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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -12

I born August 9, 1980
Leo ♌

J born April 4, 1981
Aries ♈

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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I and J’s Relationship

J and I’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aries and Leo. No individual is a pure Aries or Leo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in I’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Venus (+11.07 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between J and I. J’s power of attraction is in harmony with I’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Sun (+9.59 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. I and J can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

J’s Mercury Trines I’s Uranus (+7.93 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between J and I. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

I’s Mercury Trines J’s Uranus (+7.14 harmony) – I’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between I and J. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Mars (+6.88 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. I and J are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both J and I inspire creative passion in one another.

J’s Sun Trines I’s Neptune (+6.59 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between I and J. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Venus Trines I’s Neptune (+4.81 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. J is willing to overlook I’s faults. I is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Moon (+4.70 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s emotional needs. J’s sensitive nature and I’s personality are in harmony. J inspires and gives comfort to I. I supports, encourages, and revitalizes J. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Neptune (+4.19 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between J and I. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

I’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+3.83 harmony) – I’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of I stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

I’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Jupiter (+3.41 harmony) – I’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. I’s ideas stimulate J’s dreams. J’s faith deepens I’s intellectual self-confidence. J sympathizes with I’s desire for mental advancement. I respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of J.

J’s Mars Trines I’s Neptune (+3.13 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. J helps I fight procrastination. I inspires J to more significant achievements.

I’s Sun Sextiles J’s Pluto (+1.83 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. I can bring out the psychoanalyst in J.

I’s Venus Trines J’s Pluto (+1.12 harmony) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony when both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between I and J makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

I’s Saturn Sextiles J’s Uranus (+0.61 harmony) – I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both I and J. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. J is spontaneous and creative while I is sensible and rational.

J’s Neptune Sextiles I’s Pluto (+0.61 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of I. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts I’s Saturn (neutral) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. I’s practicality fuses with J’s expansive ideas. J provides vision while I creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

I’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both I and J complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

I’s Neptune Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both I and J share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in I or J.

I’s Pluto Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. I and J enjoy the same cultural references. J and I have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

J’s Moon Squares I’s Venus (-0.43 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. J and I can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between I and J. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

J’s Mercury Opposes I’s Jupiter (-0.86 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. J will seem petty to I. I might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

J’s Moon Opposes I’s Pluto (-1.28 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in J’s defensive nature and I’s nastiness. I expects J to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

I’s Venus Squares J’s Jupiter (-1.50 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. J may occasionally accuse I of not being entirely open and honest. I may accuse J of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

I’s Venus Opposes J’s Neptune (-1.90 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between I and J. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause tension and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

I’s Mercury Squares J’s Pluto (-2.63 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both I and J have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both J and I.

I’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Pluto (-3.09 discord) – A delicate combination of I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for I and J.

J’s Moon Opposes I’s Mars (-4.04 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when I becomes rude or aggressive toward J. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between J and I. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

J’s Mercury Squares I’s Neptune (-4.42 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. I’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in J’s method of thinking. Both J and I are capable of lying to each other. I’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

J’s Venus Opposes I’s Pluto (-4.83 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is tension in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

I’s Venus Squares J’s Saturn (-5.64 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in the controlling nature of J and the affectionate nature of I. I feels dominated. J tends to impose too much responsibility on I.

J’s Venus Opposes I’s Mars (-8.39 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between J and I in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes tension and disputes. I feels suffocated by J’s possessiveness. J can be deeply hurt by I’s thoughtless words.

J’s Mars Opposes I’s Pluto (-8.45 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is intense competition in the relationship.

J’s Sun Opposes I’s Pluto (-10.18 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. I will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of J. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

I’s Saturn Squares J’s Neptune (-11.86 discord) – I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in I’s realism and J’s idealism.

I’s Mars Opposes J’s Mars (-13.07 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge each other. Ordinary activities together can lead to conflicts. There is a tendency to obstruct each other’s work. The relationship creates hostile energy making cooperation challenging to achieve.

J’s Sun Opposes I’s Mars (-15.16 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between J and I. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when I and J are together.

J’s Mercury Opposes I’s Saturn (-15.37 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in I’s criticism and disapproval of J’s achievements. J may seem careless and annoying to I. I may appear cold and bossy to J. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There are 3 mutual receptions in I and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -6.34 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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I and J don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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