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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -195

J born September 17, 1993
Virgo ♍

N born March 31, 1993
Aries ♈

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and N’s Relationship

N and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aries and Virgo. No individual is a pure Aries or Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in N’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts N’s Jupiter (+7.37 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine with N’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. J’s ideas combine with N’s dreams. N’s faith deepens J’s intellectual self-confidence. N sympathizes with J’s desire for mental advancement. J respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of N.

J’s Sun Sextiles N’s Pluto (+5.39 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. J can bring out the psychoanalyst in N.

J’s Sun Trines N’s Uranus (+5.30 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. N’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with J’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between J and N.

J’s Moon Conjuncts N’s Jupiter (+5.26 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine with N’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The fusion encourages mutual confidence and respect in each other. N can be protective of J and can be too indulgent at the same time. J inspires and promotes N’s expansive aspirations. Even when things go wrong, N will not harbor any ill feelings toward J. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from N to J. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it.

J’s Sun Trines N’s Neptune (+4.41 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between N and J. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

N’s Uranus Sextiles J’s Pluto (+3.61 harmony) – N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts N’s Jupiter (+3.23 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. J and N’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

N’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+2.71 harmony) – N’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of N stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Jupiter Trines N’s Saturn (+1.89 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. N’s practicality is in harmony with J’s expansive ideas. J provides vision while N creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

J’s Mars Trines N’s Saturn (+1.76 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in N’s patience and J’s aggressiveness.

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N’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Uranus (+1.44 harmony) – N’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. N and J bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

N’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Neptune (+1.29 harmony) – N’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J stimulates the imagination of N. N’s practical suggestions give form to J’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between J and N. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

N’s Mars Trines J’s Pluto (+0.67 harmony) – N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between N and J. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts N’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both J and N complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

N’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – N’s respect for expression of individuality combines with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between N and J. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage J or N to evade responsibility.

J’s Pluto Conjuncts N’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. J and N enjoy the same cultural references. N and J have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts N’s Neptune (neutral) – J’s respect for expression of individuality combines with N’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between J and N. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage N or J to evade responsibility.

J’s Neptune Conjuncts N’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both J and N share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in J or N.

J’s Sun Opposes N’s Mercury (-0.10 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge N’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of J and N. Communication between N and J is difficult. The mental energies of N are frequently opposed by the creative powers of J. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

N’s Jupiter Squares J’s Neptune (-0.62 discord) – N’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. N might unintentionally hurt J’s sensitive feelings. J may appear elusive to N. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

N’s Jupiter Squares J’s Uranus (-0.70 discord) – N’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in N’s aspirations and J’s individualistic ideas. J will seem rebellious or unstable to N. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

N’s Venus Opposes J’s Mars (-0.91 discord) – N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between N and J in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes tension and disputes. J feels suffocated by N’s possessiveness. N can be deeply hurt by J’s thoughtless words.

N’s Venus Opposes J’s Jupiter (-1.51 discord) – N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. J may occasionally accuse N of not being entirely open and honest. N may accuse J of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

N’s Venus Squares J’s Neptune (-1.55 discord) – N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between N and J. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

N’s Moon Squares J’s Mars (-1.61 discord) – N’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when N becomes indecisive when reacting to J’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between N and J.

N’s Venus Squares J’s Uranus (-1.66 discord) – N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

N’s Sun Opposes J’s Mars (-2.76 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between N and J. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when J and N are together.

N’s Moon Squares J’s Jupiter (-3.21 discord) – N’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. It’s common to have disagreements about religion, finances, and family matters. The friction between N and J is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. N may feel uncomfortable when J misunderstands a passing mood. J may make extravagant pledges making N to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

J’s Jupiter Squares N’s Uranus (-3.27 discord) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in J’s aspirations and N’s individualistic ideas. N will seem rebellious or unstable to J. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

N’s Sun Opposes J’s Jupiter (-3.67 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between N and J’s philosophy of life. J and N are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

J’s Jupiter Squares N’s Neptune (-3.71 discord) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. J might unintentionally hurt N’s sensitive feelings. N may appear elusive to J. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

J’s Moon Squares N’s Uranus (-4.25 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between N and J. N is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. J is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

N’s Sun Squares J’s Neptune (-4.37 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between N and J can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. J can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards N.

N’s Sun Squares J’s Uranus (-4.52 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of J produces friction with the selfishness of N. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. J might resent and even rebel against N’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between N and J.

J’s Mercury Squares N’s Mars (-4.65 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in N’s aggressive attitude and J’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. J’s sarcasm could easily provoke N’s temper.

J’s Moon Squares N’s Neptune (-5.14 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. N can be deceptive or dishonest to J. J can overreact to the confusion caused by N. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.

J’s Venus Squares N’s Pluto (-5.85 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

J’s Mars Squares N’s Mars (-6.93 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully within the couple. There is friction in own wills and desires. Everyday activities together can lead to conflicts. Cooperation is difficult to achieve between J and N. Each one fears the other’s anger. This aspect is challenging to deal with.

N’s Moon Squares J’s Mercury (-7.06 discord) – N’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. N is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret J’s intentions. J pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of N. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

N’s Saturn Squares J’s Pluto (-7.12 discord) – N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. J being a reformer might challenge N’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

N’s Mars Squares J’s Jupiter (-7.32 discord) – N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in N’s instincts and J’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

N’s Moon Opposes J’s Neptune (-7.45 discord) – N’s emotional needs confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. N can overreact to the confusion caused by J. J can be deceptive or dishonest to N. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

N’s Moon Opposes J’s Uranus (-7.60 discord) – N’s emotional needs confront and challenge J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between N and J. N is hypersensitive and moody. J is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts N’s Saturn (-9.04 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. J and N share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if J and N are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

J’s Mars Squares N’s Neptune (-9.30 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in N’s elusive reaction to J’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

J’s Mercury Opposes N’s Venus (-9.33 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between J and N. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. J tends to disregard the emotional needs of N. N may find J cold and calculative.

J’s Moon Squares N’s Mars (-9.95 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when J becomes indecisive when reacting to N’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between J and N.

J’s Moon Opposes N’s Venus (-9.99 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a mutual attraction for love and marriage between J and N. Much affection is shown between the individuals. There may be fewer mutual interests in the relationship.

J’s Mars Squares N’s Uranus (-10.42 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. J resents the quiet side of N. N dislikes the over emotional side of J. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

J’s Moon Squares N’s Moon (-11.29 discord) – The individual emotional needs interact stressfully within the couple. J and N’s hearts and souls lack a basic understanding or sympathy with each other. Minor clashes of mood and attitude can cause friction but not enough to destroy the relationship. Both N and J are moody by nature and have the tendency to exaggerate trivial disagreements.

J’s Saturn Squares N’s Pluto (-11.59 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. N being a reformer might challenge J’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

N’s Sun Opposes J’s Moon (-11.63 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of N and the sensitive nature of J. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

N’s Mars Opposes J’s Neptune (-12.22 discord) – N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in J’s elusive reaction to N’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

N’s Mars Opposes J’s Uranus (-12.41 discord) – N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. N resents the quiet side of J. J dislikes the over emotional side of N. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

J’s Venus Opposes N’s Saturn (-12.70 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of N and the affectionate nature of J. J feels dominated. N tends to impose too much responsibility on J.

N’s Sun Opposes J’s Mercury (-14.14 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of N and J. Communication between J and N is difficult. The mental energies of J are frequently opposed by the creative powers of N. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

There are 4 mutual receptions in J and N’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -37.78 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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