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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -59

M born September 13, 1979
Virgo ♍

J born May 9, 1975
Taurus ♉

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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M and J’s Relationship

J and M’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Taurus and Virgo. No individual is a pure Taurus or Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in M’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Jupiter Trines M’s Neptune (+6.55 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J’s expansive dreams are in harmony with M’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Sun (+6.15 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. M and J can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Mercury (+5.90 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with M’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between J and M is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. M understands J’s intentions. J supports M’s intellectual excitement. M is able to discuss problems with J. Together they can work out a solution.

J’s Venus Sextiles M’s Jupiter (+5.50 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

M’s Moon Trines J’s Uranus (+5.24 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. M and J are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when J and M are together. J awakens and inspires ideas in M. M’s natural instinctual mind stimulates J’s inventiveness and creativity.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Venus (+3.73 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between M and J. M’s power of attraction is in harmony with J’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Saturn (+3.69 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. J and M are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

J’s Mars Trines M’s Uranus (+3.65 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

M’s Jupiter Sextiles J’s Uranus (+3.11 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. M’s visions stimulate J’s creative genius. M will expand J’s goals and creativity. J adds innovation and excitement to M’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

M’s Mars Trines J’s Mars (+2.99 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of M and J. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. J and M are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.

J’s Saturn Trines M’s Uranus (+2.37 harmony) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. J’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with M’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of M with the experience and caution of J toward a constructive goal. M is spontaneous and creative while J is sensible and levelheaded.

J’s Mercury Trines M’s Pluto (+2.15 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in how each other influence the other’s mind. There are depth and wisdom in the relationship. M encourages J to think more deeply. When both J and M combine their minds, they can build their exciting ideas into a giant success.

M’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Venus (+2.08 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The fusion of mutual devotion and affection in each other produces a happy union. The relationship encourages cooperation and attention to fairness. Both are in agreement on financial and social matters. Occasional small disagreements are quickly resolved. Neither M nor J is useful in setting boundaries.

J’s Sun Sextiles M’s Mars (+0.88 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between J and M.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Saturn (+0.28 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. M and J can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. M and J can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

M’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Saturn (+0.16 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J helps give form to M’s ideas. M learns a lot from J’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when J offers practical guidance that improves M’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

M’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Pluto (+0.10 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. J may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than M is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

J’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+0.03 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Mercury (neutral) – M’s emotional needs combine with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. M intuitively knows what J is thinking. J can clearly describe M’s emotions. J can be an excellent listener to any weird things that M has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

M’s Saturn Sextiles J’s Saturn (neutral) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with the couple. M and J can stimulate each other to work on a common goal together as a team. This is a good aspect for any type of relationship. Both are disciplined and want the same level of financial security.

M’s Neptune Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both M and J share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in M or J.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if J and M have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

M’s Pluto Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. M and J enjoy the same cultural references. J and M have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

J’s Venus Opposes M’s Neptune (-0.12 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between J and M. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause tension and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Neptune (-0.68 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in M’s method of thinking. Both M and J are capable of lying to each other. J’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

M’s Sun Squares J’s Neptune (-0.92 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between M and J can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. J can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards M.

M’s Mars Squares J’s Uranus (-1.74 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. M resents the quiet side of J. J dislikes the over emotional side of M. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

M’s Venus Squares J’s Venus (-2.83 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully within the couple. Both have different romantic styles. There is friction in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

J’s Jupiter Opposes M’s Pluto (-3.07 discord) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Personal struggles between J and M can’t be avoided. There will be conflicting ideas that can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult.

M’s Moon Opposes J’s Neptune (-3.10 discord) – M’s emotional needs confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. M can overreact to the confusion caused by J. J can be deceptive or dishonest to M. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Saturn (-3.79 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in M’s criticism and disapproval of J’s achievements. J may seem careless and annoying to M. M may appear cold and bossy to J. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

M’s Saturn Squares J’s Neptune (-5.11 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in M’s realism and J’s idealism.

J’s Mercury Opposes M’s Neptune (-5.37 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of M. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. M may find J’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

M’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Saturn (-6.84 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion can combine with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The relationship induces cooperation and working for a common goal. Both either complement each other well or antagonize each other’s differences. M stimulates the ambition and progressive instinct in J. J in some ways restricts or limits the activities of M.

M’s Venus Opposes J’s Mars (-7.79 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between M and J in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes tension and disputes. J feels suffocated by M’s possessiveness. M can be deeply hurt by J’s thoughtless words.

J’s Mars Squares M’s Neptune (-8.39 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in M’s elusive reaction to J’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

J’s Saturn Squares M’s Pluto (-10.01 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. M being a reformer might challenge J’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

J’s Sun Opposes M’s Uranus (-10.68 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of J and the independent nature of M. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted M and J together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

J’s Mars Opposes M’s Saturn (-11.48 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in J’s impulsive attitude and M’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

M’s Sun Opposes J’s Mars (-12.55 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between M and J. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when J and M are together.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Mars (-12.67 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when M becomes indecisive when reacting to J’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between M and J.

M’s Mercury Opposes J’s Mars (-14.72 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in J’s aggressive attitude and M’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. M’s sarcasm could provoke J’s temper.

There is 1 mutual reception in M and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining -1.70 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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