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Birthday Compatibility Score: +3

Her born October 21, 1967
Libra ♎

Him born June 22, 1966
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Her and Him’s Relationship

Him and Her’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Libra. No individual is a pure Cancer or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Her’s birth chart and the planets in Him’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Him’s Sun Sextiles Her’s Jupiter (+11.58 harmony) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Her’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Him stimulates Her to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Her and Him can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Him’s Mercury Trines Her’s Neptune (+10.53 harmony) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Her inspires the creativity of Him. Him’s practical suggestions give form to Her’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Her’s Sun Trines Him’s Sun (+8.78 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Her and Him can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Her’s Venus Sextiles Him’s Jupiter (+8.35 harmony) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Him’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Him’s Venus Trines Her’s Uranus (+8.09 harmony) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Her surprises Him in one way or another. Him has a pleasant way of toning down Her’s eccentricity.

Her’s Mercury Trines Him’s Jupiter (+7.21 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Her’s thoughts are in harmony with Him’s dreams. Him’s faith deepens Her’s intellectual self-confidence. Him sympathizes with Her’s desire for mental advancement. Her respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Him.

Her’s Mercury Sextiles Him’s Pluto (+6.65 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Him stimulates Her to be open to new ways of thinking. Her appreciates Him’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Him’s influence on Her is stronger than Her’s on Him.

Her’s Mercury Sextiles Him’s Uranus (+6.54 harmony) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. Her and Him bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Him’s Mercury Sextiles Her’s Uranus (+5.75 harmony) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. Him and Her bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Him’s Mercury Sextiles Her’s Pluto (+5.16 harmony) – Him’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Her stimulates Him to be open to new ways of thinking. Him appreciates Her’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Her’s influence on Him is stronger than Him’s on Her.

Her’s Mercury Trines Him’s Mercury (+4.75 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between Her and Him. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Him’s Neptune Sextiles Her’s Pluto (+4.06 harmony) – Him’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Him stimulates the reforming urge of Her. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Him’s Venus Trines Her’s Pluto (+4.03 harmony) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony when both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Him and Her makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Her’s Venus Conjuncts Him’s Uranus (+2.78 harmony) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. Him is tolerant and encouraging toward Her. Her can be more creative than Him. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Him’s Saturn Trines Her’s Neptune (+1.86 harmony) – Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Him’s practical instincts are in harmony with Her’s visions and dreams. Him has a good sense of reality that Her might not have. Her is aware of a different dimension that can help Him.

Her’s Venus Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (+1.60 harmony) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Him’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. Him may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than Her is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

Him’s Moon Conjuncts Her’s Jupiter (+1.16 harmony) – Him’s emotional needs combine with Her’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The fusion encourages mutual confidence and respect in each other. Her can be protective of Him and can be too indulgent at the same time. Him inspires and promotes Her’s expansive aspirations. Even when things go wrong, Her will not harbor any ill feelings toward Him. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Her to Him. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it.

Him’s Moon Trines Her’s Mars (+0.62 harmony) – Him’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the physical intimacy and irresistible attraction between Him and Her. Him inspires the development of Her’s sexual fire. Her stimulates Him’s imagination and self-confidence. This aspect encourages reproduction if Her is male and Him is female.

Her’s Mercury Conjuncts Him’s Neptune (neutral) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Him’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Him brings out the poet and dreamer in Her. There is a robust telepathic connection between Her and Him that helps to understand each other without speaking a word. Sometimes Her can win arguments even when it’s wrong.

Her’s Neptune Conjuncts Him’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Her and Him share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Her or Him.

Him’s Uranus Conjuncts Her’s Pluto (neutral) – Him’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if Him and Her have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

Her’s Pluto Conjuncts Him’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Her and Him enjoy the same cultural references. Him and Her have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Her’s Mars Opposes Him’s Jupiter (-0.52 discord) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Her is rash and aggressive while Him can be overly optimistic. There is a tendency of rivalry between Her and Him. There is tension in individual ambitions.

Him’s Saturn Opposes Her’s Pluto (-0.54 discord) – Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the relationship when Him and Her compete for influence and dominance. Her may try to reform Him’s strict and severe attitudes toward life. Him’s conservative opinion weakens the inner energy of Her.

Her’s Mars Opposes Him’s Mars (-0.63 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge each other. Ordinary activities together can lead to conflicts. There is a tendency to obstruct each other’s work. The relationship creates hostile energy making cooperation challenging to achieve.

Him’s Venus Squares Her’s Jupiter (-0.74 discord) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Her’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Her may occasionally accuse Him of not being entirely open and honest. Him may accuse Her of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Him’s Mars Squares Her’s Pluto (-1.89 discord) – Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Her’s Venus Squares Him’s Mars (-3.11 discord) – Her’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Him’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Her and Him in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Him feels suffocated by Her’s possessiveness. Her can be deeply hurt by Him’s thoughtless words.

Him’s Sun Squares Her’s Pluto (-3.13 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Him and Her can cause damage to the relationship.

Her’s Mercury Opposes Him’s Venus (-5.27 discord) – Her’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Her and Him. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Her tends to disregard the emotional needs of Him. Him may find Her cold and calculative.

Him’s Venus Opposes Her’s Neptune (-5.33 discord) – Him’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Him and Her. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause tension and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Him’s Moon Squares Her’s Neptune (-6.55 discord) – Him’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Her’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. Her can be deceptive or dishonest to Him. Him can overreact to the confusion caused by Her. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.

Him’s Jupiter Squares Her’s Saturn (-7.46 discord) – Him’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Her’s view of responsibility and Him’s dreams of expansion. Her places too much responsibility on Him. Him feels confined and frustrated.

Him’s Sun Squares Her’s Saturn (-7.52 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Her’s controlling nature and Him’s egocentric nature. Him struggles to break free from the limits set by Her. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

Him’s Sun Squares Her’s Uranus (-8.22 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Her produces friction with the selfishness of Him. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Her might resent and even rebel against Him’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Him and Her.

Her’s Sun Squares Him’s Mercury (-9.18 discord) – Her’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Him’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Him and Her. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Him might be too aggressive in communicating with Her.

Him’s Moon Squares Her’s Mercury (-9.68 discord) – Him’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Her’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. Him is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret Her’s intentions. Her pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of Him. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

Him’s Saturn Opposes Her’s Uranus (-14.61 discord) – Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Her’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension between Him’s practicality and Her’s innovative nature. Him wants solidarity while Her wants alteration.

Him’s Sun Opposes Her’s Mars (-16.52 discord) – Him’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Him and Her. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Her and Him are together.

Her’s Mars Squares Him’s Saturn (-16.54 discord) – Her’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Him’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Him’s constructive ideas and Her’s enthusiasm. Him may have unreasonable demands for Her. This makes Her impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

There are 4 mutual receptions in Her and Him’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -19.06 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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