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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -44

Kathy born April 1, 1957
Aries ♈

Tom born July 12, 1954
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Kathy and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Kathy’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Aries. No individual is a pure Cancer or Aries but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Kathy’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Tom’s Moon Trines Kathy’s Venus (+12.11 harmony) – Tom’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Kathy’s cuteness charms Tom’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Tom and Kathy can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Kathy’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Pluto (+11.91 harmony) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in how each other influence the other’s mind. There are depth and wisdom in the relationship. Tom encourages Kathy to think more deeply. When both Kathy and Tom combine their minds, they can build their exciting ideas into a giant success.

Kathy’s Moon Trines Tom’s Pluto (+11.40 harmony) – Kathy’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Kathy and Tom. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Kathy’s Sun Trines Tom’s Moon (+8.96 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Tom’s emotional needs. Tom’s sensitive nature and Kathy’s personality are in harmony. Tom inspires and gives comfort to Kathy. Kathy supports, encourages, and revitalizes Tom. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

Kathy’s Moon Trines Tom’s Venus (+8.95 harmony) – Kathy’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Tom’s cuteness charms Kathy’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Kathy and Tom can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Kathy’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Venus (+8.09 harmony) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Kathy’s communication style is in harmony with Tom’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Tom makes Kathy feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Kathy’s Jupiter Sextiles Tom’s Uranus (+7.65 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Kathy’s visions stimulate Tom’s creative genius. Kathy will expand Tom’s goals and creativity. Tom adds innovation and excitement to Kathy’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

Kathy’s Moon Trines Tom’s Mars (+6.44 harmony) – Kathy’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the physical intimacy and irresistible attraction between Kathy and Tom. Kathy inspires the development of Tom’s sexual fire. Tom stimulates Kathy’s imagination and self-confidence. This aspect encourages reproduction if Tom is male and Kathy is female.

Kathy’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Mars (+5.92 harmony) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Kathy’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Tom’s encouragement.

Tom’s Mars Trines Kathy’s Pluto (+5.49 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between Tom and Kathy. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

Tom’s Venus Sextiles Kathy’s Neptune (+5.29 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Tom is willing to overlook Kathy’s faults. Kathy is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Tom’s Moon Trines Kathy’s Uranus (+4.45 harmony) – Tom’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Tom and Kathy are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Kathy and Tom are together. Kathy awakens and inspires ideas in Tom. Tom’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Kathy’s inventiveness and creativity.

Tom’s Sun Sextiles Kathy’s Jupiter (+3.87 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Kathy’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Tom stimulates Kathy to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Kathy and Tom can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Tom’s Venus Conjuncts Kathy’s Pluto (+2.31 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. Kathy may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than Tom is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

Tom’s Mars Sextiles Kathy’s Neptune (+2.11 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of Tom stimulates the sacrificial tendency in Kathy. Tom and Kathy will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

Tom’s Neptune Sextiles Kathy’s Pluto (+2.03 harmony) – Tom’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Tom stimulates the reforming urge of Kathy. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Tom’s Mercury Trines Kathy’s Neptune (+1.53 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Kathy inspires the creativity of Tom. Tom’s practical suggestions give form to Kathy’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Tom’s Saturn Sextiles Kathy’s Pluto (+1.30 harmony) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Tom’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate Kathy’s power of transformation. Tom can give stability to Kathy’s feelings of loneliness. Kathy can strengthen Tom’s sense of authority.

Tom’s Jupiter Trines Kathy’s Neptune (+1.09 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Kathy’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Kathy’s Saturn Trines Tom’s Pluto (+0.34 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Kathy’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with Tom’s quiet but immense power. Both Kathy and Tom are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Tom’s Sun Conjuncts Kathy’s Uranus (neutral) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The creative talents of Tom combine with the individualism of Kathy. There is always something extraordinary or unconventional in the relationship. Tom is uncertain of how Kathy will react in a given situation. The erratic tendency of Kathy has a disorganizing effect on Tom.

Kathy’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Kathy and Tom complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Kathy’s Neptune Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Kathy and Tom share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Kathy or Tom.

Kathy’s Pluto Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Kathy and Tom enjoy the same cultural references. Tom and Kathy have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Kathy’s Sun Squares Tom’s Uranus (-0.38 discord) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Tom produces friction with the selfishness of Kathy. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Tom might resent and even rebel against Kathy’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Kathy and Tom.

Kathy’s Uranus Squares Tom’s Neptune (-0.40 discord) – Kathy’s respect for expression of individuality interacts stressfully with Tom’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There is friction in the social or political views of Kathy and Tom. The dreamy and intuitive nature of Tom is in conflict with the spontaneous actions of Kathy. Kathy looks undisciplined to Tom. Tom’s instincts seem slow to Kathy.

Tom’s Sun Squares Kathy’s Venus (-0.41 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Kathy’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Kathy’s romantic sensibilities and Tom’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Kathy’s Venus Squares Tom’s Jupiter (-0.77 discord) – Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Tom may occasionally accuse Kathy of not being entirely open and honest. Kathy may accuse Tom of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Tom’s Uranus Squares Kathy’s Neptune (-1.35 discord) – Tom’s respect for expression of individuality interacts stressfully with Kathy’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There is friction in the social or political views of Tom and Kathy. The dreamy and intuitive nature of Kathy is in conflict with the spontaneous actions of Tom. Tom looks undisciplined to Kathy. Kathy’s instincts seem slow to Tom.

Tom’s Mars Squares Kathy’s Jupiter (-2.58 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in Tom’s instincts and Kathy’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

Kathy’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Neptune (-3.20 discord) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between Tom and Kathy is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. Tom can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Kathy.

Tom’s Moon Conjuncts Kathy’s Saturn (-3.60 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs combine with Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Kathy tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Tom. Tom may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Kathy imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Tom and Kathy.

Kathy’s Sun Squares Tom’s Sun (-3.90 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Kathy and Tom can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Tom’s Mercury Squares Kathy’s Venus (-4.42 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Tom and Kathy. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Tom tends to disregard the emotional needs of Kathy. Kathy may find Tom cold and calculative.

Kathy’s Sun Squares Tom’s Jupiter (-5.77 discord) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Kathy and Tom have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Tom and Kathy may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Tom’s Sun Squares Kathy’s Moon (-7.43 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Kathy’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. Tom’s domineering personality can overwhelm Kathy’s emotional and sensitive nature. Kathy can appear moody to Tom’s inconsiderate behavior.

Tom’s Sun Squares Kathy’s Mercury (-8.12 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Kathy and Tom. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Kathy might be too aggressive in communicating with Tom.

Tom’s Saturn Conjuncts Kathy’s Neptune (-9.62 discord) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Kathy can add a degree of holiness to Tom’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

Kathy’s Moon Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-9.75 discord) – Kathy’s emotional needs confront and challenge Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between Tom’s practicality and Kathy’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Kathy resents Tom’s constant discipline. Tom is frustrated by the moody disposition of Kathy. Tom sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. Kathy sees the intuitive and magical side.

Kathy’s Sun Squares Tom’s Mercury (-10.74 discord) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Tom and Kathy. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Tom might be too aggressive in communicating with Kathy.

Kathy’s Moon Squares Tom’s Uranus (-10.95 discord) – Kathy’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between Tom and Kathy. Tom is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Kathy is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Kathy’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Uranus (-11.64 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Tom may seem unstable and erratic to Kathy. Kathy may seem elusive and contradictory to Tom. Tom stimulates, excites, and irritates Kathy’s mind simultaneously. Kathy can’t understand the complex mind of Tom. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Kathy’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-12.87 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Tom’s criticism and disapproval of Kathy’s achievements. Kathy may seem careless and annoying to Tom. Tom may appear cold and bossy to Kathy. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Kathy’s Moon Opposes Tom’s Neptune (-14.13 discord) – Kathy’s emotional needs confront and challenge Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Kathy can overreact to the confusion caused by Tom. Tom can be deceptive or dishonest to Kathy. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

Tom’s Saturn Squares Kathy’s Uranus (-14.66 discord) – Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of Tom and the progressive nature of Kathy. Tom will restrict Kathy’s progress and expression of individuality. Kathy will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of Tom.

Kathy’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Neptune (-14.83 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Kathy’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of Tom. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. Tom may find Kathy’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

Tom’s Moon Opposes Kathy’s Mars (-15.35 discord) – Tom’s emotional needs confront and challenge Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when Kathy becomes rude or aggressive toward Tom. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Tom and Kathy. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

There are 4 mutual receptions in Kathy and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -28.37 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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