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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +17

J born September 20, 1994
Virgo ♍

M born September 16, 1986
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and M’s Relationship

M and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Virgo. No individual is a pure Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Jupiter Trines M’s Jupiter (+7.93 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. J and M’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Uranus (+7.12 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. J’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with M’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between M and J.

M’s Venus Trines J’s Saturn (+5.85 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J’s protective trait is in harmony with M’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Neptune (+5.29 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between J and M. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Mars Trines M’s Jupiter (+4.19 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. M has a broad impact on J’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. J challenges M to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

J’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Uranus (+3.90 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. J and M bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

J’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Venus (+3.89 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with ease within the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial values are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. J and M have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship can lead to a long-term partnership.

M’s Jupiter Sextiles J’s Neptune (+3.76 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is an idealistic bond between M and J. M’s expansive dreams stimulate J’s intuitions. Both encourage each other to realize real goals.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Pluto (+3.47 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. M can bring out the psychoanalyst in J.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Mars (+3.33 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between M and J.

M’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Jupiter (+3.25 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

J’s Saturn Trines M’s Pluto (+3.00 harmony) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with M’s quiet but immense power. Both J and M are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

M’s Mercury Trines J’s Uranus (+2.03 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between M and J. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

J’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Pluto (+1.49 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. M may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than J is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

M’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Pluto (+1.44 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J stimulates M to be open to new ways of thinking. M appreciates J’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. J’s influence on M is stronger than M’s on J.

J’s Jupiter Conjuncts M’s Pluto (+1.27 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. M can be possessive and domineering. J will inspire and encourage M. The combination can either be in harmony or discord depending on other aspects. This aspect helps deepen the connection between J and M.

J’s Saturn Sextiles M’s Neptune (+1.21 harmony) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. J can stabilize M to be practical. M can inspire J to have a vision and be more imaginative.

M’s Jupiter Sextiles J’s Uranus (+1.01 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. M’s visions stimulate J’s creative genius. M will expand J’s goals and creativity. J adds innovation and excitement to M’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

J’s Venus Trines M’s Jupiter (+0.92 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

J’s Venus Sextiles M’s Neptune (+0.50 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. J is willing to overlook M’s faults. M is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Sun (neutral) – The couple’s sense of identity, ego, and character can combine with ease or difficulty. J and M have many positive and negative traits in common. The similar qualities can combine to aid understanding of one another. It may also cause rivalry with each other.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Mercury (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s mentality and powers of perception. There is effective communication and fewer misunderstanding between J and M. Both can work together in their similar ideas and points of view. J supports the progressive ideas of M. M understands the unique individuality of J.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Jupiter (-0.41 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between J and M’s philosophy of life. M and J are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Uranus (-1.22 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of M produces friction with the selfishness of J. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. M might resent and even rebel against J’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between J and M.

M’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Uranus (-1.68 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a massive potential for success if the individual ambitions and goals are the same. If not, it will make cooperation difficult. The relationship brings out the aggressive and independent spirit in each other.

M’s Saturn Conjuncts J’s Pluto (-1.75 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between M and J is repeatedly tested in this aspect. J may try to reform M’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

M’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Neptune (-2.14 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion may combine with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. M excites J’s emotions. J encourages M to have bigger goals. M can overstimulate the imagination of J. J can have a dissolving effect on the energies of M. The relationship can be confusing for both M and J. There is a strong possibility of self-indulgence in one or both.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Neptune (-4.26 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between J and M can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. M can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards J.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Mars (-10.68 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in M’s aggressive attitude and J’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. J’s sarcasm could easily provoke M’s temper.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Mars (-11.09 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge each other. Ordinary activities together can lead to conflicts. There is a tendency to obstruct each other’s work. The relationship creates hostile energy making cooperation challenging to achieve.

J’s Saturn Squares M’s Saturn (-13.45 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully within the couple. There is friction in the relationship between how each other handles responsibility and security. J and M can create severe problems of adjustment.

There are 2 mutual receptions in J and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -21.17 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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J and M don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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