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Birthday Compatibility Score: -46

J born June 12, 1986
Gemini ♊

M born September 14, 1971
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and M’s Relationship

M and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Gemini. No individual is a pure Virgo or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

M’s Moon Trines J’s Jupiter (+11.23 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. M encourages and nurtures J’s expansive ideas. J is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against M. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from J to M. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

J’s Venus Sextiles M’s Venus (+10.06 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. J and M have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

J’s Venus Trines M’s Jupiter (+10.05 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

M’s Mercury Trines J’s Neptune (+8.60 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when J inspires the creativity of M. M’s practical suggestions give form to J’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

M’s Venus Trines J’s Mars (+7.20 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of J and loving nature of M. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

J’s Venus Trines M’s Neptune (+6.92 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. J is willing to overlook M’s faults. M is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Mars (+5.99 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. M and J are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both J and M inspire creative passion in one another.

M’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Venus (+5.10 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The fusion of mutual devotion and affection in each other produces a happy union. The relationship encourages cooperation and attention to fairness. Both are in agreement on financial and social matters. Occasional small disagreements are quickly resolved. Neither M nor J is useful in setting boundaries.

J’s Venus Sextiles M’s Pluto (+4.88 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between J and M makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

M’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Pluto (+4.57 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J stimulates M to be open to new ways of thinking. M appreciates J’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. J’s influence on M is stronger than M’s on J.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Uranus (+3.74 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There’s a degree of unpredictability linking J and M. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. J and M are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. M awakens and inspires ideas in J. J’s natural instinctual mind stimulates M’s inventiveness and creativity.

J’s Mars Trines M’s Pluto (+2.86 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between J and M. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Venus (+2.36 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. J has a soothing and warm effect on M. M has the desire to please and support J. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

J’s Jupiter Trines M’s Jupiter (+2.07 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. J and M’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Uranus (+1.27 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. M’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with J’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between J and M.

J’s Jupiter Trines M’s Neptune (+1.24 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J’s expansive dreams are in harmony with M’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

J’s Saturn Sextiles M’s Pluto (+0.47 harmony) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate M’s power of transformation. J can give stability to M’s feelings of loneliness. M can strengthen J’s sense of authority.

M’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Mercury (neutral) – M’s emotional needs combine with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. M intuitively knows what J is thinking. J can clearly describe M’s emotions. J can be an excellent listener to any weird things that M has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

M’s Jupiter Conjuncts J’s Saturn (neutral) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a perfect balance of opposing qualities. J’s practicality fuses with M’s expansive ideas. M provides vision while J creates structure. Both work better together to achieve success. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

M’s Venus Squares J’s Neptune (-0.77 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between M and J. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Pluto (-0.97 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

J’s Uranus Squares M’s Pluto (-1.12 discord) – J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between J and M. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

M’s Venus Opposes J’s Jupiter (-1.90 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. J may occasionally accuse M of not being entirely open and honest. M may accuse J of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Pluto (-2.01 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of J and M can cause damage to the relationship.

J’s Jupiter Opposes M’s Pluto (-2.10 discord) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Personal struggles between J and M can’t be avoided. There will be conflicting ideas that can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult.

M’s Uranus Squares J’s Neptune (-2.30 discord) – M’s respect for expression of individuality interacts stressfully with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There is friction in the social or political views of M and J. The dreamy and intuitive nature of J is in conflict with the spontaneous actions of M. M looks undisciplined to J. J’s instincts seem slow to M.

M’s Venus Squares J’s Uranus (-3.38 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Venus (-4.05 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between M’s romantic sensibilities and J’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

J’s Neptune Squares M’s Pluto (-4.42 discord) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of J and M. M will likely have a more forceful personality that J. J attempts to give M spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. M in return will psychoanalyze J’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Jupiter (-4.72 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between M and J’s philosophy of life. J and M are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Neptune (-6.45 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. M can add a degree of holiness to J’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

M’s Sun Squares J’s Uranus (-7.33 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of J produces friction with the selfishness of M. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. J might resent and even rebel against M’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between M and J.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Sun (-7.79 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between J and M can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Saturn (-9.17 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in J’s criticism and disapproval of M’s achievements. M may seem careless and annoying to J. J may appear cold and bossy to M. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Uranus (-11.58 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. M may seem unstable and erratic to J. J may seem elusive and contradictory to M. M stimulates, excites, and irritates J’s mind simultaneously. J can’t understand the complex mind of M. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Mars (-11.62 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when M becomes rude or aggressive toward J. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between J and M. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

M’s Moon Opposes J’s Mars (-15.13 discord) – M’s emotional needs confront and challenge J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when J becomes rude or aggressive toward M. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between M and J. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

J’s Saturn Opposes M’s Saturn (-31.64 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges each other. There is tension in the relationship between how the couple handles responsibility and security. J and M mistrust each other that it can create severe problems of adjustment.

There is 1 mutual reception in J and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -16.16 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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J and M don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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