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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -10

J born November 21, 1990
Scorpio ♏

M born August 25, 1982
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and M’s Relationship

M and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Scorpio. No individual is a pure Virgo or Scorpio but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

M’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Jupiter (+16.02 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

J’s Mercury Trines M’s Venus (+12.36 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. J’s communication style is in harmony with M’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from M makes J feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Uranus (+6.52 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. J’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with M’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between M and J.

J’s Sun Sextiles M’s Mercury (+5.61 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between J and M. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Mars (+4.26 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. M stimulates J’s imagination and self-confidence. J inspires the development of M’s sexual fire. There is physical intimacy, sexual magnetism, and irresistible passion between J and M. This aspect encourages reproduction if M is male and J is female.

M’s Jupiter Sextiles J’s Uranus (+4.05 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. M’s visions stimulate J’s creative genius. M will expand J’s goals and creativity. J adds innovation and excitement to M’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

M’s Moon Sextiles J’s Saturn (+3.83 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The stimulation between M and J is based on mutual needs. J will be reliable, loyal, and can bring out the conservative qualities in M. M can expand the ideas of J with practical imagination. Both complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support in the relationship. J and M are in agreement in financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between M and J.

M’s Mercury Trines J’s Saturn (+3.46 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J helps give form to M’s ideas. M learns a lot from J’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when J offers practical guidance that improves M’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

M’s Mars Sextiles J’s Neptune (+3.37 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of M stimulates the sacrificial tendency in J. M and J will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

J’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (+3.35 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. M is tolerant and encouraging toward J. J can be more creative than M. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

J’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Saturn (+2.29 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. M helps give form to J’s ideas. J learns a lot from M’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when M offers practical guidance that improves J’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

J’s Jupiter Sextiles M’s Saturn (+1.44 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. M’s practicality stimulates J’s expansive ideas. J provides vision while M creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Neptune (+1.25 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between J and M. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

M’s Venus Sextiles J’s Mars (+1.24 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. J’s desire stimulates M’s loving nature. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a sexually satisfying relationship.

M’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Venus (+0.73 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The fusion of mutual devotion and affection in each other produces a happy union. The relationship encourages cooperation and attention to fairness. Both are in agreement on financial and social matters. Occasional small disagreements are quickly resolved. Neither M nor J is useful in setting boundaries.

J’s Venus Trines M’s Venus (+0.56 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very comfortably with the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. J and M have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Moon (+0.42 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s emotional needs. J’s sensitive nature and M’s personality are in harmony. J inspires and gives comfort to M. M supports, encourages, and revitalizes J. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Moon (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of J connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of M. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The creative talents of J combine with the individualism of M. There is always something extraordinary or unconventional in the relationship. J is uncertain of how M will react in a given situation. The erratic tendency of M has a disorganizing effect on J.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. M brings out the poet and dreamer in J. There is a robust telepathic connection between J and M that helps to understand each other without speaking a word. Sometimes J can win arguments even when it’s wrong.

J’s Jupiter Squares M’s Jupiter (neutral) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the moral sentiments, ethical principles, and spiritual values. Both have difficulties in finding a familiar path. This may create problems of adjustment in the relationship.

M’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – M’s emotional needs combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion can be either very good or very bad depending on other aspects of the relationship. There is a powerful physical attraction between J and M. J expands the ideas, imagination, and viewpoints of M. Sometimes M will find J to be possessive, jealous, and domineering.

M’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Pluto (-0.77 discord) – A delicate combination of M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for M and J.

M’s Venus Squares J’s Pluto (-1.01 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Jupiter (-1.84 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. It’s common to have disagreements about religion, finances, and family matters. The friction between M and J is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. M may feel uncomfortable when J misunderstands a passing mood. J may make extravagant pledges making M to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

M’s Saturn Squares J’s Neptune (-2.52 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in M’s realism and J’s idealism.

J’s Moon Squares M’s Saturn (-3.75 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between M’s practicality and J’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. M can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward J. J can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward M.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Jupiter (-5.71 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in M’s instincts and J’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Uranus (-6.18 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. J resents the quiet side of M. M dislikes the over emotional side of J. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

J’s Saturn Squares M’s Pluto (-6.89 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. M being a reformer might challenge J’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

M’s Sun Squares J’s Venus (-7.56 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between J’s romantic sensibilities and M’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

M’s Sun Squares J’s Mars (-7.77 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of M and J. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between J and M is necessary for the union to work. J will have to work on patience while M will have to work on humility.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Sun (-8.96 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between J and M can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

J’s Saturn Squares M’s Saturn (-11.17 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the relationship between how each other handles responsibility and security. J and M can create severe problems of adjustment.

There is 1 mutual reception in J and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -26.63 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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J and M don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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