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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +5

M born August 22, 1960
Leo ♌

J born September 10, 1965
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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M and J’s Relationship

J and M’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Leo. No individual is a pure Virgo or Leo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in M’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Jupiter (+11.28 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. M stimulates J to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. J and M can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

M’s Jupiter Opposes J’s Jupiter (+8.11 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges each other. There is tension in the moral sentiments, ethical principles, and spiritual values of M and J. Both have different ideas of justice and fair play.

M’s Venus Sextiles J’s Neptune (+6.69 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. M is willing to overlook J’s faults. J is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

J’s Venus Sextiles M’s Jupiter (+6.47 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Venus (+5.89 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. J has a soothing and warm effect on M. M has the desire to please and support J. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

M’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Uranus (+4.85 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is natural stimulation of each other’s creativity in music or art. Both contribute to each other’s goals, ambitions, and dreams. J is tolerant and encouraging toward M. M can be more creative than J. There is a feeling of instant attraction that may become a long-term relationship.

M’s Venus Sextiles J’s Mars (+4.58 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. J’s desire stimulates M’s loving nature. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a sexually satisfying relationship.

M’s Saturn Trines J’s Pluto (+3.07 harmony) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. M’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with J’s quiet but immense power. Both M and J are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

M’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Pluto (+2.98 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. J may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than M is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Saturn (+2.93 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The stimulation between J and M is based on mutual needs. M will be reliable, loyal, and can bring out the conservative qualities in J. J can expand the ideas of M with practical imagination. Both complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support in the relationship. M and J are in agreement in financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between J and M.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Venus (+2.63 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. J has the same social interests and cultural values as M. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both M and J enjoy each other’s company.

J’s Moon Trines M’s Neptune (+2.54 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between J and M. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

M’s Saturn Trines J’s Uranus (+2.46 harmony) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. M’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with J’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of J with the experience and caution of M toward a constructive goal. J is spontaneous and creative while M is sensible and levelheaded.

J’s Venus Sextiles M’s Uranus (+2.30 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. M surprises J in one way or another. J has a pleasant way of toning down M’s eccentricity.

J’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Neptune (+2.25 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. M stimulates the imagination of J. J’s practical suggestions give form to M’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between M and J. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Saturn (+1.37 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. J and M are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

J’s Mars Sextiles M’s Saturn (+1.16 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. J stimulates M’s ambition and self-confidence. M restrains J’s tendency to act impulsively.

M’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Venus (+0.86 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. M’s communication style stimulates J’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from J makes M feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

J’s Jupiter Sextiles M’s Pluto (+0.36 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.

J’s Jupiter Trines M’s Neptune (+0.30 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J’s expansive dreams are in harmony with M’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

M’s Saturn Sextiles J’s Neptune (+0.29 harmony) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. M can stabilize J to be practical. J can inspire M to have a vision and be more imaginative.

M’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Mercury (neutral) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is effective communication and fewer misunderstanding between M and J. Both can work together in their similar ideas and points of view. M supports the progressive ideas of J. J understands the unique individuality of M.

M’s Saturn Sextiles J’s Saturn (neutral) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with the couple. M and J can stimulate each other to work on a common goal together as a team. This is a good aspect for any type of relationship. Both are disciplined and want the same level of financial security.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If J and M are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. M can have an explosive effect on J’s viewpoints. J can expand M’s range of interest in various areas of life. M’s influence on J is stronger than J’s on M. M has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of J and could be ruthless in doing so.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if J and M have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

M’s Pluto Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. M and J enjoy the same cultural references. J and M have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

J’s Mars Conjuncts M’s Neptune (-0.26 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion may combine with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J excites M’s emotions. M encourages J to have bigger goals. J can overstimulate the imagination of M. M can have a dissolving effect on the energies of J. The relationship can be confusing for both J and M. There is a strong possibility of self-indulgence in one or both.

M’s Sun Squares J’s Neptune (-0.34 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between M and J can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. J can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards M.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Jupiter (-0.89 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. J and M have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both M and J may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

M’s Jupiter Squares J’s Pluto (-1.19 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to M.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Saturn (-1.27 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between M and J. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. M may feel J being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. J may feel M being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

M’s Uranus Squares J’s Neptune (-1.79 discord) – M’s respect for expression of individuality interacts stressfully with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There is friction in the social or political views of M and J. The dreamy and intuitive nature of J is in conflict with the spontaneous actions of M. M looks undisciplined to J. J’s instincts seem slow to M.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Moon (-2.22 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of M and the sensitive nature of J. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Mars (-4.37 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of J and M. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between M and J is necessary for the union to work. M will have to work on patience while J will have to work on humility.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Neptune (-4.94 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in M’s method of thinking. Both M and J are capable of lying to each other. J’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Pluto (-5.50 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in J’s defensive nature and M’s nastiness. M expects J to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

J’s Moon Opposes M’s Venus (-6.06 discord) – J’s emotional needs confront and challenge M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a mutual attraction for love and marriage between J and M. Much affection is shown between the individuals. There may be fewer mutual interests in the relationship.

J’s Saturn Opposes M’s Pluto (-6.19 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in the relationship when J and M compete for influence and dominance. M may try to reform J’s strict and severe attitudes toward life. J’s conservative opinion weakens the inner energy of M.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Uranus (-7.09 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. M resents the quiet side of J. J dislikes the over emotional side of M. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Pluto (-8.62 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

J’s Moon Squares M’s Mars (-8.87 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when J becomes indecisive when reacting to M’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between J and M.

M’s Venus Opposes J’s Saturn (-11.82 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of J and the affectionate nature of M. M feels dominated. J tends to impose too much responsibility on M.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Saturn (-13.17 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in J’s constructive ideas and M’s enthusiasm. J may have unreasonable demands for M. This makes M impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

There are 2 mutual receptions in M and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -3.78 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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