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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +63

J born September 19, 1970
Virgo ♍

I born July 3, 1969
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and I’s Relationship

I and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Virgo. No individual is a pure Cancer or Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in I’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Venus (+14.14 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between J and I. J’s power of attraction is in harmony with I’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

I’s Venus Trines J’s Pluto (+11.54 harmony) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony when both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between I and J makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

J’s Sun Trines I’s Venus (+9.65 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with I’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between I and J. I’s power of attraction is in harmony with J’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

I’s Sun Trines J’s Jupiter (+9.64 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in I and J’s goal of expanding their horizons. There are much optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship. I inspires J to plan big dreams. J will make I feel terrific. This aspect helps bring good luck and financial success in a business partnership.

J’s Sun Conjuncts I’s Jupiter (+8.58 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with I’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is a combination of great abundance and boundless possibilities in the relationship. Both J and I share similar values and philosophy in life. Each will protect and defend one another when threatened by others.

I’s Jupiter Sextiles J’s Neptune (+7.42 harmony) – I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is an idealistic bond between I and J. I’s expansive dreams stimulate J’s intuitions. Both encourage each other to realize real goals.

J’s Moon Trines I’s Pluto (+6.26 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between J and I. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

I’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+6.07 harmony) – I’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of I stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Sun Sextiles I’s Neptune (+5.88 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between I and J. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes I knows what J is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

I’s Jupiter Conjuncts J’s Pluto (+5.34 harmony) – I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J can be possessive and domineering. I will inspire and encourage J. The combination can either be in harmony or discord depending on other aspects. This aspect helps deepen the connection between I and J.

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I’s Sun Sextiles J’s Mars (+5.24 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between I and J.

I’s Sun Sextiles J’s Mercury (+5.08 harmony) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between I and J. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

I’s Uranus Sextiles J’s Neptune (+3.38 harmony) – I’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. J and I have a strong intuitive connection.

J’s Saturn Trines I’s Pluto (+2.88 harmony) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with I’s quiet but immense power. Both J and I are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

I’s Mars Sextiles J’s Pluto (+1.75 harmony) – I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is extraordinary stimulation between I and J. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is excellent in a business partnership.

I’s Jupiter Conjuncts J’s Uranus (+1.45 harmony) – I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. I will expand J’s goals and creativity. J adds a touch of genius and excitement to I’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in I or J.

J’s Moon Conjuncts I’s Venus (+1.38 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine with I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The fusion of mutual devotion and affection in each other produces a happy union. The relationship encourages cooperation and attention to fairness. Both are in agreement on financial and social matters. Occasional small disagreements are quickly resolved. Neither J nor I is useful in setting boundaries.

J’s Mars Trines I’s Saturn (+1.15 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in I’s patience and J’s aggressiveness.

J’s Moon Trines I’s Jupiter (+0.63 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. J encourages and nurtures I’s expansive ideas. I is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against J. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from I to J. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

I’s Mars Sextiles J’s Uranus (+0.38 harmony) – I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.

J’s Mercury Trines I’s Saturn (+0.34 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. I helps give form to J’s ideas. J learns a lot from I’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when I offers practical guidance that improves J’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

J’s Sun Sextiles I’s Mars (+0.21 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between J and I.

J’s Neptune Conjuncts I’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both J and I share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in J or I.

J’s Sun Conjuncts I’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with I’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If J and I are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts I’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both J and I complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

I’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if I and J have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

J’s Sun Conjuncts I’s Uranus (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with I’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The creative talents of J combine with the individualism of I. There is always something extraordinary or unconventional in the relationship. J is uncertain of how I will react in a given situation. The erratic tendency of I has a disorganizing effect on J.

J’s Pluto Conjuncts I’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. J and I enjoy the same cultural references. I and J have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

J’s Moon Opposes I’s Mars (-0.72 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when I becomes rude or aggressive toward J. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between J and I. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

I’s Mars Opposes J’s Saturn (-1.00 discord) – I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in I’s impulsive attitude and J’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

I’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Neptune (-1.67 discord) – I’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion may combine with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. I excites J’s emotions. J encourages I to have bigger goals. I can overstimulate the imagination of J. J can have a dissolving effect on the energies of I. The relationship can be confusing for both I and J. There is a strong possibility of self-indulgence in one or both.

I’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Saturn (-2.77 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. J provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. I’s sympathy and affection stimulate J’s confidence. J can become possessive of I. I can feel restricted by J’s criticism and discipline.

J’s Sun Squares I’s Mercury (-3.98 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with I’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between I and J. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. I might be too aggressive in communicating with J.

I’s Mercury Squares J’s Pluto (-4.92 discord) – I’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both I and J have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both J and I.

J’s Moon Opposes I’s Neptune (-5.67 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. J can overreact to the confusion caused by I. I can be deceptive or dishonest to J. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

I’s Venus Opposes J’s Neptune (-5.89 discord) – I’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between I and J. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause tension and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

J’s Venus Opposes I’s Saturn (-7.86 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of I and the affectionate nature of J. J feels dominated. I tends to impose too much responsibility on J.

J’s Jupiter Opposes I’s Saturn (-8.83 discord) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges I’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in I’s restrictive nature and J’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

I’s Sun Squares J’s Uranus (-8.99 discord) – I’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of J produces friction with the selfishness of I. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. J might resent and even rebel against I’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between I and J.

J’s Saturn Opposes I’s Neptune (-9.26 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges I’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in J’s domineering nature and I’s anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

There are 3 mutual receptions in J and I’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -13.83 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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