood and attitude can cause friction but not enough to destroy the relationship. Both Tom and Ethan are moody by nature and have the tendency to exaggerate trivial disagreements.

Tom’s Moon Conjuncts Ethan’s Saturn (-5.20 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs combine with Ethan’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Ethan tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Tom. Tom may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Ethan imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Tom and Ethan.

Tom’s Moon Squares Ethan’s Mars (-7.18 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Ethan’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when Tom becomes indecisive when reacting to Ethan’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Tom and Ethan.

Ethan’s Mars Squares Tom’s Neptune (-7.54 discord) – Ethan’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Tom’s elusive reaction to Ethan’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Tom’s Mercury Squares Ethan’s Uranus (-10.20 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Ethan’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Ethan may seem unstable and erratic to Tom. Tom may seem elusive and contradictory to Ethan. Ethan stimulates, excites, and irritates Tom’s mind simultaneously. Tom can’t understand the complex mind of Ethan. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Ethan’s Saturn Opposes Tom’s Neptune (-10.87 discord) – Ethan’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Ethan’s domineering nature and Tom’s anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

Tom’s Moon Squares Ethan’s Mercury (-11.01 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Ethan’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. Tom is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret Ethan’s intentions. Ethan pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of Tom. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

Ethan’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Neptune (-11.17 discord) – Ethan’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Ethan’s method of thinking. Both Ethan and Tom are capable of lying to each other. Tom’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Ethan’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Mars (-11.89 discord) – Ethan’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in Tom’s aggressive attitude and Ethan’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. Ethan’s sarcasm could provoke Tom’s temper.

Tom’s Saturn Opposes Ethan’s Neptune (-12.72 discord) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Ethan’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Tom’s domineering nature and Ethan’s anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

Tom’s Mars Squares Ethan’s Saturn (-13.83 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Ethan’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Ethan’s constructive ideas and Tom’s enthusiasm. Ethan may have unreasonable demands for Tom. This makes Tom impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Tom’s Moon Opposes Ethan’s Neptune (-14.97 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs confront and challenge Ethan’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Tom can overreact to the confusion caused by Ethan. Ethan can be deceptive or dishonest to Tom. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Ethan’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Saturn (-15.60 discord) – Ethan’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Tom’s criticism and disapproval of Ethan’s achievements. Ethan may seem careless and annoying to Tom. Tom may appear cold and bossy to Ethan. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Ethan’s Saturn Conjuncts Tom’s Saturn (-20.49 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. Ethan and Tom share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if Ethan and Tom are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

There are 6 mutual receptions in Ethan and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +60 harmony to the total score. The remaining -8.30 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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