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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +22

J born September 9, 1991
Virgo ♍

M born November 4, 1990
Scorpio ♏

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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J and M’s Relationship

M and J’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Scorpio and Virgo. No individual is a pure Scorpio or Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in J’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Neptune (+5.95 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between M and J. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Sun Sextiles M’s Pluto (+5.85 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. J can bring out the psychoanalyst in M.

M’s Venus Sextiles J’s Neptune (+5.59 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. M is willing to overlook J’s faults. J is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

J’s Sun Sextiles M’s Mercury (+4.33 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between J and M. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

M’s Venus Sextiles J’s Uranus (+4.18 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. J surprises M in one way or another. M has a pleasant way of toning down J’s eccentricity.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Uranus (+4.07 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both M and J have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for J and M.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Neptune (+3.74 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between J and M. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes J knows what M is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

J’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+3.59 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Saturn (+3.09 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. J and M are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

J’s Sun Sextiles M’s Venus (+2.77 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. M has a soothing and warm effect on J. J has the desire to please and support M. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

M’s Saturn Sextiles J’s Pluto (+2.46 harmony) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. M’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate J’s power of transformation. M can give stability to J’s feelings of loneliness. J can strengthen M’s sense of authority.

J’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+2.43 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

M’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Neptune (+2.08 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J stimulates the imagination of M. M’s practical suggestions give form to J’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between J and M. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

J’s Sun Sextiles M’s Sun (+1.49 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with the couple. The similar temperaments of J and M can stimulate each other to achieve their goals in life. There is a strong sense of compatibility between M and J. Both are supportive of each other’s basic needs. This aspect is mutually beneficial for marriage.

M’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+1.20 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Mars Trines M’s Mars (+1.17 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of J and M. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. M and J are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.

M’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Pluto (+0.62 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. J may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than M is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both J and M complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – J’s respect for expression of individuality combines with M’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between J and M. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage M or J to evade responsibility.

M’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – M’s respect for expression of individuality combines with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between M and J. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage J or M to evade responsibility.

J’s Neptune Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both J and M share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in J or M.

M’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If M and J are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J can have an explosive effect on M’s viewpoints. M can expand J’s range of interest in various areas of life. J’s influence on M is stronger than M’s on J. J has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of M and could be ruthless in doing so.

J’s Pluto Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. J and M enjoy the same cultural references. M and J have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

M’s Jupiter Opposes J’s Saturn (-0.18 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in J’s restrictive nature and M’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

M’s Saturn Conjuncts J’s Uranus (-0.87 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. J is radical and rebellious while M is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Jupiter (-1.29 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. M will seem petty to J. J might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-1.42 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. J and M share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if J and M are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

M’s Jupiter Squares J’s Pluto (-2.24 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to M.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Mercury (-3.50 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

J’s Mars Squares M’s Neptune (-3.80 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in M’s elusive reaction to J’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

J’s Venus Squares M’s Pluto (-4.62 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Mars (-5.83 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of J and M. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between M and J is necessary for the union to work. M will have to work on patience while J will have to work on humility.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Venus (-8.01 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between M and J. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. M tends to disregard the emotional needs of J. J may find M cold and calculative.

M’s Saturn Conjuncts J’s Neptune (-8.41 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. J can add a degree of holiness to M’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

J’s Mars Squares M’s Uranus (-10.81 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. J resents the quiet side of M. M dislikes the over emotional side of J. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

There are 4 mutual receptions in J and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -21.63 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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J and M don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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