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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +49

J born November 19, 1981
Scorpio ♏

I born July 5, 1989
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and I’s Relationship

I and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Scorpio. No individual is a pure Cancer or Scorpio but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in I’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

I’s Mercury Trines J’s Jupiter (+11.26 harmony) – I’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. I’s thoughts are in harmony with J’s dreams. J’s faith deepens I’s intellectual self-confidence. J sympathizes with I’s desire for mental advancement. I respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of J.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Mercury (+10.24 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with J’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between I and J is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. J understands I’s intentions. I supports J’s intellectual excitement. J is able to discuss problems with I. Together they can work out a solution.

J’s Moon Trines I’s Neptune (+8.70 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between J and I. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

J’s Jupiter Trines I’s Jupiter (+8.05 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. J and I’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

I’s Jupiter Trines J’s Pluto (+7.45 harmony) – I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both have the potential to accomplish something big together. There is harmony in encouraging the spiritual enlightenment of one another.

J’s Moon Trines I’s Uranus (+7.29 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. J and I are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when I and J are together. I awakens and inspires ideas in J. J’s natural instinctual mind stimulates I’s inventiveness and creativity.

I’s Venus Trines J’s Uranus (+6.09 harmony) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. J surprises I in one way or another. I has a pleasant way of toning down J’s eccentricity.

J’s Venus Sextiles I’s Pluto (+5.71 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between J and I makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

J’s Moon Trines I’s Saturn (+4.61 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of J are stabilized by I. J expands the ideas of I with practical imagination. I will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when J is depressed. J and I complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between J and I.

I’s Mercury Trines J’s Pluto (+4.56 harmony) – I’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in how each other influence the other’s mind. There are depth and wisdom in the relationship. J encourages I to think more deeply. When both I and J combine their minds, they can build their exciting ideas into a giant success.

I’s Sun Sextiles J’s Mars (+3.65 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between I and J.

J’s Mars Trines I’s Neptune (+3.28 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. J helps I fight procrastination. I inspires J to more significant achievements.

J’s Moon Sextiles I’s Pluto (+3.18 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between J and I. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

J’s Jupiter Sextiles I’s Uranus (+2.34 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. J’s visions stimulate I’s creative genius. J will expand I’s goals and creativity. I adds innovation and excitement to J’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

I’s Sun Sextiles J’s Moon (+2.19 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s emotional needs. There is a natural stimulation and flowing compatibility between I and J. Reconciliation after a disagreement is ordinary. This is an ideal aspect to have in a romantic relationship.

J’s Mars Sextiles I’s Pluto (+2.17 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is extraordinary stimulation between J and I. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is excellent in a business partnership.

J’s Mercury Sextiles I’s Neptune (+1.74 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. I stimulates the imagination of J. J’s practical suggestions give form to I’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between I and J. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

I’s Jupiter Trines J’s Saturn (+1.51 harmony) – I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J’s practicality is in harmony with I’s expansive ideas. I provides vision while J creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

J’s Venus Conjuncts I’s Neptune (+1.26 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is mutual interest in nature or culture like art and music. There is sympathy, deep affection, and devotion toward each other. This aspect intensifies other aspects. A general positive score will become more positive and vice versa.

J’s Mars Trines I’s Saturn (+0.96 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in I’s patience and J’s aggressiveness.

I’s Moon Sextiles J’s Saturn (+0.78 harmony) – I’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The stimulation between I and J is based on mutual needs. J will be reliable, loyal, and can bring out the conservative qualities in I. I can expand the ideas of J with practical imagination. Both complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support in the relationship. J and I are in agreement in financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between I and J.

I’s Moon Trines J’s Uranus (+0.61 harmony) – I’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. I and J are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when J and I are together. J awakens and inspires ideas in I. I’s natural instinctual mind stimulates J’s inventiveness and creativity.

J’s Mercury Sextiles I’s Saturn (+0.60 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. I helps give form to J’s ideas. J learns a lot from I’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when I offers practical guidance that improves J’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

I’s Mars Sextiles J’s Saturn (+0.19 harmony) – I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. I stimulates J’s ambition and self-confidence. J restrains I’s tendency to act impulsively.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts I’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. I can have an explosive effect on J’s viewpoints. J can expand I’s range of interest in various areas of life. I’s influence on J is stronger than J’s on I. I has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of J and could be ruthless in doing so.

I’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – I’s respect for expression of individuality combines with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between I and J. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage J or I to evade responsibility.

I’s Venus Squares J’s Jupiter (-0.24 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. J may occasionally accuse I of not being entirely open and honest. I may accuse J of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

J’s Saturn Squares I’s Saturn (-0.79 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the relationship between how each other handles responsibility and security. J and I can create severe problems of adjustment.

J’s Venus Conjuncts I’s Saturn (-1.13 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. I provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. J’s sympathy and affection stimulate I’s confidence. I can become possessive of J. J can feel restricted by I’s criticism and discipline.

J’s Saturn Squares I’s Neptune (-1.39 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in J’s realism and I’s idealism.

J’s Mars Squares I’s Jupiter (-1.55 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in J’s instincts and I’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

J’s Mercury Squares I’s Venus (-1.75 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between J and I. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. J tends to disregard the emotional needs of I. I may find J cold and calculative.

I’s Jupiter Opposes J’s Neptune (-4.22 discord) – I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

I’s Mercury Opposes J’s Neptune (-5.60 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. I’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of J. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. J may find I’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

J’s Mercury Squares I’s Mars (-8.23 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in I’s aggressive attitude and J’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. J’s sarcasm could easily provoke I’s temper.

I’s Moon Squares J’s Mercury (-8.38 discord) – I’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. I is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret J’s intentions. J pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of I. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

I’s Sun Opposes J’s Venus (-10.92 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also tension between I’s ego and J’s romantic sensibilities. Both do not have the same social ideas or desires. J and I can be emotionally confused with one another.

I’s Sun Squares J’s Saturn (-11.14 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in J’s controlling nature and I’s egocentric nature. I struggles to break free from the limits set by J. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

There are 3 mutual receptions in J and I’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -24.08 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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J and I don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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