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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -25

Mary born October 22, 1962
Libra ♎

Sijie born February 7, 1978
Aquarius ♒

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Mary and Sijie’s Relationship

Sijie and Mary’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Aquarius and Libra. No individual is a pure Aquarius or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Mary’s birth chart and the planets in Sijie’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Mary’s Sun Trines Sijie’s Jupiter (+11.60 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sijie’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in Mary and Sijie’s goal of expanding their horizons. There are much optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship. Mary inspires Sijie to plan big dreams. Sijie will make Mary feel terrific. This aspect helps bring good luck and financial success in a business partnership.

Mary’s Jupiter Trines Sijie’s Jupiter (+6.88 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. Mary and Sijie’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Mary’s Venus Trines Sijie’s Mars (+6.04 harmony) – Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Sijie’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of Sijie and loving nature of Mary. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

Sijie’s Moon Trines Mary’s Mercury (+5.70 harmony) – Sijie’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Mary’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Mary and Sijie are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.

Mary’s Moon Sextiles Sijie’s Jupiter (+5.11 harmony) – Mary’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Sijie’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both stimulate optimism and make each other feel positively wonderful. There’s plenty of opportunities for growth in the relationship. Sijie is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not hold any ill-will toward Mary. Mary inspires and encourages Sijie’s broad goals. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Sijie to Mary.

Mary’s Moon Trines Sijie’s Neptune (+5.11 harmony) – Mary’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Sijie’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Mary and Sijie. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Mary’s Sun Trines Sijie’s Venus (+4.58 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sijie’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Sijie and Mary. Sijie’s power of attraction is in harmony with Mary’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Sijie’s Sun Trines Mary’s Mercury (+4.04 harmony) – Sijie’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Mary’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Sijie and Mary is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Mary understands Sijie’s intentions. Sijie supports Mary’s intellectual excitement. Mary is able to discuss problems with Sijie. Together they can work out a solution.

Mary’s Sun Sextiles Sijie’s Saturn (+3.11 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Sijie’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Mary and Sijie can stimulate each other to work towards their common goals. There is a sense of practicality in the relationship. Mary and Sijie can agree on how to handle their problems. Both know how to allocate duties and responsibilities.

Mary’s Mercury Trines Sijie’s Mercury (+2.03 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between Mary and Sijie. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Mary’s Sun Trines Sijie’s Sun (+1.76 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Mary and Sijie can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Sijie’s Uranus Sextiles Mary’s Pluto (+1.10 harmony) – Sijie’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Mary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Sijie’s Venus Conjuncts Mary’s Jupiter (+1.02 harmony) – Sijie’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Mary’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Mary’s Moon Sextiles Sijie’s Pluto (+0.84 harmony) – Mary’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Sijie’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between Mary and Sijie. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Sijie’s Sun Conjuncts Mary’s Jupiter (+0.23 harmony) – Sijie’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Mary’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is a combination of great abundance and boundless possibilities in the relationship. Both Sijie and Mary share similar values and philosophy in life. Each will protect and defend one another when threatened by others.

Mary’s Sun Trines Sijie’s Moon (+0.10 harmony) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Sijie’s emotional needs. Sijie’s sensitive nature and Mary’s personality are in harmony. Sijie inspires and gives comfort to Mary. Mary supports, encourages, and revitalizes Sijie. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

Mary’s Mercury Conjuncts Sijie’s Pluto (neutral) – Mary’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Sijie’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Sijie can have an explosive effect on Mary’s viewpoints. Mary can expand Sijie’s range of interest in various areas of life. Sijie’s influence on Mary is stronger than Mary’s on Sijie. Sijie has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Mary and could be ruthless in doing so.

Sijie’s Uranus Conjuncts Mary’s Neptune (neutral) – Sijie’s respect for expression of individuality combines with Mary’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between Sijie and Mary. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage Mary or Sijie to evade responsibility.

Sijie’s Venus Opposes Mary’s Uranus (-0.05 discord) – Sijie’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause tension and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Sijie’s Venus Squares Mary’s Neptune (-0.31 discord) – Sijie’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between Sijie and Mary. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

Sijie’s Sun Conjuncts Mary’s Saturn (-0.77 discord) – Sijie’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. Mary has the tendency to criticize and judge Sijie’s actions. Mary sometimes blames Sijie when something goes wrong. Sijie is more tolerant and forgiving towards Mary. Sijie can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from Mary.

Sijie’s Moon Squares Mary’s Venus (-0.81 discord) – Sijie’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Sijie and Mary can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Mary and Sijie. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Mary’s Mars Conjuncts Sijie’s Mars (-1.13 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine within the couple. Both have similar instincts regarding sex and intimacy. The tendency of action will be identical in Mary and Sijie. The same energy and desire may cause rivalry.

Sijie’s Moon Conjuncts Mary’s Saturn (-1.60 discord) – Sijie’s emotional needs combine with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Mary tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Sijie. Sijie may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Mary imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Sijie and Mary.

Sijie’s Mercury Squares Mary’s Neptune (-1.75 discord) – Sijie’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Mary’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in Sijie’s method of thinking. Both Sijie and Mary are capable of lying to each other. Mary’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

Sijie’s Sun Squares Mary’s Venus (-2.06 discord) – Sijie’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Mary’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Mary’s romantic sensibilities and Sijie’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Mary’s Sun Squares Sijie’s Mercury (-2.17 discord) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sijie’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Sijie and Mary. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Sijie might be too aggressive in communicating with Mary.

Mary’s Venus Squares Sijie’s Venus (-2.32 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully within the couple. Both have different romantic styles. There is friction in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Sijie’s Sun Opposes Mary’s Mars (-2.55 discord) – Sijie’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Sijie and Mary. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Mary and Sijie are together.

Sijie’s Saturn Conjuncts Mary’s Uranus (-2.82 discord) – Sijie’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Mary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Mary is radical and rebellious while Sijie is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

Sijie’s Neptune Squares Mary’s Pluto (-3.59 discord) – Sijie’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with Mary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of Sijie and Mary. Mary will likely have a more forceful personality that Sijie. Sijie attempts to give Mary spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. Mary in return will psychoanalyze Sijie’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

Mary’s Moon Squares Sijie’s Uranus (-3.60 discord) – Mary’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Sijie’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between Sijie and Mary. Sijie is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Mary is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Mary’s Moon Conjuncts Sijie’s Saturn (-3.96 discord) – Mary’s emotional needs combine with Sijie’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Sijie tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Mary. Mary may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Sijie imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Mary and Sijie.

Sijie’s Moon Opposes Mary’s Mars (-4.63 discord) – Sijie’s emotional needs confront and challenge Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension when Mary becomes rude or aggressive toward Sijie. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Sijie and Mary. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship.

Sijie’s Mars Opposes Mary’s Saturn (-4.83 discord) – Sijie’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Sijie’s impulsive attitude and Mary’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Sijie’s Mercury Conjuncts Mary’s Saturn (-5.77 discord) – Sijie’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Mary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Sijie may feel inadequate when Mary imparts knowledge and wisdom. Mary has the tendency to discipline Sijie. Sijie may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Mary. Sijie can talk Mary out of negative attitudes. Sijie can encourage progressiveness in Mary.

Mary’s Moon Opposes Sijie’s Venus (-6.18 discord) – Mary’s emotional needs confront and challenge Sijie’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a mutual attraction for love and marriage between Mary and Sijie. Much affection is shown between the individuals. There may be fewer mutual interests in the relationship.

Mary’s Sun Squares Sijie’s Mars (-6.32 discord) – Mary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Sijie’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of Mary and Sijie. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between Sijie and Mary is necessary for the union to work. Sijie will have to work on patience while Mary will have to work on humility.

Sijie’s Sun Squares Mary’s Neptune (-6.32 discord) – Sijie’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Sijie and Mary can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Mary can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Sijie.

Mary’s Jupiter Opposes Sijie’s Saturn (-6.93 discord) – Mary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Sijie’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Sijie’s restrictive nature and Mary’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

Sijie’s Moon Squares Mary’s Neptune (-7.98 discord) – Sijie’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Mary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. Mary can be deceptive or dishonest to Sijie. Sijie can overreact to the confusion caused by Mary. This aspect is unfortunate for marriage.

Mary’s Moon Opposes Sijie’s Moon (-8.96 discord) – The individual emotional needs complement each other. Both are attracted to each other and can be sexually or domestically compatible. The differences in moods and feelings are mutually helpful. Mary and Sijie’s personalities are different, but there is seldom severe conflict. This is a right combination for marriage if other aspects of the relationship are harmonious.

Sijie’s Sun Opposes Mary’s Moon (-10.62 discord) – Sijie’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Mary’s emotional needs. There can be tension in the mutual attraction between the domineering nature of Sijie and the sensitive nature of Mary. The potential for learning and growth is present in the relationship.

Mary’s Venus Squares Sijie’s Saturn (-12.23 discord) – Mary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Sijie’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in the controlling nature of Sijie and the affectionate nature of Mary. Mary feels dominated. Sijie tends to impose too much responsibility on Mary.

Sijie’s Mercury Opposes Mary’s Mars (-14.94 discord) – Sijie’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Mary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is tension in Mary’s aggressive attitude and Sijie’s rational reasoning. Petty quarrels in the relationship will make cooperation challenging to achieve. Sijie’s sarcasm could provoke Mary’s temper.

There are 6 mutual receptions in Mary and Sijie’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +60 harmony to the total score. The remaining -19.05 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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