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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -63

I born May 29, 1980
Gemini ♊

J born April 11, 1979
Aries ♈

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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I and J’s Relationship

J and I’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aries and Gemini. No individual is a pure Aries or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in I’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Sun Trines I’s Neptune (+11.34 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between I and J. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Moon (+7.39 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s emotional needs. J’s sensitive nature and I’s personality are in harmony. J inspires and gives comfort to I. I supports, encourages, and revitalizes J. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

J’s Neptune Sextiles I’s Pluto (+4.82 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of I. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Mercury Trines I’s Uranus (+4.41 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between J and I. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

I’s Mercury Trines J’s Pluto (+3.93 harmony) – I’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in how each other influence the other’s mind. There are depth and wisdom in the relationship. J encourages I to think more deeply. When both I and J combine their minds, they can build their exciting ideas into a giant success.

I’s Saturn Sextiles J’s Uranus (+3.45 harmony) – I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both I and J. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. J is spontaneous and creative while I is sensible and rational.

J’s Sun Sextiles I’s Mercury (+3.18 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with I’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between J and I. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

I’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+3.09 harmony) – I’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of I stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Sun Trines I’s Jupiter (+1.73 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with I’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in J and I’s goal of expanding their horizons. There are much optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship. J inspires I to plan big dreams. I will make J feel terrific. This aspect helps bring good luck and financial success in a business partnership.

J’s Venus Trines I’s Uranus (+1.31 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. I surprises J in one way or another. J has a pleasant way of toning down I’s eccentricity.

I’s Venus Sextiles J’s Saturn (+1.05 harmony) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J’s protective nature stimulates I’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

I’s Sun Sextiles J’s Mars (+0.91 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between I and J.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Pluto (+0.49 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. I can bring out the psychoanalyst in J. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both J and I. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead I and J to a long-term relationship.

I’s Jupiter Conjuncts J’s Saturn (neutral) – I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. J’s practicality fuses with I’s expansive ideas. I provides vision while J creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

I’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both I and J complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

I’s Neptune Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both I and J share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in I or J.

J’s Moon Conjuncts I’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s emotional needs combine with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion can be either very good or very bad depending on other aspects of the relationship. There is a powerful physical attraction between I and J. I expands the ideas, imagination, and viewpoints of J. Sometimes J will find I to be possessive, jealous, and domineering.

I’s Pluto Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. I and J enjoy the same cultural references. J and I have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

I’s Venus Opposes J’s Neptune (-0.18 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between I and J. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause tension and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

I’s Sun Squares J’s Venus (-0.21 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between J’s romantic sensibilities and I’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

I’s Mercury Squares J’s Venus (-1.61 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between I and J. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. I tends to disregard the emotional needs of J. J may find I cold and calculative.

J’s Moon Squares I’s Venus (-2.47 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. J and I can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between I and J. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

J’s Venus Opposes I’s Mars (-3.03 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between J and I in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes tension and disputes. I feels suffocated by J’s possessiveness. J can be deeply hurt by I’s thoughtless words.

J’s Venus Squares I’s Neptune (-3.23 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between J and I. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

J’s Mercury Squares I’s Venus (-3.28 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between J and I. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. J tends to disregard the emotional needs of I. I may find J cold and calculative.

J’s Mercury Squares I’s Neptune (-5.14 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. I’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in J’s method of thinking. Both J and I are capable of lying to each other. I’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

I’s Mercury Squares J’s Mars (-5.46 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in J’s aggressive attitude and I’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. I’s sarcasm could easily provoke J’s temper.

I’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Saturn (-6.56 discord) – I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The relationship induces cooperation and working for a common goal. Both either complement each other well or antagonize each other’s differences. I stimulates the ambition and progressive instinct in J. J in some ways restricts or limits the activities of I.

J’s Mercury Opposes I’s Saturn (-8.57 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in I’s criticism and disapproval of J’s achievements. J may seem careless and annoying to I. I may appear cold and bossy to J. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

I’s Venus Squares J’s Mars (-8.69 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between I and J in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. J feels suffocated by I’s possessiveness. I can be deeply hurt by J’s thoughtless words.

I’s Mercury Opposes J’s Neptune (-9.56 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. I’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of J. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. J may find I’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

J’s Venus Opposes I’s Saturn (-10.69 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of I and the affectionate nature of J. J feels dominated. I tends to impose too much responsibility on J.

I’s Sun Squares J’s Saturn (-11.25 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in J’s controlling nature and I’s egocentric nature. I struggles to break free from the limits set by J. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

I’s Mercury Squares J’s Mercury (-11.31 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

J’s Sun Opposes I’s Pluto (-13.21 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. I will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of J. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

I’s Saturn Squares J’s Neptune (-14.76 discord) – I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in I’s realism and J’s idealism.

There are 2 mutual receptions in I and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -10.89 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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I and J don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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