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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +11

M born June 16, 1981
Gemini ♊

R born September 9, 1982
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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M and R’s Relationship

R and M’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Gemini. No individual is a pure Virgo or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in M’s birth chart and the planets in R’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

M’s Sun Trines R’s Pluto (+11.93 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with R’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. M can bring out the psychoanalyst in R. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both R and M. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead M and R to a long-term relationship.

M’s Mercury Trines R’s Jupiter (+11.93 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with R’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. M’s thoughts are in harmony with R’s dreams. R’s faith deepens M’s intellectual self-confidence. R sympathizes with M’s desire for mental advancement. M respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of R.

M’s Jupiter Sextiles R’s Uranus (+10.45 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with R’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. M’s visions stimulate R’s creative genius. M will expand R’s goals and creativity. R adds innovation and excitement to M’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

M’s Mercury Sextiles R’s Venus (+8.09 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with R’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. M’s communication style stimulates R’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from R makes M feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is favorable in marriage.

M’s Moon Sextiles R’s Mercury (+7.57 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with R’s mentality and powers of perception. The relationship stimulates deep communication in a friendly manner. There is an intuitive understanding of each other’s ideas and views. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. R and M are often in complete agreement with each other. There is usually a telepathic thought projection. The relationship provides favorable circumstances to solve problems reasonably.

M’s Venus Trines R’s Jupiter (+6.69 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with R’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

R’s Sun Sextiles M’s Venus (+5.32 harmony) – R’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. M has a soothing and warm effect on R. R has the desire to please and support M. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

R’s Mercury Trines M’s Mars (+5.15 harmony) – R’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. R’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by M’s encouragement.

R’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+4.32 harmony) – R’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of R stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Neptune Sextiles R’s Pluto (+4.12 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with R’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of R. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Mercury Trines R’s Pluto (+3.80 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with R’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in how each other influence the other’s mind. There are depth and wisdom in the relationship. R encourages M to think more deeply. When both M and R combine their minds, they can build their exciting ideas into a giant success.

M’s Sun Trines R’s Saturn (+3.66 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. M and R are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

M’s Saturn Sextiles R’s Uranus (+2.44 harmony) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with R’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both M and R. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. R is spontaneous and creative while M is sensible and rational.

M’s Sun Sextiles R’s Venus (+1.58 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with R’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. R has a soothing and warm effect on M. M has the desire to please and support R. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

R’s Saturn Sextiles M’s Neptune (+1.56 harmony) – R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. R can stabilize M to be practical. M can inspire R to have a vision and be more imaginative.

M’s Venus Trines R’s Mars (+0.82 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with R’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of R and loving nature of M. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

M’s Moon Conjuncts R’s Uranus (neutral) – M’s emotional needs combine with R’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The fusion excites mutual interest and is intellectually stimulating. There’s a degree of spontaneous, unexpected, and magnetic attraction linking M and R. Boredom is never a problem in the relationship. Sometimes M’s traditional attitude clashes with R’s odd behavior. The union arouses romantic feelings that can be temporary unless other harmonious aspects support it.

M’s Moon Conjuncts R’s Neptune (neutral) – M’s emotional needs combine with R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The fusion offers strong compatibility with each other. A robust psychic connection exists between M and R. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

M’s Uranus Conjuncts R’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both M and R complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

M’s Neptune Conjuncts R’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both M and R share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in M or R.

R’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – R’s mentality and powers of perception combine with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. M can have an explosive effect on R’s viewpoints. R can expand M’s range of interest in various areas of life. M’s influence on R is stronger than R’s on M. M has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of R and could be ruthless in doing so.

M’s Pluto Conjuncts R’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. M and R enjoy the same cultural references. R and M have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

R’s Venus Squares M’s Uranus (-0.76 discord) – R’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

R’s Sun Squares M’s Neptune (-1.04 discord) – R’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between R and M can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. M can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards R.

M’s Jupiter Squares R’s Neptune (-1.63 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. M might unintentionally hurt R’s sensitive feelings. R may appear elusive to M. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

M’s Saturn Squares R’s Neptune (-1.76 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in M’s realism and R’s idealism.

R’s Mars Conjuncts M’s Uranus (-2.20 discord) – R’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a massive potential for success if the individual ambitions and goals are the same. If not, it will make cooperation difficult. The relationship brings out the aggressive and independent spirit in each other.

M’s Mercury Squares R’s Mercury (-2.37 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

R’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-2.49 discord) – R’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. R may feel inadequate when M imparts knowledge and wisdom. M has the tendency to discipline R. R may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by M. R can talk M out of negative attitudes. R can encourage progressiveness in M.

M’s Sun Squares R’s Sun (-3.24 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between M and R can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

M’s Venus Squares R’s Saturn (-3.96 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in the controlling nature of R and the affectionate nature of M. M feels dominated. R tends to impose too much responsibility on M.

R’s Sun Squares M’s Moon (-4.22 discord) – R’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. R’s domineering personality can overwhelm M’s emotional and sensitive nature. M can appear moody to R’s inconsiderate behavior.

R’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Pluto (-5.48 discord) – R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between R and M is repeatedly tested in this aspect. M may try to reform R’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

M’s Mercury Opposes R’s Neptune (-5.77 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. M’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of R. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. R may find M’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

M’s Mars Opposes R’s Uranus (-6.24 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge R’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. M resents the quiet side of R. R dislikes the over emotional side of M. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

R’s Mercury Squares M’s Venus (-8.55 discord) – R’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between R and M. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. R tends to disregard the emotional needs of M. M may find R cold and calculative.

M’s Sun Opposes R’s Neptune (-14.04 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between R and M is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. R can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards M.

The remaining -14.68 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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M and R don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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