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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -19

HIM born October 11, 1990
Libra ♎

Her born July 11, 1988
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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HIM and Her’s Relationship

Her and HIM’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Libra. No individual is a pure Cancer or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in HIM’s birth chart and the planets in Her’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Her’s Sun Trines HIM’s Pluto (+9.15 harmony) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with HIM’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Her can bring out the psychoanalyst in HIM. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both HIM and Her. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Her and HIM to a long-term relationship.

Her’s Venus Sextiles HIM’s Jupiter (+6.30 harmony) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with HIM’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

HIM’s Sun Trines Her’s Venus (+6.12 harmony) – HIM’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Her’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Her and HIM. Her’s power of attraction is in harmony with HIM’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

HIM’s Venus Trines Her’s Venus (+5.49 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very comfortably with the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. HIM and Her have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

HIM’s Neptune Sextiles Her’s Pluto (+4.90 harmony) – HIM’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of HIM stimulates the reforming urge of Her. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

HIM’s Sun Trines Her’s Moon (+4.46 harmony) – HIM’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Her’s emotional needs. Her’s sensitive nature and HIM’s personality are in harmony. Her inspires and gives comfort to HIM. HIM supports, encourages, and revitalizes Her. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

HIM’s Moon Trines Her’s Mars (+4.15 harmony) – HIM’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the physical intimacy and irresistible attraction between HIM and Her. HIM inspires the development of Her’s sexual fire. Her stimulates HIM’s imagination and self-confidence. This aspect encourages reproduction if Her is male and HIM is female.

HIM’s Mercury Trines Her’s Venus (+4.13 harmony) – HIM’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. HIM’s communication style is in harmony with Her’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Her makes HIM feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

HIM’s Moon Sextiles Her’s Jupiter (+3.50 harmony) – HIM’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. Her is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward HIM. HIM inspires and encourages Her’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Her to HIM.

HIM’s Uranus Sextiles Her’s Pluto (+3.12 harmony) – HIM’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Her’s Jupiter Trines HIM’s Saturn (+0.87 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. HIM’s practicality is in harmony with Her’s expansive ideas. Her provides vision while HIM creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Her’s Sun Conjuncts HIM’s Moon (neutral) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with HIM’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of Her connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of HIM. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Her’s Venus Conjuncts HIM’s Mars (neutral) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with HIM’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. HIM’s desire fuses with Her’s loving nature. Both are magnetically attracted to each other. HIM can be jealous or possessive. Her has a soothing effect on HIM.

HIM’s Uranus Conjuncts Her’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both HIM and Her complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

HIM’s Uranus Conjuncts Her’s Neptune (neutral) – HIM’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Her’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between HIM and Her. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Her or HIM to evade responsibility.

HIM’s Neptune Conjuncts Her’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both HIM and Her share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in HIM or Her.

HIM’s Pluto Conjuncts Her’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. HIM and Her enjoy the same cultural references. Her and HIM have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Her’s Jupiter Opposes HIM’s Pluto (-0.22 discord) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges HIM’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Personal struggles between Her and HIM can’t be avoided. There will be conflicting ideas that can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult.

Her’s Moon Conjuncts HIM’s Mars (-0.87 discord) – Her’s emotional needs combine with HIM’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. HIM arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of Her. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between Her and HIM will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of HIM can be unbearable to the emotional character of Her. Both HIM and Her are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

HIM’s Moon Opposes Her’s Neptune (-1.08 discord) – HIM’s emotional needs confront and challenge Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. HIM can overreact to the confusion caused by Her. Her can be deceptive or dishonest to HIM. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Her’s Sun Opposes HIM’s Uranus (-1.52 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge HIM’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of Her and the independent nature of HIM. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted HIM and Her together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

HIM’s Venus Squares Her’s Neptune (-1.53 discord) – HIM’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between HIM and Her. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Her’s Saturn Conjuncts HIM’s Uranus (-1.92 discord) – Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with HIM’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. HIM is radical and rebellious while Her is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Her’s Sun Squares HIM’s Mercury (-2.73 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with HIM’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between HIM and Her. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. HIM might be too aggressive in communicating with Her.

Her’s Mars Squares HIM’s Uranus (-3.75 discord) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with HIM’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Her resents the quiet side of HIM. HIM dislikes the over emotional side of Her. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Her’s Sun Squares HIM’s Venus (-3.81 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with HIM’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between HIM’s romantic sensibilities and Her’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

HIM’s Jupiter Squares Her’s Pluto (-4.95 discord) – HIM’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to HIM.

Her’s Mercury Opposes HIM’s Uranus (-5.08 discord) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge HIM’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension when both minds meet. HIM may seem unstable and erratic to Her. Her may seem elusive and contradictory to HIM. HIM stimulates, excites, and irritates Her’s mind simultaneously. Her can’t understand the complex mind of HIM. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

HIM’s Mercury Squares Her’s Neptune (-6.40 discord) – HIM’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Her’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in HIM’s method of thinking. Both HIM and Her are capable of lying to each other. Her’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

HIM’s Saturn Conjuncts Her’s Neptune (-6.57 discord) – HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Her can add a degree of holiness to HIM’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

Her’s Sun Opposes HIM’s Neptune (-7.50 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge HIM’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between HIM and Her is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. HIM can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Her.

HIM’s Sun Squares Her’s Sun (-10.52 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between HIM and Her can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Her’s Sun Opposes HIM’s Saturn (-28.60 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge HIM’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Her and HIM. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Her may feel HIM being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. HIM may feel Her being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

There are 5 mutual receptions in HIM and Her’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -34.14 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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