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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +23

I born May 31, 1979
Gemini ♊

J born August 9, 1980
Leo ♌

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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I and J’s Relationship

J and I’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Leo and Gemini. No individual is a pure Leo or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in I’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

I’s Venus Trines J’s Jupiter (+12.26 harmony) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

I’s Mars Trines J’s Jupiter (+10.10 harmony) – I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. J has a broad impact on I’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. I challenges J to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

J’s Sun Trines I’s Neptune (+9.64 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between I and J. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Sun Sextiles I’s Pluto (+7.58 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. J can bring out the psychoanalyst in I.

I’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+6.95 harmony) – I’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of I stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts I’s Jupiter (+5.52 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine with I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. J’s ideas combine with I’s dreams. I’s faith deepens J’s intellectual self-confidence. I sympathizes with J’s desire for mental advancement. J respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of I.

I’s Mercury Trines J’s Mars (+4.38 harmony) – I’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. I’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by J’s encouragement.

I’s Mercury Trines J’s Pluto (+3.89 harmony) – I’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in how each other influence the other’s mind. There are depth and wisdom in the relationship. J encourages I to think more deeply. When both I and J combine their minds, they can build their exciting ideas into a giant success.

J’s Mars Sextiles I’s Neptune (+3.83 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of J stimulates the sacrificial tendency in I. J and I will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

J’s Jupiter Sextiles I’s Uranus (+3.33 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. J’s visions stimulate I’s creative genius. J will expand I’s goals and creativity. I adds innovation and excitement to J’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

I’s Moon Trines J’s Neptune (+2.87 harmony) – I’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between I and J. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

J’s Neptune Sextiles I’s Pluto (+2.58 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of I. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Sun Sextiles I’s Mercury (+2.30 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with I’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between J and I. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

I’s Moon Sextiles J’s Mars (+1.81 harmony) – I’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. J stimulates I’s imagination and self-confidence. I inspires the development of J’s sexual fire. There is physical intimacy, sexual magnetism, and irresistible passion between I and J. This aspect encourages reproduction if J is male and I is female.

J’s Sun Conjuncts I’s Jupiter (+1.55 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with I’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is a combination of great abundance and boundless possibilities in the relationship. Both J and I share similar values and philosophy in life. Each will protect and defend one another when threatened by others.

J’s Venus Sextiles I’s Saturn (+0.61 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. I’s protective nature stimulates J’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

I’s Moon Sextiles J’s Pluto (+0.46 harmony) – I’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between I and J. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

I’s Sun Sextiles J’s Sun (+0.42 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with the couple. The similar temperaments of I and J can stimulate each other to achieve their goals in life. There is a strong sense of compatibility between J and I. Both are supportive of each other’s basic needs. This aspect is mutually beneficial for marriage.

J’s Sun Conjuncts I’s Moon (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with I’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of J connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of I. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

I’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Mercury (neutral) – I’s emotional needs combine with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. I intuitively knows what J is thinking. J can clearly describe I’s emotions. J can be an excellent listener to any weird things that I has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts I’s Saturn (neutral) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. I’s practicality fuses with J’s expansive ideas. J provides vision while I creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

I’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both I and J complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

I’s Neptune Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both I and J share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in I or J.

I’s Pluto Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. I and J enjoy the same cultural references. J and I have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

I’s Sun Opposes J’s Neptune (-0.41 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between J and I is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. J can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards I.

I’s Moon Squares J’s Uranus (-1.36 discord) – I’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between J and I. J is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. I is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

J’s Jupiter Squares I’s Neptune (-1.97 discord) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. J might unintentionally hurt I’s sensitive feelings. I may appear elusive to J. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

J’s Mars Conjuncts I’s Pluto (-2.28 discord) – A delicate combination of J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for J and I.

I’s Mars Opposes J’s Uranus (-2.35 discord) – I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. I resents the quiet side of J. J dislikes the over emotional side of I. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

I’s Sun Squares J’s Jupiter (-3.05 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. I and J have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both J and I may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

I’s Mercury Squares J’s Jupiter (-5.00 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. I will seem petty to J. J might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

I’s Venus Opposes J’s Uranus (-5.09 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause tension and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

J’s Sun Squares I’s Venus (-6.15 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with I’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between I’s romantic sensibilities and J’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

I’s Mercury Opposes J’s Neptune (-6.30 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. I’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of J. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. J may find I’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

J’s Saturn Squares I’s Neptune (-6.70 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in J’s realism and I’s idealism.

J’s Sun Squares I’s Mars (-8.02 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of J and I. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between I and J is necessary for the union to work. I will have to work on patience while J will have to work on humility.

J’s Sun Squares I’s Uranus (-10.91 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of I produces friction with the selfishness of J. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. I might resent and even rebel against J’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between J and I.

There is 1 mutual reception in I and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -7.49 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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I and J don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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