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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -43

M born September 19, 1992
Virgo ♍

J born September 6, 1989
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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M and J’s Relationship

J and M’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Virgo. No individual is a pure Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in M’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

M’s Moon Trines J’s Venus (+14.65 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. J’s cuteness charms M’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. M and J can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

M’s Venus Conjuncts J’s Venus (+8.14 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with ease within the couple. There is harmony in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial values are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. M and J have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship can lead to a long-term partnership.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Uranus (+7.82 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. M’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with J’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between J and M.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Jupiter (+7.65 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. M is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward J. J inspires and encourages M’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from M to J.

J’s Sun Trines M’s Neptune (+5.67 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between M and J. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

M’s Uranus Sextiles J’s Pluto (+4.89 harmony) – M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

J’s Mercury Trines M’s Saturn (+4.40 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. M helps give form to J’s ideas. J learns a lot from M’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when M offers practical guidance that improves J’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

M’s Mars Conjuncts J’s Jupiter (+3.87 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates aspirations and ambitions in one another. This aspect may also encourage extravagance in one or both individual. J enjoys teasing M which M doesn’t find amusing.

M’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Jupiter (+3.87 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The fusion encourages mutual confidence and respect in each other. J can be protective of M and can be too indulgent at the same time. M inspires and promotes J’s expansive aspirations. Even when things go wrong, J will not harbor any ill feelings toward M. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from J to M. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it.

M’s Sun Sextiles J’s Moon (+3.78 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with J’s emotional needs. There is a natural stimulation and flowing compatibility between M and J. Reconciliation after a disagreement is ordinary. This is an ideal aspect to have in a romantic relationship.

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J’s Mars Trines M’s Neptune (+3.48 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the equal exchange of sympathy and compassion. J helps M fight procrastination. M inspires J to more significant achievements.

J’s Jupiter Opposes M’s Uranus (+2.92 harmony) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the radical views and differences in social or religious ideas. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

M’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+2.74 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

J’s Mars Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+2.02 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine with M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates aspirations and ambitions in one another. This aspect may also encourage extravagance in one or both individual. M enjoys teasing J which J doesn’t find amusing.

J’s Mars Sextiles M’s Pluto (+1.99 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is extraordinary stimulation between J and M. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is excellent in a business partnership.

J’s Mars Trines M’s Uranus (+1.87 harmony) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Neptune (+1.62 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. Telepathic communication with each other is possible. Both J and M have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

M’s Mars Trines J’s Pluto (+0.83 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between M and J. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

J’s Moon Sextiles M’s Mercury (+0.11 harmony) – J’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with M’s mentality and powers of perception. The relationship stimulates deep communication in a friendly manner. There is an intuitive understanding of each other’s ideas and views. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. M and J are often in complete agreement with each other. There is usually a telepathic thought projection. The relationship provides favorable circumstances to solve problems reasonably.

M’s Pluto Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. M and J enjoy the same cultural references. J and M have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

M’s Neptune Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both M and J share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in M or J.

J’s Moon Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – J’s emotional needs combine with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion can be either very good or very bad depending on other aspects of the relationship. There is a powerful physical attraction between M and J. M expands the ideas, imagination, and viewpoints of J. Sometimes J will find M to be possessive, jealous, and domineering.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Mercury (neutral) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine with ease between the couple. There is a similarity of ideas and way of thinking. Both are able to communicate intellectually to handle mental tasks. M and J have a similar approach to solving problems even if they have different educational backgrounds. Their two minds learn from each other. Both can read each other’s thoughts. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

M’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – M’s respect for expression of individuality combines with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between M and J. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage J or M to evade responsibility.

J’s Jupiter Opposes M’s Neptune (-0.25 discord) – J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in spiritual or philosophical beliefs. The relationship has the tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Neptune (-0.56 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. M can add a degree of holiness to J’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

J’s Venus Squares M’s Neptune (-0.93 discord) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between J and M. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

M’s Jupiter Squares J’s Uranus (-1.07 discord) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in M’s aspirations and J’s individualistic ideas. J will seem rebellious or unstable to M. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Mars (-1.52 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Friendly debates can sometimes lead to irritation if J is headstrong or argumentative. J can be impatient and wants immediate action while M intends to plan before taking any action.

M’s Sun Conjuncts J’s Mars (-1.69 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The creativeness of M combines with the aggressiveness of J. Friendly competition is typical in the relationship. There is a physical attraction between J and M.

M’s Moon Opposes J’s Saturn (-2.22 discord) – M’s emotional needs confront and challenge J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between J’s practicality and M’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. M resents J’s constant discipline. J is frustrated by the moody disposition of M. J sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. M sees the intuitive and magical side.

J’s Moon Squares M’s Saturn (-2.73 discord) – J’s emotional needs interact stressfully with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between M’s practicality and J’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. M can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward J. J can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward M.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Neptune (-2.80 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. J’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in M’s method of thinking. Both M and J are capable of lying to each other. J’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Jupiter (-2.88 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. M will seem petty to J. J might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

J’s Sun Squares M’s Moon (-3.19 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. J’s domineering personality can overwhelm M’s emotional and sensitive nature. M can appear moody to J’s inconsiderate behavior.

M’s Sun Squares J’s Uranus (-3.45 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of J produces friction with the selfishness of M. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. J might resent and even rebel against M’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between M and J.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Uranus (-4.75 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. M is radical and rebellious while J is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Neptune (-5.00 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. M’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in J’s method of thinking. Both J and M are capable of lying to each other. M’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

M’s Moon Opposes J’s Uranus (-6.34 discord) – M’s emotional needs confront and challenge J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The tension can arouse irritations between M and J. M is hypersensitive and moody. J is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects are supporting a permanent union.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Uranus (-7.15 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. M may seem unstable and erratic to J. J may seem elusive and contradictory to M. M stimulates, excites, and irritates J’s mind simultaneously. J can’t understand the complex mind of M. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Saturn (-7.73 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in J’s criticism and disapproval of M’s achievements. M may seem careless and annoying to J. J may appear cold and bossy to M. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

M’s Mars Opposes J’s Neptune (-7.98 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in J’s elusive reaction to M’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

J’s Mercury Squares M’s Mars (-8.56 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in M’s aggressive attitude and J’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. J’s sarcasm could easily provoke M’s temper.

M’s Mercury Squares J’s Uranus (-11.13 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. J may seem unstable and erratic to M. M may seem elusive and contradictory to J. J stimulates, excites, and irritates M’s mind simultaneously. M can’t understand the complex mind of J. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

M’s Saturn Squares J’s Pluto (-11.18 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. J being a reformer might challenge M’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

M’s Moon Squares J’s Mars (-13.60 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when M becomes indecisive when reacting to J’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between M and J.

M’s Mars Opposes J’s Uranus (-13.87 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes tension in the relationship. M resents the quiet side of J. J dislikes the over emotional side of M. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

M’s Mars Opposes J’s Saturn (-17.85 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in M’s impulsive attitude and J’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

There are 3 mutual receptions in M and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -16.89 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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