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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +5

Kathy born October 21, 1967
Libra ♎

Tom born June 11, 1940
Gemini ♊

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Kathy and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Kathy’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Gemini and Libra. No individual is a pure Gemini or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Kathy’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Kathy’s Jupiter Trines Tom’s Jupiter (+12.44 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. Kathy and Tom’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Kathy’s Venus Sextiles Tom’s Venus (+10.20 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. Kathy and Tom have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

Kathy’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Venus (+9.04 harmony) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Kathy’s communication style is in harmony with Tom’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Tom makes Kathy feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Tom’s Mercury Sextiles Kathy’s Venus (+8.75 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Tom’s communication style stimulates Kathy’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Kathy makes Tom feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

Kathy’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Mars (+8.00 harmony) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Kathy’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Tom’s encouragement.

Kathy’s Neptune Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+6.64 harmony) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines pleasantly with the couple. The relationship stimulates a beautiful romance between Kathy and Tom. Both share similar ideas, and each one knows what the other one is thinking. Tom and Kathy appreciate each other’s company. There is a feeling of love and unity in the relationship.

Kathy’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Mercury (+6.03 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between Kathy and Tom. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Kathy’s Uranus Trines Tom’s Uranus (+4.83 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine very comfortably between the couple. It is easy to let loose, be comfortable, and be yourself in this relationship. Kathy and Tom can harmoniously understand each other’s ideas and desire for independence. In a few words, the connection can be summed up as an “odd couple” or “wacky duo.”

Kathy’s Venus Trines Tom’s Saturn (+4.34 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Tom’s protective trait is in harmony with Kathy’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Tom’s Uranus Trines Kathy’s Pluto (+4.08 harmony) – Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both will encourage and support each other’s causes. The relationship promotes the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals.

Kathy’s Mars Trines Tom’s Jupiter (+3.94 harmony) – Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Tom has a broad impact on Kathy’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Kathy challenges Tom to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Kathy’s Venus Sextiles Tom’s Mars (+3.37 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Tom’s desire stimulates Kathy’s loving nature. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a sexually satisfying relationship.

Kathy’s Mercury Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+2.59 harmony) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom stimulates the imagination of Kathy. Kathy’s practical suggestions give form to Tom’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Tom and Kathy. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

Kathy’s Venus Trines Tom’s Jupiter (+2.30 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Tom’s Mars Trines Kathy’s Neptune (+2.17 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Kathy’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. Tom helps Kathy fight procrastination. Kathy inspires Tom to more significant achievements.

Kathy’s Neptune Trines Tom’s Pluto (+1.78 harmony) – Kathy’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a holy union between Kathy and Tom. The spiritual urge of Kathy harmonizes with the reforming call of Tom. Both will support and encourage each other’s causes.

Kathy’s Uranus Sextiles Tom’s Pluto (+1.51 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Kathy’s Sun Trines Tom’s Sun (+0.99 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Kathy and Tom can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Tom’s Mars Sextiles Kathy’s Pluto (+0.94 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is extraordinary stimulation between Tom and Kathy. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is excellent in a business partnership.

Kathy’s Saturn Trines Tom’s Pluto (+0.86 harmony) – Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Kathy’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with Tom’s quiet but immense power. Both Kathy and Tom are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Kathy’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – Kathy’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Tom’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Kathy and Tom. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Tom or Kathy to evade responsibility.

Tom’s Neptune Conjuncts Kathy’s Pluto (neutral) – Tom’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a happy combination of the spiritual and psychological values of Tom and Kathy. Both are on a spiritual path together. The relationship forms a compassionate outlook to make things a little better for everyone.

Kathy’s Jupiter Squares Tom’s Uranus (-0.67 discord) – Kathy’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in Kathy’s aspirations and Tom’s individualistic ideas. Tom will seem rebellious or unstable to Kathy. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Kathy’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Jupiter (-1.36 discord) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between Kathy and Tom’s philosophy of life. Tom and Kathy are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

Tom’s Sun Squares Kathy’s Uranus (-1.56 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Kathy produces friction with the selfishness of Tom. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Kathy might resent and even rebel against Tom’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Tom and Kathy.

Kathy’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Jupiter (-1.67 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. Kathy will seem petty to Tom. Tom might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

Tom’s Mars Squares Kathy’s Saturn (-2.80 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Kathy’s constructive ideas and Tom’s enthusiasm. Kathy may have unreasonable demands for Tom. This makes Tom impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Kathy’s Sun Squares Tom’s Pluto (-4.08 discord) – Kathy’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Kathy and Tom can cause damage to the relationship.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Kathy’s Mars (-4.45 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Tom and Kathy. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Kathy and Tom are together.

Kathy’s Mars Squares Tom’s Neptune (-4.89 discord) – Kathy’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Tom’s elusive reaction to Kathy’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Tom’s Venus Squares Kathy’s Saturn (-6.29 discord) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in the controlling nature of Kathy and the affectionate nature of Tom. Tom feels dominated. Kathy tends to impose too much responsibility on Tom.

Tom’s Sun Squares Kathy’s Pluto (-6.65 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Tom and Kathy can cause damage to the relationship.

Kathy’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Uranus (-8.67 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension when both minds meet. Tom may seem unstable and erratic to Kathy. Kathy may seem elusive and contradictory to Tom. Tom stimulates, excites, and irritates Kathy’s mind simultaneously. Kathy can’t understand the complex mind of Tom. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Tom’s Uranus Opposes Kathy’s Neptune (-11.44 discord) – Tom’s respect for expression of individuality confronts and challenges Kathy’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There is tension in the social or political views of Tom and Kathy. Both are capable of thinking outside the box and offer exciting ideas to one another. A problem arises when both don’t respect the need for space and autonomy of each other.

Kathy’s Mercury Opposes Tom’s Saturn (-11.73 discord) – Kathy’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Tom’s criticism and disapproval of Kathy’s achievements. Kathy may seem careless and annoying to Tom. Tom may appear cold and bossy to Kathy. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Tom’s Mercury Squares Kathy’s Saturn (-12.35 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Kathy’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Kathy’s criticism and disapproval of Tom’s achievements. Tom may seem careless and annoying to Kathy. Kathy may appear cold and bossy to Tom. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There is 1 mutual reception in Kathy and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -21.19 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Kathy and Tom don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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