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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -18

J born April 12, 1991
Aries ♈

M born September 14, 1993
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and M’s Relationship

M and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Aries. No individual is a pure Virgo or Aries but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Venus (+14.13 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between M and J. M’s power of attraction is in harmony with J’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

M’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Jupiter (+10.12 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. M’s ideas stimulate J’s dreams. J’s faith deepens M’s intellectual self-confidence. J sympathizes with M’s desire for mental advancement. M respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of J.

J’s Mercury Trines M’s Venus (+9.14 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. J’s communication style is in harmony with M’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from M makes J feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

M’s Mercury Trines J’s Venus (+7.92 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. M’s communication style is in harmony with J’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from J makes M feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

J’s Moon Trines M’s Pluto (+6.97 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between J and M. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

M’s Mercury Trines J’s Saturn (+5.60 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J helps give form to M’s ideas. M learns a lot from J’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when J offers practical guidance that improves M’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

M’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+4.72 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Uranus Sextiles J’s Pluto (+4.57 harmony) – M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Pluto (+4.04 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. M can bring out the psychoanalyst in J.

J’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Saturn (+3.53 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. M helps give form to J’s ideas. J learns a lot from M’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when M offers practical guidance that improves J’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Neptune (+3.07 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between J and M. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Venus (+2.85 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between J and M. J’s power of attraction is in harmony with M’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

J’s Sun Sextiles M’s Saturn (+2.47 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J and M can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. J and M can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Neptune (+2.25 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. Telepathic communication with each other is possible. Both J and M have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Uranus (+2.10 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There’s a degree of unpredictability linking J and M. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. J and M are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. M awakens and inspires ideas in J. J’s natural instinctual mind stimulates M’s inventiveness and creativity.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Uranus (+0.12 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. J’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with M’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between M and J.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both J and M complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – J’s respect for expression of individuality combines with M’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between J and M. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage M or J to evade responsibility.

M’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – M’s respect for expression of individuality combines with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between M and J. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage J or M to evade responsibility.

J’s Neptune Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both J and M share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in J or M.

J’s Pluto Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. J and M enjoy the same cultural references. M and J have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Uranus (-0.27 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. M resents the quiet side of J. J dislikes the over emotional side of M. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

J’s Venus Squares M’s Venus (-0.99 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully within the couple. Both have different romantic styles. There is friction in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

M’s Jupiter Squares J’s Uranus (-2.99 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in M’s aspirations and J’s individualistic ideas. J will seem rebellious or unstable to M. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Uranus (-3.27 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. J may seem unstable and erratic to M. M may seem elusive and contradictory to J. J stimulates, excites, and irritates M’s mind simultaneously. M can’t understand the complex mind of J. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

J’s Mercury Opposes M’s Jupiter (-3.38 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. J will seem petty to M. M might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

M’s Saturn Squares J’s Pluto (-3.89 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. J being a reformer might challenge M’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Neptune (-3.96 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in J’s elusive reaction to M’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Uranus (-4.23 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. M may seem unstable and erratic to J. J may seem elusive and contradictory to M. M stimulates, excites, and irritates J’s mind simultaneously. J can’t understand the complex mind of M. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Neptune (-4.37 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. M’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in J’s method of thinking. Both J and M are capable of lying to each other. M’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

J’s Venus Opposes M’s Pluto (-4.37 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is tension in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

M’s Jupiter Squares J’s Neptune (-4.46 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. M might unintentionally hurt J’s sensitive feelings. J may appear elusive to M. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

M’s Venus Squares J’s Pluto (-4.76 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Jupiter (-5.37 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between J and M’s philosophy of life. M and J are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

J’s Venus Squares M’s Saturn (-7.16 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in the controlling nature of M and the affectionate nature of J. J feels dominated. M tends to impose too much responsibility on J.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Uranus (-8.22 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of M produces friction with the selfishness of J. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. M might resent and even rebel against J’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between J and M.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Neptune (-8.36 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between J and M can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. M can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards J.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Moon (-10.49 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of M and the sensitive nature of J. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

J’s Mercury Opposes M’s Mars (-13.14 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in M’s aggressive attitude and J’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. J’s sarcasm could provoke M’s temper.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Mars (-14.99 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in J’s aggressive attitude and M’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. M’s sarcasm could easily provoke J’s temper.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Mars (-20.49 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between J and M. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when M and J are together.

There are 4 mutual receptions in J and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -12.44 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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