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Love Match Score

Love Match Score: -78

J born April 14, 1983
Aries ♈

M born November 6, 1983
Scorpio ♏

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and M’s Relationship

M and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Scorpio and Aries. No individual is a pure Scorpio or Aries but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Venus Trines M’s Venus (+8.65 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very comfortably with the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. J and M have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Neptune (+8.60 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between M and J. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+7.72 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. J and M’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts M’s Uranus (+6.43 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. J will expand M’s goals and creativity. M adds a touch of genius and excitement to J’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in J or M.

M’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+6.11 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Jupiter Conjuncts J’s Uranus (+5.75 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. M will expand J’s goals and creativity. J adds a touch of genius and excitement to M’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in M or J.

J’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+5.16 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Jupiter (+2.35 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in J and M’s goal of expanding their horizons. There are much optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship. J inspires M to plan big dreams. M will make J feel terrific. This aspect helps bring good luck and financial success in a business partnership.

J’s Venus Trines M’s Mars (+1.70 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of M and loving nature of J. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

J’s Saturn Sextiles M’s Neptune (+1.35 harmony) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. J can stabilize M to be practical. M can inspire J to have a vision and be more imaginative.

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J’s Moon Trines M’s Neptune (+1.02 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between J and M. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

J’s Mars Trines M’s Neptune (+0.59 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. J helps M fight procrastination. M inspires J to more significant achievements.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both J and M complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

J’s Pluto Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. J and M enjoy the same cultural references. M and J have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

J’s Neptune Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both J and M share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in J or M.

M’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Saturn (-0.09 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. J has the tendency to criticize and judge M’s actions. J sometimes blames M when something goes wrong. M is more tolerant and forgiving towards J. M can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from J.

M’s Saturn Conjuncts J’s Pluto (-1.14 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between M and J is repeatedly tested in this aspect. J may try to reform M’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

M’s Mercury Opposes J’s Mars (-1.15 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in J’s aggressive attitude and M’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. M’s sarcasm could provoke J’s temper.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Saturn (-1.48 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between J and M. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. J may feel M being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. M may feel J being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

J’s Venus Opposes M’s Uranus (-1.68 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause tension and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Neptune (-2.15 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in J’s elusive reaction to M’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

J’s Mercury Opposes M’s Pluto (-3.12 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. M has a natural tendency to dominate if J appears weak. There is tension in the relationship that both M and J will be uncomfortable with each other. The intensity can sometimes feel overpowering. J might have difficulty being heard out of fear of making M unhappy.

M’s Venus Squares J’s Neptune (-4.34 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between M and J. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Pluto (-5.17 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between J and M is repeatedly tested in this aspect. M may try to reform J’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-5.69 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. J and M share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if J and M are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Mercury (-5.69 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension when M over analyzes and misinterprets J’s feelings. Differing viewpoints can cause minor misunderstanding in the relationship. M reacts on a rational level while J on an emotional level. Understanding and tolerance with less criticism can transform this aspect from discord to harmony.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Mars (-6.37 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between M and J. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when J and M are together.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Pluto (-6.66 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in J’s defensive nature and M’s nastiness. M expects J to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Pluto (-6.79 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is intense competition in the relationship.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Pluto (-8.95 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. M will be rebellious, demanding, and even revengeful when responding to the authority of J. Both have a competitive personality that can cause damage to the relationship.

J’s Mercury Opposes M’s Mercury (-9.24 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception confront or challenge each other. Differences in points of view can cause tension and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. Agreeing with each other can be difficult.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Moon (-9.86 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of M and the sensitive nature of J. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Mercury (-13.41 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of M and J. Communication between J and M is difficult. The mental energies of J are frequently opposed by the creative powers of M. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

J’s Mercury Opposes M’s Saturn (-16.62 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in M’s criticism and disapproval of J’s achievements. J may seem careless and annoying to M. M may appear cold and bossy to J. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Saturn (-18.56 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in J’s impulsive attitude and M’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Saturn (-21.94 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between M’s practicality and J’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. J resents M’s constant discipline. M is frustrated by the moody disposition of J. M sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. J sees the intuitive and magical side.

There are 4 mutual receptions in J and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -23.33 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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J and M don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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