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Her born October 19, 1981
Libra ♎
Him born November 17, 1980
Scorpio ♏
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Scoring Overview
A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.
A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”
A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.
A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.
A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”
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Her and Him’s Relationship
Him and Her’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Scorpio and Libra. No individual is a pure Scorpio or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Her’s birth chart and the planets in Him’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).
A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.
Her’s Moon Trines Him’s Moon (+10.69 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine very comfortably. Him and Her’s hearts and souls share a basic understanding of each other. There are sympathy and agreement in both big and small things. The dispositions and temperaments are the same between Her and Him. Their moods are in harmony. They comfort and nourish each other naturally. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a serious relationship.
Him’s Venus Conjuncts Her’s Jupiter (+9.88 harmony) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Her’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.
Her’s Jupiter Sextiles Him’s Neptune (+8.26 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is an idealistic bond between Her and Him. Her’s expansive dreams stimulate Him’s intuitions. Both encourage each other to realize real goals.
Him’s Venus Sextiles Her’s Neptune (+6.60 harmony) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Him is willing to overlook Her’s faults. Her is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.
Her’s Neptune Sextiles Him’s Pluto (+4.67 harmony) – Her’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Her stimulates the reforming urge of Him. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.
Him’s Sun Trines Her’s Moon (+4.38 harmony) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Her’s emotional needs. Her’s sensitive nature and Him’s personality are in harmony. Her inspires and gives comfort to Him. Him supports, encourages, and revitalizes Her. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.
Her’s Sun Sextiles Him’s Mars (+4.09 harmony) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between Her and Him.
Him’s Neptune Sextiles Her’s Pluto (+4.07 harmony) – Him’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Him stimulates the reforming urge of Her. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.
Her’s Moon Trines Him’s Uranus (+3.86 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Her and Him are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Him and Her are together. Him awakens and inspires ideas in Her. Her’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Him’s inventiveness and creativity.
Her’s Mercury Sextiles Him’s Neptune (+3.74 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Him stimulates the imagination of Her. Her’s practical suggestions give form to Him’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Him and Her. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.
Her’s Jupiter Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (+3.64 harmony) – Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Him can be possessive and domineering. Her will inspire and encourage Him. The combination can either be in harmony or discord depending on other aspects. This aspect helps deepen the connection between Her and Him.
Him’s Mars Sextiles Her’s Pluto (+3.59 harmony) – Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is extraordinary stimulation between Him and Her. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is excellent in a business partnership.
Him’s Venus Conjuncts Her’s Pluto (+2.80 harmony) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. Her may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than Him is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.
Her’s Mars Trines Him’s Mars (+2.74 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of Her and Him. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. Him and Her are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.
Her’s Mercury Sextiles Him’s Mars (+2.34 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Her’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Him’s encouragement.
Her’s Mercury Conjuncts Him’s Venus (+2.32 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Her’s communication style combines with Him’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Him makes Her feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.
Her’s Sun Conjuncts Him’s Venus (+1.73 harmony) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Her has the same social interests and cultural values as Him. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both Him and Her enjoy each other’s company.
Him’s Mars Sextiles Her’s Jupiter (+1.69 harmony) – Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates mutual helpfulness in achieving prosperity. Him provides a foundation for aggressive action for Her’s dreams of development. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.
Her’s Sun Sextiles Him’s Neptune (+1.40 harmony) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Him and Her. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Him knows what Her is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.
Him’s Jupiter Sextiles Her’s Uranus (+0.70 harmony) – Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Him’s visions stimulate Her’s creative genius. Him will expand Her’s goals and creativity. Her adds innovation and excitement to Him’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.
Him’s Moon Trines Her’s Uranus (+0.65 harmony) – Him’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Him and Her are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Her and Him are together. Her awakens and inspires ideas in Him. Him’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Her’s inventiveness and creativity.
Her’s Venus Sextiles Him’s Saturn (+0.63 harmony) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Him’s protective nature stimulates Her’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.
Her’s Moon Trines Him’s Mercury (+0.41 harmony) – Her’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Him’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Him and Her are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.
Her’s Mars Trines Him’s Neptune (+0.25 harmony) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. Her helps Him fight procrastination. Him inspires Her to more significant achievements.
Her’s Venus Conjuncts Him’s Neptune (+0.08 harmony) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is mutual interest in nature or culture like art and music. There is sympathy, deep affection, and devotion toward each other. This aspect intensifies other aspects. A general positive score will become more positive and vice versa.
Her’s Sun Conjuncts Him’s Mercury (neutral) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Him’s mentality and powers of perception. There is effective communication and fewer misunderstanding between Her and Him. Both can work together in their similar ideas and points of view. Her supports the progressive ideas of Him. Him understands the unique individuality of Her.
Her’s Sun Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (neutral) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Her and Him are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.
Her’s Mercury Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (neutral) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Him can have an explosive effect on Her’s viewpoints. Her can expand Him’s range of interest in various areas of life. Him’s influence on Her is stronger than Her’s on Him. Him has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Her and could be ruthless in doing so.
Him’s Sun Conjuncts Her’s Uranus (neutral) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The creative talents of Him combine with the individualism of Her. There is always something extraordinary or unconventional in the relationship. Him is uncertain of how Her will react in a given situation. The erratic tendency of Her has a disorganizing effect on Him.
Her’s Uranus Conjuncts Him’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Her and Him complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.
Her’s Neptune Conjuncts Him’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Her and Him share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Her or Him.
Him’s Mercury Conjuncts Her’s Pluto (neutral) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Her can have an explosive effect on Him’s viewpoints. Him can expand Her’s range of interest in various areas of life. Her’s influence on Him is stronger than Him’s on Her. Her has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Him and could be ruthless in doing so.
Her’s Pluto Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Her and Him enjoy the same cultural references. Him and Her have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.
Him’s Venus Conjuncts Her’s Saturn (-0.63 discord) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. Her provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. Him’s sympathy and affection stimulate Her’s confidence. Her can become possessive of Him. Him can feel restricted by Her’s criticism and discipline.
Her’s Moon Squares Him’s Saturn (-1.31 discord) – Her’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between Him’s practicality and Her’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Him can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward Her. Her can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward Him.
Him’s Mars Conjuncts Her’s Neptune (-1.53 discord) – Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion may combine with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Him excites Her’s emotions. Her encourages Him to have bigger goals. Him can overstimulate the imagination of Her. Her can have a dissolving effect on the energies of Him. The relationship can be confusing for both Him and Her. There is a strong possibility of self-indulgence in one or both.
Him’s Moon Squares Her’s Venus (-2.04 discord) – Him’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Him and Her can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Her and Him. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.
Her’s Saturn Conjuncts Him’s Saturn (-2.09 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. Her and Him share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if Her and Him are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.
Him’s Sun Squares Her’s Mars (-5.29 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Him and Her. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Her and Him is necessary for the union to work. Her will have to work on patience while Him will have to work on humility.
Her’s Moon Squares Him’s Venus (-5.81 discord) – Her’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Her and Him can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Him and Her. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.
Her’s Mars Squares Him’s Uranus (-5.94 discord) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Her resents the quiet side of Him. Him dislikes the over emotional side of Her. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.
Him’s Moon Squares Her’s Neptune (-6.34 discord) – Him’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. Her can be deceptive or dishonest to Him. Him can overreact to the confusion caused by Her. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.
Her’s Moon Squares Him’s Pluto (-6.70 discord) – Her’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Her’s defensive nature and Him’s nastiness. Him expects Her to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.
There are 3 mutual receptions in Her and Him’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add to the total score. The remaining are due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.
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Her and Him don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”
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