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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -10

M born September 13, 1979
Virgo ♍

J born September 9, 1970
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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M and J’s Relationship

J and M’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Virgo. No individual is a pure Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in M’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Mars (+5.82 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. J’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by M’s encouragement.

M’s Venus Trines J’s Saturn (+5.50 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J’s protective trait is in harmony with M’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

M’s Venus Sextiles J’s Neptune (+4.87 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. M is willing to overlook J’s faults. J is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

J’s Sun Sextiles M’s Uranus (+4.46 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both J and M have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for M and J.

M’s Mars Trines J’s Neptune (+3.53 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. M helps J fight procrastination. J inspires M to more significant achievements.

M’s Moon Trines J’s Venus (+3.40 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. J’s cuteness charms M’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. M and J can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Venus (+3.14 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. J’s communication style combines with M’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from M makes J feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.

J’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Uranus (+3.10 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. J and M bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

M’s Mercury Trines J’s Saturn (+2.87 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J helps give form to M’s ideas. M learns a lot from J’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when J offers practical guidance that improves M’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

M’s Sun Trines J’s Saturn (+2.75 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is harmony and natural respect for each other. M and J are both willing to work out difficulties in their relationship. There is a mutual appreciation of responsibility and heartfelt commitment to one another. This aspect aids endurance in marriage.

M’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Pluto (+2.61 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense sexual attraction in the relationship. Both share a deep emotional tie. J may become possessive, jealous, and demand more intimacy than M is capable of giving. Times of frustration is followed by enlightenment and release.

M’s Mars Sextiles J’s Pluto (+2.45 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is extraordinary stimulation between M and J. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is excellent in a business partnership.

M’s Moon Trines J’s Jupiter (+1.47 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. M encourages and nurtures J’s expansive ideas. J is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against M. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from J to M. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

M’s Mars Sextiles J’s Saturn (+1.38 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. M stimulates J’s ambition and self-confidence. J restrains M’s tendency to act impulsively.

J’s Venus Sextiles M’s Jupiter (+0.97 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Venus (+0.78 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. J has the same social interests and cultural values as M. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both M and J enjoy each other’s company.

J’s Mars Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+0.19 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine with M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates aspirations and ambitions in one another. This aspect may also encourage extravagance in one or both individual. M enjoys teasing J which J doesn’t find amusing.

M’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Sun (neutral) – The couple’s sense of identity, ego, and character can combine with ease or difficulty. M and J have many positive and negative traits in common. The similar qualities can combine to aid understanding of one another. It may also cause rivalry with each other.

M’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Mercury (neutral) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is effective communication and fewer misunderstanding between M and J. Both can work together in their similar ideas and points of view. M supports the progressive ideas of J. J understands the unique individuality of M.

M’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If M and J are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Mercury (neutral) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s mentality and powers of perception. There is effective communication and fewer misunderstanding between J and M. Both can work together in their similar ideas and points of view. J supports the progressive ideas of M. M understands the unique individuality of J.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Mercury (neutral) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine with ease between the couple. There is a similarity of ideas and way of thinking. Both are able to communicate intellectually to handle mental tasks. M and J have a similar approach to solving problems even if they have different educational backgrounds. Their two minds learn from each other. Both can read each other’s thoughts. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. J can have an explosive effect on M’s viewpoints. M can expand J’s range of interest in various areas of life. J’s influence on M is stronger than M’s on J. J has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of M and could be ruthless in doing so.

M’s Saturn Trines J’s Saturn (neutral) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very comfortably with the couple. Both M and J can work as a team on a common goal and can accomplish whatever they set their minds to. This is a good aspect for a long-term relationship. J and M’s attitude toward responsibility and security are in harmony.

M’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – M’s respect for expression of individuality combines with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between M and J. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage J or M to evade responsibility.

J’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if J and M have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

M’s Neptune Squares J’s Pluto (-0.97 discord) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of M and J. J will likely have a more forceful personality that M. M attempts to give J spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. J in return will psychoanalyze M’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

M’s Saturn Conjuncts J’s Pluto (-1.40 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between M and J is repeatedly tested in this aspect. J may try to reform M’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

M’s Jupiter Squares J’s Saturn (-1.84 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in J’s view of responsibility and M’s dreams of expansion. J places too much responsibility on M. M feels confined and frustrated.

M’s Jupiter Squares J’s Neptune (-4.19 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. M might unintentionally hurt J’s sensitive feelings. J may appear elusive to M. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

J’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-4.89 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. M has the tendency to criticize and judge J’s actions. M sometimes blames J when something goes wrong. J is more tolerant and forgiving towards M. J can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from M.

J’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-4.89 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. J may feel inadequate when M imparts knowledge and wisdom. M has the tendency to discipline J. J may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by M. J can talk M out of negative attitudes. J can encourage progressiveness in M.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Moon (-5.47 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. J’s domineering personality can overwhelm M’s emotional and sensitive nature. M can appear moody to J’s inconsiderate behavior.

J’s Saturn Opposes M’s Uranus (-5.85 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty confronts and challenges M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension between J’s practicality and M’s innovative nature. J wants solidarity while M wants alteration.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Neptune (-6.94 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. M’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in J’s method of thinking. Both J and M are capable of lying to each other. M’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Pluto (-8.11 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in M’s defensive nature and J’s nastiness. J expects M to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Neptune (-8.61 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between J and M can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. M can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards J.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Mercury (-11.91 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. M is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret J’s intentions. J pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of M. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

There are 2 mutual receptions in M and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -14.22 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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M and J don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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