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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +17

M born December 19, 1970
Sagittarius ♐

J born September 9, 1970
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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M and J’s Relationship

J and M’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Sagittarius. No individual is a pure Virgo or Sagittarius but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in M’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

M’s Jupiter Conjuncts J’s Neptune (+10.27 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Both are spiritually compatible and encourage each other to realize real goals. There is a combined tendency towards extravagance and self-indulgence.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Mercury (+9.70 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with M’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between J and M is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. M understands J’s intentions. J supports M’s intellectual excitement. M is able to discuss problems with J. Together they can work out a solution.

J’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Jupiter (+8.57 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. J’s ideas stimulate M’s dreams. M’s faith deepens J’s intellectual self-confidence. M sympathizes with J’s desire for mental advancement. J respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of M.

M’s Jupiter Sextiles J’s Pluto (+7.96 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.

J’s Sun Sextiles M’s Venus (+6.77 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. M has a soothing and warm effect on J. J has the desire to please and support M. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

J’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+5.71 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Saturn (+3.96 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. J and M are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

M’s Mercury Trines J’s Mercury (+3.26 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between M and J. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

J’s Mercury Trines M’s Saturn (+2.82 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. M helps give form to J’s ideas. J learns a lot from M’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when M offers practical guidance that improves J’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

M’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+2.23 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Jupiter (+1.95 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates aspirations and ambitions in one another. This aspect may also encourage extravagance in one or both individual. J enjoys teasing M which M doesn’t find amusing.

M’s Mercury Trines J’s Saturn (+1.74 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J helps give form to M’s ideas. M learns a lot from J’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when J offers practical guidance that improves M’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

J’s Saturn Trines M’s Pluto (+1.47 harmony) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with M’s quiet but immense power. Both J and M are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

M’s Mars Sextiles J’s Mars (+1.43 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly within the couple. Both have a fierce loyalty to each other and can cooperate effectively. The relationship stimulates each other’s courage and ambition. There is a unity of desire between M and J. Both enjoy sports and other physical activities together.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Venus (+1.21 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. J has a soothing and warm effect on M. M has the desire to please and support J. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Mars (+0.88 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. M and J are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both J and M inspire creative passion in one another.

J’s Uranus Sextiles M’s Neptune (+0.84 harmony) – J’s respect for expression of individuality combines pleasantly with M’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both help each other to bring their individual ideas to life. The relationship encourages each other to think outside the box. M and J have a strong intuitive connection.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Moon (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of J connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of M. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

M’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Mercury (neutral) – M’s emotional needs combine with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. M intuitively knows what J is thinking. J can clearly describe M’s emotions. J can be an excellent listener to any weird things that M has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

J’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Mars (neutral) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. M’s desire fuses with J’s loving nature. Both are magnetically attracted to each other. M can be jealous or possessive. J has a soothing effect on M.

M’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both M and J complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

M’s Neptune Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both M and J share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in M or J.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. M can have an explosive effect on J’s viewpoints. J can expand M’s range of interest in various areas of life. M’s influence on J is stronger than J’s on M. M has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of J and could be ruthless in doing so.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if J and M have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

M’s Pluto Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. M and J enjoy the same cultural references. J and M have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

M’s Saturn Opposes J’s Neptune (-0.14 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in M’s domineering nature and J’s anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

M’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Mars (-0.68 discord) – M’s emotional needs combine with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. J arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of M. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between M and J will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of J can be unbearable to the emotional character of M. Both J and M are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

J’s Saturn Opposes M’s Neptune (-1.53 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in J’s domineering nature and M’s anti-social or evasive behavior. Both might challenge their idea of reality and could end up hurting each other’s self-esteem.

M’s Saturn Conjuncts J’s Saturn (-3.86 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. M and J share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if M and J are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

M’s Venus Opposes J’s Saturn (-4.00 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in the controlling nature of J and the affectionate nature of M. M feels dominated. J tends to impose too much responsibility on M.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Uranus (-5.65 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. J may seem unstable and erratic to M. M may seem elusive and contradictory to J. J stimulates, excites, and irritates M’s mind simultaneously. M can’t understand the complex mind of J. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

J’s Mars Squares M’s Neptune (-6.97 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in M’s elusive reaction to J’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

M’s Jupiter Opposes J’s Saturn (-7.48 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in J’s restrictive nature and M’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

M’s Sun Squares J’s Mercury (-7.66 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between J and M. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. J might be too aggressive in communicating with M.

M’s Sun Squares J’s Pluto (-9.64 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of M and J can cause damage to the relationship.

There is 1 mutual reception in M and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -16.16 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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M and J don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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