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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +22

J born April 14, 1983
Aries ♈

M born May 22, 1983
Gemini ♊

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and M’s Relationship

M and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Gemini and Aries. No individual is a pure Gemini or Aries but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+13.52 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. J and M’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts M’s Uranus (+8.39 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. J will expand M’s goals and creativity. M adds a touch of genius and excitement to J’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in J or M.

M’s Moon Sextiles J’s Jupiter (+7.53 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. J is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward M. M inspires and encourages J’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from J to M.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Neptune (+7.39 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between M and J. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Venus (+6.84 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. J’s communication style stimulates M’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from M makes J feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

M’s Moon Sextiles J’s Uranus (+6.76 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There’s a degree of unpredictability linking M and J. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. M and J are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. J awakens and inspires ideas in M. M’s natural instinctual mind stimulates J’s inventiveness and creativity.

M’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+6.68 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Jupiter Conjuncts J’s Uranus (+5.02 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. M will expand J’s goals and creativity. J adds a touch of genius and excitement to M’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in M or J.

J’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+4.08 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Moon Trines J’s Venus (+3.42 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. J’s cuteness charms M’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. M and J can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

M’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Venus (+2.91 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. M has the same social interests and cultural values as J. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both J and M enjoy each other’s company.

M’s Saturn Sextiles J’s Neptune (+2.89 harmony) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. M can stabilize J to be practical. J can inspire M to have a vision and be more imaginative.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Venus (+2.40 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. J and M have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between J and M.

J’s Moon Trines M’s Neptune (+2.22 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between J and M. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

J’s Saturn Sextiles M’s Neptune (+1.95 harmony) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. J can stabilize M to be practical. M can inspire J to have a vision and be more imaginative.

J’s Mars Trines M’s Neptune (+1.49 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. J helps M fight procrastination. M inspires J to more significant achievements.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Jupiter (+0.55 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between M and J’s philosophy of life. J and M are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

J’s Moon Conjuncts M’s Mercury (neutral) – J’s emotional needs combine with M’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. J intuitively knows what M is thinking. M can clearly describe J’s emotions. M can be an excellent listener to any weird things that J has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Mercury (neutral) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine with ease between the couple. There is a similarity of ideas and way of thinking. Both are able to communicate intellectually to handle mental tasks. J and M have a similar approach to solving problems even if they have different educational backgrounds. Their two minds learn from each other. Both can read each other’s thoughts. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

J’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Mars (neutral) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. M’s desire fuses with J’s loving nature. Both are magnetically attracted to each other. M can be jealous or possessive. J has a soothing effect on M.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both J and M complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

J’s Neptune Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both J and M share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in J or M.

J’s Pluto Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. J and M enjoy the same cultural references. M and J have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Neptune (-0.72 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. J can be deceptive or dishonest to M. M can overreact to the confusion caused by J. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.

M’s Mars Opposes J’s Jupiter (-1.58 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. M is rash and aggressive while J can be overly optimistic. There is a tendency of rivalry between M and J. There is tension in individual ambitions.

J’s Venus Opposes M’s Jupiter (-1.61 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. M may occasionally accuse J of not being entirely open and honest. J may accuse M of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Venus (-1.85 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between M’s romantic sensibilities and J’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Mars (-2.01 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Friendly debates can sometimes lead to irritation if J is headstrong or argumentative. J can be impatient and wants immediate action while M intends to plan before taking any action.

J’s Venus Opposes M’s Uranus (-2.33 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause tension and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Uranus (-3.13 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of M and the independent nature of J. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted J and M together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Pluto (-3.33 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is intense competition in the relationship.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Pluto (-3.79 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between J and M is repeatedly tested in this aspect. M may try to reform J’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Pluto (-3.90 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in J’s defensive nature and M’s nastiness. M expects J to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

M’s Saturn Conjuncts J’s Pluto (-5.65 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between M and J is repeatedly tested in this aspect. J may try to reform M’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Saturn (-7.65 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in J’s impulsive attitude and M’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Saturn (-8.40 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between M’s practicality and J’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. J resents M’s constant discipline. M is frustrated by the moody disposition of J. M sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. J sees the intuitive and magical side.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-10.49 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. J and M share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if J and M are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

M’s Mars Opposes J’s Uranus (-10.86 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. M resents the quiet side of J. J dislikes the over emotional side of M. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Pluto (-11.71 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. M will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of J. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Saturn (-17.12 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between J and M. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. J may feel M being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. M may feel J being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

There are 5 mutual receptions in J and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -15.91 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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