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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +14

Her born May 31, 1986
Gemini ♊

Him born October 12, 1974
Libra ♎

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Her and Him’s Relationship

Him and Her’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Libra and Gemini. No individual is a pure Libra or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Her’s birth chart and the planets in Him’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Him’s Mercury Trines Her’s Venus (+13.30 harmony) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Him’s communication style is in harmony with Her’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Her makes Him feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Her’s Venus Trines Him’s Jupiter (+12.10 harmony) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Him’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Him’s Sun Trines Her’s Mercury (+10.90 harmony) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Her’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Him and Her is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Her understands Him’s intentions. Him supports Her’s intellectual excitement. Her is able to discuss problems with Him. Together they can work out a solution.

Her’s Mercury Trines Him’s Mars (+8.68 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Her’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Him’s encouragement.

Her’s Jupiter Trines Him’s Saturn (+8.45 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Him’s practicality is in harmony with Her’s expansive ideas. Her provides vision while Him creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Him’s Moon Trines Her’s Neptune (+7.14 harmony) – Him’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Him and Her. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Her’s Sun Trines Him’s Venus (+6.73 harmony) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Him’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Him and Her. Him’s power of attraction is in harmony with Her’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Him’s Jupiter Trines Her’s Pluto (+6.40 harmony) – Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both have the potential to accomplish something big together. There is harmony in encouraging the spiritual enlightenment of one another.

Her’s Mercury Trines Him’s Venus (+5.60 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Her’s communication style is in harmony with Him’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Him makes Her feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Her’s Sun Trines Him’s Pluto (+5.42 harmony) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Her can bring out the psychoanalyst in Him. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Him and Her. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Her and Him to a long-term relationship.

Him’s Jupiter Sextiles Her’s Neptune (+4.96 harmony) – Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is an idealistic bond between Him and Her. Him’s expansive dreams stimulate Her’s intuitions. Both encourage each other to realize real goals.

Him’s Sun Sextiles Her’s Uranus (+4.95 harmony) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Him and Her have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for Her and Him.

Her’s Moon Trines Him’s Saturn (+4.67 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of Her are stabilized by Him. Her expands the ideas of Him with practical imagination. Him will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when Her is depressed. Her and Him complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Her and Him.

Her’s Mercury Trines Him’s Uranus (+4.33 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between Her and Him. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Him’s Mars Sextiles Her’s Uranus (+4.21 harmony) – Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.

Him’s Moon Sextiles Her’s Pluto (+4.10 harmony) – Him’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between Him and Her. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Him’s Moon Sextiles Her’s Venus (+3.85 harmony) – Him’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. Him and Her have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between Him and Her.

Him’s Mercury Trines Her’s Jupiter (+3.61 harmony) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Him’s thoughts are in harmony with Her’s dreams. Her’s faith deepens Him’s intellectual self-confidence. Her sympathizes with Him’s desire for mental advancement. Him respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Her.

Him’s Mercury Sextiles Her’s Neptune (+2.58 harmony) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Her stimulates the imagination of Him. Him’s practical suggestions give form to Her’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Her and Him. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

Her’s Saturn Sextiles Him’s Pluto (+1.99 harmony) – Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Her’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate Him’s power of transformation. Her can give stability to Him’s feelings of loneliness. Him can strengthen Her’s sense of authority.

Her’s Moon Trines Him’s Mercury (+1.30 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Him’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Him and Her are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.

Her’s Moon Conjuncts Him’s Jupiter (+1.29 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine with Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The fusion encourages mutual confidence and respect in each other. Him can be protective of Her and can be too indulgent at the same time. Her inspires and promotes Him’s expansive aspirations. Even when things go wrong, Him will not harbor any ill feelings toward Her. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Him to Her. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it.

Her’s Jupiter Conjuncts Him’s Jupiter (+0.68 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. Her and Him’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

Her’s Uranus Sextiles Him’s Uranus (+0.28 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with the couple. Her and Him stimulate each other’s strange ideas. There is a feeling of openness. Both enjoy their own craziness. The relationship encourages one another to have a broader view of the changes affecting society in general.

Him’s Mercury Conjuncts Her’s Pluto (neutral) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Her can have an explosive effect on Him’s viewpoints. Him can expand Her’s range of interest in various areas of life. Her’s influence on Him is stronger than Him’s on Her. Her has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Him and could be ruthless in doing so.

Him’s Uranus Conjuncts Her’s Pluto (neutral) – Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if Him and Her have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

Him’s Moon Opposes Her’s Jupiter (-0.42 discord) – Him’s emotional needs confront and challenges Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The tension between Him and Her is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. Having disagreements about religion, money, and relatives is common. Him may feel uncomfortable when Her misunderstands a passing mood. Her may make extravagant pledges making Him to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

Her’s Venus Conjuncts Him’s Saturn (-1.33 discord) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. Him provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. Her’s sympathy and affection stimulate Him’s confidence. Him can become possessive of Her. Her can feel restricted by Him’s criticism and discipline.

Her’s Moon Opposes Him’s Moon (-1.73 discord) – The individual emotional needs complement each other. Both are attracted to each other and can be sexually or domestically compatible. The differences in moods and feelings are mutually helpful. Her and Him’s personalities are different, but there is seldom severe conflict. This is a right combination for marriage if other aspects of the relationship are harmonious.

Him’s Venus Squares Her’s Neptune (-2.06 discord) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Him and Her. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Him’s Sun Squares Her’s Venus (-2.33 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Her’s romantic sensibilities and Him’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Her’s Venus Squares Him’s Mars (-2.44 discord) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Her and Him in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Him feels suffocated by Her’s possessiveness. Her can be deeply hurt by Him’s thoughtless words.

Her’s Sun Squares Him’s Jupiter (-3.53 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Him’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Her and Him have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Him and Her may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Her’s Venus Squares Him’s Pluto (-3.96 discord) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Her’s Saturn Conjuncts Him’s Neptune (-4.38 discord) – Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Him can add a degree of holiness to Her’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

Her’s Venus Squares Him’s Venus (-4.76 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully within the couple. Both have different romantic styles. There is friction in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Him’s Sun Squares Her’s Mars (-5.14 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Him and Her. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Her and Him is necessary for the union to work. Her will have to work on patience while Him will have to work on humility.

Him’s Jupiter Squares Her’s Saturn (-5.36 discord) – Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Her’s view of responsibility and Him’s dreams of expansion. Her places too much responsibility on Him. Him feels confined and frustrated.

Her’s Mars Squares Him’s Uranus (-6.40 discord) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Her resents the quiet side of Him. Him dislikes the over emotional side of Her. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Her’s Mars Squares Him’s Mars (-7.16 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully within the couple. There is friction in own wills and desires. Everyday activities together can lead to conflicts. Cooperation is difficult to achieve between Her and Him. Each one fears the other’s anger. This aspect is challenging to deal with.

Her’s Neptune Squares Him’s Pluto (-7.93 discord) – Her’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of Her and Him. Him will likely have a more forceful personality that Her. Her attempts to give Him spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. Him in return will psychoanalyze Her’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

Her’s Sun Squares Him’s Moon (-8.22 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Him’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. Her’s domineering personality can overwhelm Him’s emotional and sensitive nature. Him can appear moody to Her’s inconsiderate behavior.

Her’s Sun Opposes Him’s Neptune (-8.88 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between Him and Her is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. Him can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Her.

Him’s Moon Squares Her’s Saturn (-12.29 discord) – Him’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between Her’s practicality and Him’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Her can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward Him. Him can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward Her.

Her’s Mars Opposes Him’s Saturn (-13.82 discord) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Her’s impulsive attitude and Him’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

There are 2 mutual receptions in Her and Him’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -31.38 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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