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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -63

Mary born June 4, 1975
Gemini ♊

N born July 20, 1980
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Mary and N’s Relationship

N and Mary’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Gemini. No individual is a pure Cancer or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Mary’s birth chart and the planets in N’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Mary’s Mercury Trines N’s Pluto (+8.70 harmony) – Mary’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in how each other influence the other’s mind. There are depth and wisdom in the relationship. N encourages Mary to think more deeply. When both Mary and N combine their minds, they can build their exciting ideas into a giant success.

Mary’s Jupiter Trines N’s Neptune (+7.56 harmony) – Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Mary’s expansive dreams are in harmony with N’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

N’s Venus Sextiles Mary’s Jupiter (+7.20 harmony) – N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Mary’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

N’s Sun Conjuncts Mary’s Venus (+3.73 harmony) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. N has the same social interests and cultural values as Mary. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both Mary and N enjoy each other’s company.

Mary’s Mercury Conjuncts N’s Venus (+2.97 harmony) – Mary’s mentality and powers of perception combine with N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Mary’s communication style combines with N’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from N makes Mary feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.

Mary’s Saturn Trines N’s Uranus (+2.91 harmony) – Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Mary’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with N’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of N with the experience and caution of Mary toward a constructive goal. N is spontaneous and creative while Mary is sensible and levelheaded.

Mary’s Sun Trines N’s Pluto (+2.16 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Mary can bring out the psychoanalyst in N. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both N and Mary. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Mary and N to a long-term relationship.

Mary’s Venus Trines N’s Uranus (+1.96 harmony) – Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. N surprises Mary in one way or another. Mary has a pleasant way of toning down N’s eccentricity.

Mary’s Sun Conjuncts N’s Venus (+1.24 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Mary has the same social interests and cultural values as N. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both N and Mary enjoy each other’s company.

Mary’s Venus Sextiles N’s Saturn (+0.75 harmony) – Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. N’s protective nature stimulates Mary’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Mary’s Moon Trines N’s Neptune (+0.64 harmony) – Mary’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Mary and N. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Mary’s Sun Trines N’s Mars (+0.21 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Mary and N are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both N and Mary inspire creative passion in one another.

N’s Mars Sextiles Mary’s Neptune (+0.15 harmony) – N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of N stimulates the sacrificial tendency in Mary. N and Mary will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

Mary’s Saturn Sextiles N’s Saturn (neutral) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with the couple. Mary and N can stimulate each other to work on a common goal together as a team. This is a good aspect for any type of relationship. Both are disciplined and want the same level of financial security.

Mary’s Uranus Conjuncts N’s Pluto (neutral) – Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality may combine or resist with N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The intensity will depend on other factors of the relationship. This is favorable if Mary and N have more aspects in harmony than in discord.

N’s Sun Squares Mary’s Jupiter (-0.74 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Mary’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. N and Mary have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Mary and N may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

N’s Venus Opposes Mary’s Neptune (-0.80 discord) – N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between N and Mary. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause tension and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

N’s Mercury Squares Mary’s Pluto (-1.10 discord) – N’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both N and Mary have a robust mental effect on each other. There is friction in the difference of opinion and method of dealing with a problem. Frequent battles of the mind are expected in the relationship. Expressing one’s vulnerability is a hard thing to do for both Mary and N.

Mary’s Mars Opposes N’s Pluto (-1.85 discord) – Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is intense competition in the relationship.

Mary’s Sun Squares N’s Jupiter (-2.08 discord) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with N’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Mary and N have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both N and Mary may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

N’s Sun Conjuncts Mary’s Saturn (-2.23 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. Mary has the tendency to criticize and judge N’s actions. Mary sometimes blames N when something goes wrong. N is more tolerant and forgiving towards Mary. N can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from Mary.

N’s Mars Conjuncts Mary’s Pluto (-2.75 discord) – A delicate combination of N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with Mary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for N and Mary.

N’s Mercury Squares Mary’s Jupiter (-3.02 discord) – N’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in the exchange of ideas in the relationship. N will seem petty to Mary. Mary might promise more than can be delivered. This is not a serious conflict if there are many harmonious aspects to the relationship.

N’s Jupiter Squares Mary’s Neptune (-3.54 discord) – N’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. N might unintentionally hurt Mary’s sensitive feelings. Mary may appear elusive to N. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

Mary’s Sun Opposes N’s Neptune (-3.90 discord) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between N and Mary is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. N can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Mary.

N’s Mercury Squares Mary’s Mars (-3.94 discord) – N’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in Mary’s aggressive attitude and N’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make getting along challenging to achieve. N’s sarcasm could easily provoke Mary’s temper.

Mary’s Jupiter Opposes N’s Pluto (-4.15 discord) – Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Personal struggles between Mary and N can’t be avoided. There will be conflicting ideas that can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult.

Mary’s Moon Opposes N’s Pluto (-4.90 discord) – Mary’s emotional needs confront and challenge N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is tension in Mary’s defensive nature and N’s nastiness. N expects Mary to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

N’s Mercury Conjuncts Mary’s Saturn (-5.03 discord) – N’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. N may feel inadequate when Mary imparts knowledge and wisdom. Mary has the tendency to discipline N. N may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Mary. N can talk Mary out of negative attitudes. N can encourage progressiveness in Mary.

Mary’s Moon Squares N’s Mercury (-5.57 discord) – Mary’s emotional needs interact stressfully with N’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. Mary is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret N’s intentions. N pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of Mary. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

Mary’s Mars Opposes N’s Mars (-9.14 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge each other. Ordinary activities together can lead to conflicts. There is a tendency to obstruct each other’s work. The relationship creates hostile energy making cooperation challenging to achieve.

Mary’s Moon Opposes N’s Mars (-9.43 discord) – Mary’s emotional needs confront and challenge N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when N becomes rude or aggressive toward Mary. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Mary and N. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

N’s Sun Squares Mary’s Uranus (-11.10 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Mary produces friction with the selfishness of N. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Mary might resent and even rebel against N’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between N and Mary.

Mary’s Saturn Squares N’s Pluto (-12.40 discord) – Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. N being a reformer might challenge Mary’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

Mary’s Mercury Opposes N’s Neptune (-12.96 discord) – Mary’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Mary’s thinking can be overwhelmed by the wrong ideas of N. Lies and misunderstandings are frequent tension in the relationship. N may find Mary’s method of thinking too logical or rigid.

Mary’s Mercury Squares N’s Saturn (-17.13 discord) – Mary’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in N’s criticism and disapproval of Mary’s achievements. Mary may seem careless and annoying to N. N may appear cold and bossy to Mary. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Mary and N’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -15.42 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Mary and N don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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