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Birthday Compatibility Score:
JAY born September 8, 1976
Virgo ♍
WEN born July 20, 1976
Cancer ♋
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Scoring Overview
A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.
A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”
A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.
A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.
A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”
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JAY and WEN’s Relationship
WEN and JAY’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Virgo. No individual is a pure Cancer or Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in JAY’s birth chart and the planets in WEN’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).
A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.
JAY’s Mercury Sextiles WEN’s Venus (+8.67 harmony) – JAY’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with WEN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. JAY’s communication style stimulates WEN’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from WEN makes JAY feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.
WEN’s Mercury Sextiles JAY’s Jupiter (+8.25 harmony) – WEN’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with JAY’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. WEN’s ideas stimulate JAY’s dreams. JAY’s faith deepens WEN’s intellectual self-confidence. JAY sympathizes with WEN’s desire for mental advancement. WEN respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of JAY.
JAY’s Venus Sextiles WEN’s Venus (+8.22 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. JAY and WEN have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.
WEN’s Venus Trines JAY’s Neptune (+7.41 harmony) – WEN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with JAY’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. WEN is willing to overlook JAY’s faults. JAY is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.
WEN’s Sun Sextiles JAY’s Jupiter (+7.32 harmony) – WEN’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with JAY’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. WEN stimulates JAY to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. JAY and WEN can instinctively bring out the best in each other.
JAY’s Sun Trines WEN’s Moon (+7.28 harmony) – JAY’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with WEN’s emotional needs. WEN’s sensitive nature and JAY’s personality are in harmony. WEN inspires and gives comfort to JAY. JAY supports, encourages, and revitalizes WEN. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.
JAY’s Jupiter Conjuncts WEN’s Jupiter (+6.64 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. JAY and WEN’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.
WEN’s Venus Sextiles JAY’s Jupiter (+6.51 harmony) – WEN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with JAY’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.
WEN’s Neptune Sextiles JAY’s Pluto (+6.11 harmony) – WEN’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with JAY’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of WEN stimulates the reforming urge of JAY. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.
JAY’s Neptune Sextiles WEN’s Pluto (+4.93 harmony) – JAY’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with WEN’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of JAY stimulates the reforming urge of WEN. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.
JAY’s Venus Sextiles WEN’s Neptune (+4.78 harmony) – JAY’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with WEN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. JAY is willing to overlook WEN’s faults. WEN is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.
JAY’s Mercury Sextiles WEN’s Neptune (+4.36 harmony) – JAY’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with WEN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. WEN stimulates the imagination of JAY. JAY’s practical suggestions give form to WEN’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between WEN and JAY. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.
WEN’s Mercury Trines JAY’s Neptune (+4.22 harmony) – WEN’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with JAY’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when JAY inspires the creativity of WEN. WEN’s practical suggestions give form to JAY’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.
JAY’s Mars Sextiles WEN’s Neptune (+4.02 harmony) – JAY’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with WEN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of JAY stimulates the sacrificial tendency in WEN. JAY and WEN will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.
WEN’s Venus Sextiles JAY’s Pluto (+3.99 harmony) – WEN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with JAY’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between WEN and JAY makes it impossible to separate them permanently.
WEN’s Mercury Sextiles JAY’s Venus (+3.98 harmony) – WEN’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with JAY’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. WEN’s communication style stimulates JAY’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from JAY makes WEN feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.
WEN’s Venus Sextiles JAY’s Mars (+3.94 harmony) – WEN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with JAY’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. JAY’s desire stimulates WEN’s loving nature. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a sexually satisfying relationship.
JAY’s Saturn Trines WEN’s Neptune (+3.93 harmony) – JAY’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with WEN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. JAY’s practical instincts are in harmony with WEN’s visions and dreams. JAY has a good sense of reality that WEN might not have. WEN is aware of a different dimension that can help JAY.
JAY’s Moon Sextiles WEN’s Moon (+3.70 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine pleasantly. JAY and WEN’s attitudes are similar enough they tend to agree on almost anything under the sun. They stimulate each other so well they can resolve various lifestyle problems before they even pop up. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a long-term relationship.
JAY’s Mercury Sextiles WEN’s Mercury (+3.65 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly between the couple. Stimulating and exciting conversations are frequent in the relationship. Ideas flow naturally between JAY and WEN. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.
JAY’s Venus Sextiles WEN’s Saturn (+3.06 harmony) – JAY’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with WEN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. WEN’s protective nature stimulates JAY’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.
JAY’s Venus Conjuncts WEN’s Pluto (+2.78 harmony) – JAY’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with WEN’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. WEN may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than JAY is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.
JAY’s Mercury Sextiles WEN’s Saturn (+2.77 harmony) – JAY’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with WEN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. WEN helps give form to JAY’s ideas. JAY learns a lot from WEN’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when WEN offers practical guidance that improves JAY’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.
JAY’s Jupiter Trines WEN’s Pluto (+2.69 harmony) – JAY’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with WEN’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both have the potential to accomplish something big together. There is harmony in encouraging the spiritual enlightenment of one another.
JAY’s Jupiter Sextiles WEN’s Saturn (+2.61 harmony) – JAY’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with WEN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. WEN’s practicality stimulates JAY’s expansive ideas. JAY provides vision while WEN creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.
WEN’s Saturn Trines JAY’s Neptune (+2.06 harmony) – WEN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with JAY’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. WEN’s practical instincts are in harmony with JAY’s visions and dreams. WEN has a good sense of reality that JAY might not have. JAY is aware of a different dimension that can help WEN.
WEN’s Mars Sextiles JAY’s Uranus (+1.70 harmony) – WEN’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with JAY’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.
JAY’s Saturn Sextiles WEN’s Pluto (+1.29 harmony) – JAY’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with WEN’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. JAY’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate WEN’s power of transformation. JAY can give stability to WEN’s feelings of loneliness. WEN can strengthen JAY’s sense of authority.
WEN’s Mercury Sextiles JAY’s Mars (+1.23 harmony) – WEN’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with JAY’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. WEN’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by JAY’s encouragement.
WEN’s Saturn Sextiles JAY’s Pluto (+0.89 harmony) – WEN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with JAY’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. WEN’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate JAY’s power of transformation. WEN can give stability to JAY’s feelings of loneliness. JAY can strengthen WEN’s sense of authority.
JAY’s Mars Sextiles WEN’s Saturn (+0.63 harmony) – JAY’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with WEN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. JAY stimulates WEN’s ambition and self-confidence. WEN restrains JAY’s tendency to act impulsively.
JAY’s Mercury Conjuncts WEN’s Pluto (neutral) – JAY’s mentality and powers of perception combine with WEN’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. WEN can have an explosive effect on JAY’s viewpoints. JAY can expand WEN’s range of interest in various areas of life. WEN’s influence on JAY is stronger than JAY’s on WEN. WEN has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of JAY and could be ruthless in doing so.
JAY’s Uranus Conjuncts WEN’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both JAY and WEN complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.
JAY’s Neptune Conjuncts WEN’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both JAY and WEN share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in JAY or WEN.
JAY’s Pluto Conjuncts WEN’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. JAY and WEN enjoy the same cultural references. WEN and JAY have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.
WEN’s Sun Conjuncts JAY’s Saturn (-0.62 discord) – WEN’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with JAY’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. JAY has the tendency to criticize and judge WEN’s actions. JAY sometimes blames WEN when something goes wrong. WEN is more tolerant and forgiving towards JAY. WEN can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from JAY.
JAY’s Jupiter Opposes WEN’s Neptune (-0.76 discord) – JAY’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges WEN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.
JAY’s Sun Conjuncts WEN’s Mars (-0.82 discord) – JAY’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with WEN’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of JAY combines with the aggressiveness of WEN. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between WEN and JAY.
WEN’s Venus Conjuncts JAY’s Saturn (-1.79 discord) – WEN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with JAY’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. JAY provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. WEN’s sympathy and affection stimulate JAY’s confidence. JAY can become possessive of WEN. WEN can feel restricted by JAY’s criticism and discipline.
WEN’s Mars Squares JAY’s Jupiter (-2.08 discord) – WEN’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with JAY’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in WEN’s instincts and JAY’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.
JAY’s Saturn Squares WEN’s Uranus (-2.16 discord) – JAY’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with WEN’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of JAY and the progressive nature of WEN. JAY will restrict WEN’s progress and expression of individuality. WEN will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of JAY.
JAY’s Mars Conjuncts WEN’s Pluto (-2.84 discord) – A delicate combination of JAY’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with WEN’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for JAY and WEN.
WEN’s Mercury Conjuncts JAY’s Saturn (-3.43 discord) – WEN’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with JAY’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. WEN may feel inadequate when JAY imparts knowledge and wisdom. JAY has the tendency to discipline WEN. WEN may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by JAY. WEN can talk JAY out of negative attitudes. WEN can encourage progressiveness in JAY.
JAY’s Sun Squares WEN’s Neptune (-3.53 discord) – JAY’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with WEN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between JAY and WEN can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. WEN can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards JAY.
JAY’s Moon Squares WEN’s Neptune (-3.95 discord) – JAY’s emotional needs interact stressfully with WEN’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. WEN can be deceptive or dishonest to JAY. JAY can overreact to the confusion caused by WEN. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.
JAY’s Moon Opposes WEN’s Mars (-4.61 discord) – JAY’s emotional needs confront and challenge WEN’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when WEN becomes rude or aggressive toward JAY. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between JAY and WEN. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.
WEN’s Sun Squares JAY’s Uranus (-5.39 discord) – WEN’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with JAY’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of JAY produces friction with the selfishness of WEN. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. JAY might resent and even rebel against WEN’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between WEN and JAY.
JAY’s Saturn Conjuncts WEN’s Saturn (-5.75 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. JAY and WEN share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if JAY and WEN are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.
WEN’s Venus Squares JAY’s Uranus (-5.78 discord) – WEN’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with JAY’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.
WEN’s Moon Opposes JAY’s Uranus (-8.26 discord) – WEN’s emotional needs confront and challenge JAY’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between WEN and JAY. WEN is hypersensitive and moody. JAY is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.
WEN’s Mars Squares JAY’s Neptune (-8.70 discord) – WEN’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with JAY’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in JAY’s elusive reaction to WEN’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.
WEN’s Mercury Squares JAY’s Uranus (-11.00 discord) – WEN’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with JAY’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. JAY may seem unstable and erratic to WEN. WEN may seem elusive and contradictory to JAY. JAY stimulates, excites, and irritates WEN’s mind simultaneously. WEN can’t understand the complex mind of JAY. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.
WEN’s Saturn Squares JAY’s Uranus (-13.66 discord) – WEN’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with JAY’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of WEN and the progressive nature of JAY. WEN will restrict JAY’s progress and expression of individuality. JAY will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of WEN.
WEN’s Moon Squares JAY’s Saturn (-17.41 discord) – WEN’s emotional needs interact stressfully with JAY’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between JAY’s practicality and WEN’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. JAY can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward WEN. WEN can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward JAY.
There are 5 mutual receptions in JAY and WEN’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add to the total score. The remaining -25.08 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.
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JAY and WEN don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”
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