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Birthday Compatibility Score: +12

Kathy born October 21, 1967
Libra ♎

Tom born July 3, 1969
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Kathy and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Kathy’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Libra. No individual is a pure Cancer or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Kathy’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Tom’s Venus Trines Kathy’s Uranus (+9.47 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Kathy surprises Tom in one way or another. Tom has a pleasant way of toning down Kathy’s eccentricity.

Tom’s Sun Sextiles Kathy’s Venus (+8.74 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Kathy’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. Kathy has a soothing and warm effect on Tom. Tom has the desire to please and support Kathy. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

Tom’s Jupiter Conjuncts Kathy’s Uranus (+8.37 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other. Tom will expand Kathy’s goals and creativity. Kathy adds a touch of genius and excitement to Tom’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship. A degree of control is needed to prevent overconfidence in Tom or Kathy.

Kathy’s Neptune Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+6.55 harmony) – Kathy’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Kathy stimulates the reforming urge of Tom. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Tom’s Venus Trines Kathy’s Pluto (+6.09 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony when both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Tom and Kathy makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Tom’s Sun Trines Kathy’s Mercury (+6.03 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Tom and Kathy is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Kathy understands Tom’s intentions. Tom supports Kathy’s intellectual excitement. Kathy is able to discuss problems with Tom. Together they can work out a solution.

Kathy’s Uranus Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+5.42 harmony) – Kathy’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with Tom’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. Tom and Kathy have a strong intuitive connection.

Kathy’s Sun Trines Tom’s Mercury (+2.71 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Tom’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Kathy and Tom is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Tom understands Kathy’s intentions. Kathy supports Tom’s intellectual excitement. Tom is able to discuss problems with Kathy. Together they can work out a solution.

Kathy’s Mercury Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+2.68 harmony) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Tom stimulates Kathy to be open to new ways of thinking. Kathy appreciates Tom’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Tom’s influence on Kathy is stronger than Kathy’s on Tom.

Tom’s Jupiter Sextiles Kathy’s Neptune (+2.41 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is an idealistic bond between Tom and Kathy. Tom’s expansive dreams stimulate Kathy’s intuitions. Both encourage each other to realize real goals.

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Kathy’s Venus Trines Tom’s Saturn (+1.94 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Tom’s protective trait is in harmony with Kathy’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Tom’s Neptune Sextiles Kathy’s Pluto (+1.49 harmony) – Tom’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Tom stimulates the reforming urge of Kathy. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Kathy’s Jupiter Trines Tom’s Saturn (+1.37 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Tom’s practicality is in harmony with Kathy’s expansive ideas. Kathy provides vision while Tom creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Tom’s Mars Sextiles Kathy’s Uranus (+0.73 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates confidence in each other. Both will benefit from a sense of adventure and creativity as a team.

Tom’s Jupiter Conjuncts Kathy’s Pluto (+0.62 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Kathy can be possessive and domineering. Tom will inspire and encourage Kathy. The combination can either be in harmony or discord depending on other aspects. This aspect helps deepen the connection between Tom and Kathy.

Tom’s Mars Trines Kathy’s Saturn (+0.56 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in Kathy’s patience and Tom’s aggressiveness.

Kathy’s Mars Trines Tom’s Saturn (+0.47 harmony) – Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in Tom’s patience and Kathy’s aggressiveness.

Tom’s Sun Trines Kathy’s Neptune (+0.26 harmony) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Kathy and Tom. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Kathy’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if Kathy and Tom have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

Kathy’s Neptune Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Kathy and Tom share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Kathy or Tom.

Kathy’s Mercury Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom brings out the poet and dreamer in Kathy. There is a robust telepathic connection between Kathy and Tom that helps to understand each other without speaking a word. Sometimes Kathy can win arguments even when it’s wrong.

Kathy’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Kathy and Tom complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Kathy’s Pluto Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Kathy and Tom enjoy the same cultural references. Tom and Kathy have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Tom’s Mars Conjuncts Kathy’s Neptune (-0.81 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion may combine with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom excites Kathy’s emotions. Kathy encourages Tom to have bigger goals. Tom can overstimulate the imagination of Kathy. Kathy can have a dissolving effect on the energies of Tom. The relationship can be confusing for both Tom and Kathy. There is a strong possibility of self-indulgence in one or both.

Tom’s Venus Squares Kathy’s Jupiter (-1.02 discord) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Kathy’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction on how each other handle finances. Kathy may occasionally accuse Tom of not being entirely open and honest. Tom may accuse Kathy of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Kathy’s Jupiter Squares Tom’s Neptune (-1.96 discord) – Kathy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. Kathy might unintentionally hurt Tom’s sensitive feelings. Tom may appear elusive to Kathy. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

Kathy’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-2.16 discord) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Kathy and Tom. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Kathy may feel Tom being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. Tom may feel Kathy being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Kathy’s Mars (-3.09 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Tom and Kathy. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Kathy and Tom are together.

Tom’s Mercury Squares Kathy’s Uranus (-3.27 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Kathy may seem unstable and erratic to Tom. Tom may seem elusive and contradictory to Kathy. Kathy stimulates, excites, and irritates Tom’s mind simultaneously. Tom can’t understand the complex mind of Kathy. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Kathy’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Venus (-4.44 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause tension in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Kathy and Tom. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Kathy tends to disregard the emotional needs of Tom. Tom may find Kathy cold and calculative.

Kathy’s Saturn Opposes Tom’s Uranus (-4.68 discord) – Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension between Kathy’s practicality and Tom’s innovative nature. Kathy wants solidarity while Tom wants alteration.

Tom’s Venus Opposes Kathy’s Neptune (-4.75 discord) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Tom and Kathy. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause tension and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Kathy’s Mars Squares Tom’s Pluto (-4.78 discord) – Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Tom’s Mars Squares Kathy’s Jupiter (-4.86 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in Tom’s instincts and Kathy’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

Tom’s Mercury Opposes Kathy’s Mars (-6.59 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in Kathy’s aggressive attitude and Tom’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. Tom’s sarcasm could provoke Kathy’s temper.

Kathy’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-6.94 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Tom’s criticism and disapproval of Kathy’s achievements. Kathy may seem careless and annoying to Tom. Tom may appear cold and bossy to Kathy. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Kathy’s Mars Squares Tom’s Jupiter (-7.25 discord) – Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in Kathy’s instincts and Tom’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

Tom’s Mercury Squares Kathy’s Pluto (-7.64 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both Tom and Kathy have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both Kathy and Tom.

Kathy’s Mars Squares Tom’s Uranus (-10.83 discord) – Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Kathy resents the quiet side of Tom. Tom dislikes the over emotional side of Kathy. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Tom’s Sun Squares Kathy’s Saturn (-12.35 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Kathy’s controlling nature and Tom’s egocentric nature. Tom struggles to break free from the limits set by Kathy. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

There are 4 mutual receptions in Kathy and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +40 harmony to the total score. The remaining -6.49 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Kathy and Tom don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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