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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -17

Lauren born November 8, 1989
Scorpio ♏

Tom born March 30, 1990
Aries ♈

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Lauren and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Lauren’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aries and Scorpio. No individual is a pure Aries or Scorpio but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Lauren’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Lauren’s Moon Sextiles Tom’s Uranus (+7.32 harmony) – Lauren’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There’s a degree of unpredictability linking Lauren and Tom. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Lauren and Tom are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. Tom awakens and inspires ideas in Lauren. Lauren’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Tom’s inventiveness and creativity.

Lauren’s Mars Trines Tom’s Jupiter (+7.17 harmony) – Lauren’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Tom has a broad impact on Lauren’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Lauren challenges Tom to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Lauren’s Moon Trines Tom’s Jupiter (+6.64 harmony) – Lauren’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Lauren encourages and nurtures Tom’s expansive ideas. Tom is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Lauren. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Tom to Lauren. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

Lauren’s Mercury Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+5.82 harmony) – Lauren’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom stimulates the imagination of Lauren. Lauren’s practical suggestions give form to Tom’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Tom and Lauren. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

Lauren’s Moon Trines Tom’s Pluto (+4.82 harmony) – Lauren’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Lauren and Tom. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Lauren’s Sun Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+4.43 harmony) – Lauren’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Tom and Lauren. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Tom knows what Lauren is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Tom’s Neptune Sextiles Lauren’s Pluto (+4.34 harmony) – Tom’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Lauren’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Tom stimulates the reforming urge of Lauren. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Lauren’s Moon Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+3.68 harmony) – Lauren’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. Telepathic communication with each other is possible. Both Lauren and Tom have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

Lauren’s Jupiter Trines Tom’s Pluto (+2.00 harmony) – Lauren’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both have the potential to accomplish something big together. There is harmony in encouraging the spiritual enlightenment of one another.

Lauren’s Venus Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (+0.40 harmony) – Lauren’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. Tom is tolerant and encouraging toward Lauren. Lauren can be more creative than Tom. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

Lauren’s Sun Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – Lauren’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Lauren and Tom are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

Lauren’s Mercury Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – Lauren’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Tom can have an explosive effect on Lauren’s viewpoints. Lauren can expand Tom’s range of interest in various areas of life. Tom’s influence on Lauren is stronger than Lauren’s on Tom. Tom has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Lauren and could be ruthless in doing so.

Lauren’s Uranus Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Lauren and Tom complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Tom’s Uranus Conjuncts Lauren’s Neptune (neutral) – Tom’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Lauren’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Tom and Lauren. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Lauren or Tom to evade responsibility.

Lauren’s Neptune Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Lauren and Tom share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Lauren or Tom.

Lauren’s Pluto Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Lauren and Tom enjoy the same cultural references. Tom and Lauren have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Tom’s Venus Squares Lauren’s Pluto (-0.06 discord) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Lauren’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Tom’s Jupiter Opposes Lauren’s Neptune (-0.18 discord) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Lauren’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

Tom’s Jupiter Opposes Lauren’s Saturn (-0.67 discord) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Lauren’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Lauren’s restrictive nature and Tom’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

Tom’s Jupiter Opposes Lauren’s Uranus (-0.67 discord) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Lauren’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the radical views and differences in social or religious ideas. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Lauren’s Sun Squares Tom’s Venus (-0.75 discord) – Lauren’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Tom’s romantic sensibilities and Lauren’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Lauren’s Jupiter Opposes Tom’s Uranus (-1.85 discord) – Lauren’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the radical views and differences in social or religious ideas. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Lauren’s Venus Opposes Tom’s Jupiter (-1.87 discord) – Lauren’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension on how each other will handle finances. Tom may occasionally accuse Lauren of not being entirely open and honest. Lauren may accuse Tom of being too open and honest. From time to time this aspect can bestow good luck.

Lauren’s Jupiter Opposes Tom’s Neptune (-2.04 discord) – Lauren’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

Lauren’s Saturn Conjuncts Tom’s Neptune (-2.12 discord) – Lauren’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. Tom can add a degree of holiness to Lauren’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

Tom’s Mercury Opposes Lauren’s Mars (-4.00 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Lauren’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in Lauren’s aggressive attitude and Tom’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. Tom’s sarcasm could provoke Lauren’s temper.

Tom’s Sun Squares Lauren’s Venus (-4.20 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Lauren’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Lauren’s romantic sensibilities and Tom’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Lauren’s Saturn Conjuncts Tom’s Uranus (-5.00 discord) – Lauren’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Tom is radical and rebellious while Lauren is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Tom’s Sun Squares Lauren’s Uranus (-5.25 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Lauren’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Lauren produces friction with the selfishness of Tom. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Lauren might resent and even rebel against Tom’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Tom and Lauren.

Tom’s Sun Squares Lauren’s Jupiter (-5.42 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Lauren’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Tom and Lauren have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Lauren and Tom may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Lauren’s Sun Squares Tom’s Mars (-9.91 discord) – Lauren’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Lauren and Tom. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Tom and Lauren is necessary for the union to work. Tom will have to work on patience while Lauren will have to work on humility.

Tom’s Mars Squares Lauren’s Pluto (-11.06 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Lauren’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Tom’s Sun Squares Lauren’s Neptune (-11.29 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Lauren’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Tom and Lauren can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Lauren can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Tom.

Lauren’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Mars (-11.65 discord) – Lauren’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in Tom’s aggressive attitude and Lauren’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. Lauren’s sarcasm could easily provoke Tom’s temper.

Tom’s Sun Squares Lauren’s Saturn (-17.39 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Lauren’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Lauren’s controlling nature and Tom’s egocentric nature. Tom struggles to break free from the limits set by Lauren. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

There are 5 mutual receptions in Lauren and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -18.24 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Lauren and Tom don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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