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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -85

J born September 24, 1990
Libra ♎

M born May 23, 1987
Gemini ♊

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and M’s Relationship

M and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Gemini and Libra. No individual is a pure Gemini or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

M’s Venus Trines J’s Uranus (+10.46 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. J surprises M in one way or another. M has a pleasant way of toning down J’s eccentricity.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Sun (+7.35 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. J and M can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

M’s Moon Trines J’s Jupiter (+5.58 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. M encourages and nurtures J’s expansive ideas. J is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against M. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from J to M. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

J’s Uranus Sextiles M’s Pluto (+4.71 harmony) – J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

M’s Venus Trines J’s Neptune (+4.35 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. M is willing to overlook J’s faults. J is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

J’s Mercury Trines M’s Neptune (+4.16 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when M inspires the creativity of J. J’s practical suggestions give form to M’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

M’s Moon Sextiles J’s Mars (+2.64 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. J stimulates M’s imagination and self-confidence. M inspires the development of J’s sexual fire. There is physical intimacy, sexual magnetism, and irresistible passion between M and J. This aspect encourages reproduction if J is male and M is female.

J’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+2.13 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Jupiter (+0.91 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. M stimulates J to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. J and M can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both J and M complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – J’s respect for expression of individuality combines with M’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between J and M. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage M or J to evade responsibility.

J’s Neptune Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both J and M share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in J or M.

J’s Pluto Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. J and M enjoy the same cultural references. M and J have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

M’s Jupiter Squares J’s Neptune (-0.36 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. M might unintentionally hurt J’s sensitive feelings. J may appear elusive to M. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Moon (-0.68 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of J and the sensitive nature of M. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

M’s Venus Opposes J’s Pluto (-0.98 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is tension in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Mars (-1.44 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Friendly debates can sometimes lead to irritation if J is headstrong or argumentative. J can be impatient and wants immediate action while M intends to plan before taking any action.

M’s Venus Squares J’s Jupiter (-1.99 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. J may occasionally accuse M of not being entirely open and honest. M may accuse J of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Uranus (-2.13 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between J and M. J is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. M is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

M’s Mars Opposes J’s Neptune (-2.18 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in J’s elusive reaction to M’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

M’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Mars (-3.47 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of M combines with the aggressiveness of J. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between J and M.

J’s Jupiter Squares M’s Pluto (-3.65 discord) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to J.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Neptune (-3.66 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between J and M can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. M can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards J.

J’s Venus Squares M’s Uranus (-4.20 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Uranus (-4.49 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of M produces friction with the selfishness of J. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. M might resent and even rebel against J’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between J and M.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Mercury (-6.08 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Neptune (-6.31 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. M can add a degree of holiness to J’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Saturn (-6.42 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in M’s criticism and disapproval of J’s achievements. J may seem careless and annoying to M. M may appear cold and bossy to J. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Saturn (-7.20 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between J’s practicality and M’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. J can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward M. M can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward J.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Venus (-7.51 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between M and J. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. M tends to disregard the emotional needs of J. J may find M cold and calculative.

M’s Jupiter Squares J’s Saturn (-7.63 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in J’s view of responsibility and M’s dreams of expansion. J places too much responsibility on M. M feels confined and frustrated.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Saturn (-8.03 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in J’s impulsive attitude and M’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Neptune (-8.29 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. J can be deceptive or dishonest to M. M can overreact to the confusion caused by J. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.

J’s Venus Squares M’s Saturn (-9.76 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in the controlling nature of M and the affectionate nature of J. J feels dominated. M tends to impose too much responsibility on J.

M’s Mars Opposes J’s Uranus (-10.29 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. M resents the quiet side of J. J dislikes the over emotional side of M. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Mars (-12.05 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of J and M. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between M and J is necessary for the union to work. M will have to work on patience while J will have to work on humility.

There is 1 mutual reception in J and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -18.49 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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J and M don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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