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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -60

Jilly born September 14, 1985
Virgo ♍

Tom born February 13, 1979
Aquarius ♒

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Jilly and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Jilly’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aquarius and Virgo. No individual is a pure Aquarius or Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Jilly’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Jilly’s Venus Trines Tom’s Neptune (+6.68 harmony) – Jilly’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Jilly is willing to overlook Tom’s faults. Tom is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Tom’s Mercury Trines Jilly’s Pluto (+6.48 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Jilly’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in how each other influence the other’s mind. There are depth and wisdom in the relationship. Jilly encourages Tom to think more deeply. When both Tom and Jilly combine their minds, they can build their exciting ideas into a giant success.

Jilly’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Venus (+6.07 harmony) – Jilly’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Jilly’s communication style is in harmony with Tom’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Tom makes Jilly feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Jilly’s Sun Sextiles Tom’s Uranus (+5.33 harmony) – Jilly’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Jilly and Tom have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for Tom and Jilly.

Tom’s Mercury Sextiles Jilly’s Neptune (+4.67 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Jilly’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Jilly stimulates the imagination of Tom. Tom’s practical suggestions give form to Jilly’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Jilly and Tom. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

Jilly’s Venus Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+4.14 harmony) – Jilly’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Jilly and Tom makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Tom’s Venus Trines Jilly’s Mars (+3.75 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Jilly’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of Jilly and loving nature of Tom. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

Tom’s Moon Trines Jilly’s Neptune (+3.60 harmony) – Tom’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Jilly’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Tom and Jilly. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Tom’s Sun Trines Jilly’s Pluto (+3.15 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Jilly’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Tom can bring out the psychoanalyst in Jilly. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Jilly and Tom. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Tom and Jilly to a long-term relationship.

Jilly’s Moon Sextiles Tom’s Uranus (+2.51 harmony) – Jilly’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There’s a degree of unpredictability linking Jilly and Tom. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Jilly and Tom are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. Tom awakens and inspires ideas in Jilly. Jilly’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Tom’s inventiveness and creativity.

Jilly’s Uranus Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+2.10 harmony) – Jilly’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Jilly’s Moon Trines Tom’s Venus (+2.01 harmony) – Jilly’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Tom’s cuteness charms Jilly’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Jilly and Tom can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Tom’s Mars Sextiles Jilly’s Uranus (+1.87 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Jilly’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.

Tom’s Moon Sextiles Jilly’s Pluto (+1.79 harmony) – Tom’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Jilly’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between Tom and Jilly. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Tom’s Sun Sextiles Jilly’s Neptune (+1.34 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Jilly’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Jilly and Tom. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Jilly knows what Tom is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Tom’s Venus Sextiles Jilly’s Pluto (+1.22 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Jilly’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Tom and Jilly makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Tom’s Venus Conjuncts Jilly’s Neptune (+0.95 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Jilly’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is mutual interest in nature or culture like art and music. There is sympathy, deep affection, and devotion toward each other. This aspect intensifies other aspects. A general positive score will become more positive and vice versa.

Jilly’s Sun Conjuncts Tom’s Moon (neutral) – Jilly’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Tom’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of Jilly connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Tom. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Jilly’s Moon Conjuncts Tom’s Moon (neutral) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine with ease. Jilly will be sensitive to Tom’s moods or feelings, and vice versa. The fusion of sympathy and understanding makes both agree on almost anything under the sun. Jilly and Tom have many traits in common including likes, dislikes, and viewpoints. The emotional compatibility promotes a long-lasting relationship.

Tom’s Moon Conjuncts Jilly’s Mercury (neutral) – Tom’s emotional needs combine with Jilly’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. Tom intuitively knows what Jilly is thinking. Jilly can clearly describe Tom’s emotions. Jilly can be an excellent listener to any weird things that Tom has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

Jilly’s Jupiter Opposes Tom’s Jupiter (neutral) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges each other. There is tension in the moral sentiments, ethical principles, and spiritual values of Jilly and Tom. Both have different ideas of justice and fair play.

Jilly’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – Jilly’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Tom’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Jilly and Tom. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Tom or Jilly to evade responsibility.

Jilly’s Neptune Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Jilly and Tom share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Jilly or Tom.

Jilly’s Sun Conjuncts Tom’s Saturn (-1.10 discord) – Jilly’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. Tom has the tendency to criticize and judge Jilly’s actions. Tom sometimes blames Jilly when something goes wrong. Jilly is more tolerant and forgiving towards Tom. Jilly can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from Tom.

Jilly’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Neptune (-2.10 discord) – Jilly’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Jilly’s method of thinking. Both Jilly and Tom are capable of lying to each other. Tom’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Tom’s Moon Conjuncts Jilly’s Mars (-2.14 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs combine with Jilly’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Jilly arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of Tom. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between Tom and Jilly will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of Jilly can be unbearable to the emotional character of Tom. Both Jilly and Tom are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

Jilly’s Mars Conjuncts Tom’s Saturn (-2.25 discord) – Jilly’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The relationship induces cooperation and working for a common goal. Both either complement each other well or antagonize each other’s differences. Jilly stimulates the ambition and progressive instinct in Tom. Tom in some ways restricts or limits the activities of Jilly.

Jilly’s Saturn Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (-3.10 discord) – Jilly’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Tom is radical and rebellious while Jilly is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Tom’s Jupiter Squares Jilly’s Pluto (-3.24 discord) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Jilly’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Tom.

Jilly’s Venus Squares Tom’s Uranus (-4.36 discord) – Jilly’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Jilly’s Mercury Conjuncts Tom’s Saturn (-4.80 discord) – Jilly’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Jilly may feel inadequate when Tom imparts knowledge and wisdom. Tom has the tendency to discipline Jilly. Jilly may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Tom. Jilly can talk Tom out of negative attitudes. Jilly can encourage progressiveness in Tom.

Tom’s Mars Squares Jilly’s Saturn (-5.14 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Jilly’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Jilly’s constructive ideas and Tom’s enthusiasm. Jilly may have unreasonable demands for Tom. This makes Tom impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Jilly’s Moon Squares Tom’s Neptune (-5.35 discord) – Jilly’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. Tom can be deceptive or dishonest to Jilly. Jilly can overreact to the confusion caused by Tom. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.

Jilly’s Venus Opposes Tom’s Mars (-5.92 discord) – Jilly’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Jilly and Tom in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes tension and disputes. Tom feels suffocated by Jilly’s possessiveness. Jilly can be deeply hurt by Tom’s thoughtless words.

Tom’s Mercury Opposes Jilly’s Venus (-6.18 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Jilly’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Tom and Jilly. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Tom tends to disregard the emotional needs of Jilly. Jilly may find Tom cold and calculative.

Jilly’s Sun Squares Tom’s Neptune (-6.49 discord) – Jilly’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Jilly and Tom can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Tom can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Jilly.

Tom’s Moon Squares Jilly’s Uranus (-7.07 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Jilly’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between Jilly and Tom. Jilly is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Tom is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Jilly’s Moon Conjuncts Tom’s Saturn (-7.58 discord) – Jilly’s emotional needs combine with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Tom tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Jilly. Jilly may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Tom imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Jilly and Tom.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Jilly’s Mars (-7.97 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Jilly’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Tom and Jilly. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Jilly and Tom are together.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Jilly’s Venus (-8.68 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Jilly’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also tension between Tom’s ego and Jilly’s romantic sensibilities. Both do not have the same social ideas or desires. Jilly and Tom can be emotionally confused with one another.

Tom’s Saturn Squares Jilly’s Uranus (-11.46 discord) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Jilly’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of Tom and the progressive nature of Jilly. Tom will restrict Jilly’s progress and expression of individuality. Jilly will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of Tom.

Tom’s Mercury Squares Jilly’s Saturn (-11.92 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Jilly’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Jilly’s criticism and disapproval of Tom’s achievements. Tom may seem careless and annoying to Jilly. Jilly may appear cold and bossy to Tom. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Tom’s Mercury Opposes Jilly’s Mars (-12.13 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Jilly’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in Jilly’s aggressive attitude and Tom’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. Tom’s sarcasm could provoke Jilly’s temper.

Tom’s Sun Squares Jilly’s Saturn (-16.92 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Jilly’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Jilly’s controlling nature and Tom’s egocentric nature. Tom struggles to break free from the limits set by Jilly. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Jilly and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -11.76 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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