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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -45

John born April 11, 1967
Aries ♈

Mary born June 7, 1961
Gemini ♊

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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John and Mary’s Relationship

Mary and John’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Gemini and Aries. No individual is a pure Gemini or Aries but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in John’s birth chart and the planets in Mary’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

John’s Sun Trines Mary’s Uranus (+10.58 harmony) – John’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Mary’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with John’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between John and Mary.

John’s Moon Trines Mary’s Pluto (+9.72 harmony) – John’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Mary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between John and Mary. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

John’s Moon Sextiles Mary’s Mercury (+7.44 harmony) – John’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Mary’s mentality and powers of perception. The relationship stimulates deep communication in a friendly manner. There is an intuitive understanding of each other’s ideas and views. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Mary and John are often in complete agreement with each other. There is usually a telepathic thought projection. The relationship provides favorable circumstances to solve problems reasonably.

John’s Sun Trines Mary’s Mars (+6.51 harmony) – John’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. John and Mary are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Mary and John inspire creative passion in one another.

Mary’s Jupiter Sextiles John’s Saturn (+3.87 harmony) – Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with John’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. John’s practicality stimulates Mary’s expansive ideas. Mary provides vision while John creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

John’s Sun Sextiles Mary’s Sun (+3.57 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with the couple. The similar temperaments of John and Mary can stimulate each other to achieve their goals in life. There is a strong sense of compatibility between Mary and John. Both are supportive of each other’s basic needs. This aspect is mutually beneficial for marriage.

John’s Venus Trines Mary’s Saturn (+2.72 harmony) – John’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Mary’s protective trait is in harmony with John’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

John’s Mars Sextiles Mary’s Uranus (+2.27 harmony) – John’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.

John’s Moon Conjuncts Mary’s Venus (+2.12 harmony) – John’s emotional needs combine with Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The fusion of mutual devotion and affection in each other produces a happy union. The relationship encourages cooperation and attention to fairness. Both are in agreement on financial and social matters. Occasional small disagreements are quickly resolved. Neither John nor Mary is useful in setting boundaries.

John’s Mercury Sextiles Mary’s Saturn (+1.16 harmony) – John’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Mary helps give form to John’s ideas. John learns a lot from Mary’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when Mary offers practical guidance that improves John’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

John’s Sun Conjuncts Mary’s Venus (+1.12 harmony) – John’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. John has the same social interests and cultural values as Mary. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both Mary and John enjoy each other’s company.

Mary’s Saturn Sextiles John’s Neptune (+0.81 harmony) – Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with John’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Mary can stabilize John to be practical. John can inspire Mary to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Mary’s Sun Trines John’s Mars (+0.14 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with John’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Mary and John are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both John and Mary inspire creative passion in one another.

John’s Sun Conjuncts Mary’s Moon (neutral) – John’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Mary’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of John connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Mary. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Mary’s Moon Conjuncts John’s Mercury (neutral) – Mary’s emotional needs combine with John’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. Mary intuitively knows what John is thinking. John can clearly describe Mary’s emotions. John can be an excellent listener to any weird things that Mary has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

John’s Saturn Sextiles Mary’s Saturn (neutral) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with the couple. John and Mary can stimulate each other to work on a common goal together as a team. This is a good aspect for any type of relationship. Both are disciplined and want the same level of financial security.

John’s Venus Squares Mary’s Pluto (-0.04 discord) – John’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Mary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Mary’s Venus Squares John’s Jupiter (-0.43 discord) – Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with John’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. John may occasionally accuse Mary of not being entirely open and honest. Mary may accuse John of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

John’s Venus Squares Mary’s Mars (-1.05 discord) – John’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between John and Mary in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Mary feels suffocated by John’s possessiveness. John can be deeply hurt by Mary’s thoughtless words.

John’s Moon Squares Mary’s Mars (-2.92 discord) – John’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when John becomes indecisive when reacting to Mary’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between John and Mary.

Mary’s Sun Squares John’s Uranus (-3.28 discord) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with John’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of John produces friction with the selfishness of Mary. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. John might resent and even rebel against Mary’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Mary and John.

John’s Venus Squares Mary’s Uranus (-4.34 discord) – John’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

John’s Moon Squares Mary’s Saturn (-4.91 discord) – John’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between Mary’s practicality and John’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Mary can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward John. John can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward Mary.

John’s Moon Squares Mary’s Jupiter (-5.48 discord) – John’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. It’s common to have disagreements about religion, finances, and family matters. The friction between John and Mary is not enough to create serious difficulty in the relationship. John may feel uncomfortable when Mary misunderstands a passing mood. Mary may make extravagant pledges making John to expect too much and be disappointed when the promises are broken.

John’s Sun Squares Mary’s Saturn (-5.56 discord) – John’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Mary’s controlling nature and John’s egocentric nature. John struggles to break free from the limits set by Mary. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

John’s Jupiter Opposes Mary’s Saturn (-5.92 discord) – John’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Mary’s restrictive nature and John’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

Mary’s Sun Squares John’s Pluto (-5.95 discord) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with John’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Mary and John can cause damage to the relationship.

Mary’s Venus Opposes John’s Mars (-6.89 discord) – Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges John’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Mary and John in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes tension and disputes. John feels suffocated by Mary’s possessiveness. Mary can be deeply hurt by John’s thoughtless words.

Mary’s Mars Squares John’s Neptune (-7.39 discord) – Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with John’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in John’s elusive reaction to Mary’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Mary’s Uranus Squares John’s Neptune (-8.51 discord) – Mary’s respect for expression of individuality interacts stressfully with John’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There is friction in the social or political views of Mary and John. The dreamy and intuitive nature of John is in conflict with the spontaneous actions of Mary. Mary looks undisciplined to John. John’s instincts seem slow to Mary.

John’s Mars Squares Mary’s Saturn (-12.42 discord) – John’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Mary’s constructive ideas and John’s enthusiasm. Mary may have unreasonable demands for John. This makes John impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Mary’s Mercury Squares John’s Saturn (-12.42 discord) – Mary’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with John’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in John’s criticism and disapproval of Mary’s achievements. Mary may seem careless and annoying to John. John may appear cold and bossy to Mary. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Mary’s Moon Conjuncts John’s Saturn (-13.66 discord) – Mary’s emotional needs combine with John’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. John tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Mary. Mary may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that John imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Mary and John.

John’s Moon Opposes Mary’s Neptune (-13.93 discord) – John’s emotional needs confront and challenge Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. John can overreact to the confusion caused by Mary. Mary can be deceptive or dishonest to John. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

There are 4 mutual receptions in John and Mary’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -21.93 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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John and Mary don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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