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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +169

Me born April 9, 1963
Aries ♈

Soulmate born July 1, 1989
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Me and Soulmate’s Relationship

Soulmate and Me’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Aries. No individual is a pure Cancer or Aries but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Me’s birth chart and the planets in Soulmate’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Jupiter (+17.48 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Me encourages and nurtures Soulmate’s expansive ideas. Soulmate is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Me. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Soulmate to Me. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

Soulmate’s Venus Trines Me’s Jupiter (+15.06 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Me’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is harmony in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Venus (+11.46 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Me and Soulmate. Me’s power of attraction is in harmony with Soulmate’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Me’s Venus Trines Soulmate’s Pluto (+9.94 harmony) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony when both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Me and Soulmate makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Mercury (+9.82 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Soulmate and Me are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.

Soulmate’s Neptune Trines Me’s Pluto (+8.92 harmony) – Soulmate’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a holy union between Soulmate and Me. The spiritual urge of Soulmate harmonizes with the reforming call of Me. Both will support and encourage each other’s causes.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Uranus (+8.08 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between Me and Soulmate. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Soulmate’s Sun Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+7.66 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Soulmate can bring out the psychoanalyst in Me.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Trines Me’s Saturn (+7.16 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Me’s practicality is in harmony with Soulmate’s expansive ideas. Soulmate provides vision while Me creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Me’s Venus Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+6.99 harmony) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Me is willing to overlook Soulmate’s faults. Soulmate is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Me’s Sun Sextiles Soulmate’s Moon (+6.69 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s emotional needs. There is a natural stimulation and flowing compatibility between Me and Soulmate. Reconciliation after a disagreement is ordinary. This is an ideal aspect to have in a romantic relationship.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Neptune (+6.65 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Me and Soulmate. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Me’s Uranus Trines Soulmate’s Uranus (+6.46 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine very comfortably between the couple. It is easy to let loose, be comfortable, and be yourself in this relationship. Me and Soulmate can harmoniously understand each other’s ideas and desire for independence. In a few words, the connection can be summed up as an “odd couple” or “wacky duo.”

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Moon (+5.67 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine very comfortably. Soulmate and Me’s hearts and souls share a basic understanding of each other. There are sympathy and agreement in both big and small things. The dispositions and temperaments are the same between Me and Soulmate. Their moods are in harmony. They comfort and nourish each other naturally. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a serious relationship.

Me’s Sun Sextiles Soulmate’s Mercury (+5.15 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a natural stimulation to communicate with each other. Collaboration flows smoothly between Me and Soulmate. They enjoy exchanging concepts and ideas with one another. Both are able to discuss their problems and work them out.

Me’s Sun Sextiles Soulmate’s Jupiter (+4.98 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Me stimulates Soulmate to succeed both materially and emotionally. Both will feel good and lucky for each other. There is unconditional support, encouragement, and emotional assistance in the relationship. Soulmate and Me can instinctively bring out the best in each other.

Soulmate’s Saturn Trines Me’s Pluto (+4.63 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Soulmate’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with Me’s quiet but immense power. Both Soulmate and Me are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Soulmate’s Mercury Trines Me’s Saturn (+4.50 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Me helps give form to Soulmate’s ideas. Soulmate learns a lot from Me’s knowledge and wisdom. There is harmony when Me offers practical guidance that improves Soulmate’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Me’s Venus Sextiles Soulmate’s Saturn (+3.94 harmony) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Soulmate’s protective nature stimulates Me’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Me’s Mercury Sextiles Soulmate’s Jupiter (+3.66 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Me’s ideas stimulate Soulmate’s dreams. Soulmate’s faith deepens Me’s intellectual self-confidence. Soulmate sympathizes with Me’s desire for mental advancement. Me respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Soulmate.

Me’s Pluto Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+3.47 harmony) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine pleasantly within the couple. Soulmate came from a different generation with different cultural references than Me. Both enjoy reminiscing about the past, on how each individual grew up.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Saturn (+3.43 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of Soulmate are stabilized by Me. Soulmate expands the ideas of Me with practical imagination. Me will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when Soulmate is depressed. Soulmate and Me complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Soulmate and Me.

Me’s Neptune Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+3.06 harmony) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines pleasantly with the couple. The relationship stimulates a beautiful romance between Me and Soulmate. Both share similar ideas, and each one knows what the other one is thinking. Soulmate and Me appreciate each other’s company. There is a feeling of love and unity in the relationship.

Soulmate’s Mars Trines Me’s Jupiter (+2.49 harmony) – Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Me has a broad impact on Soulmate’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Soulmate challenges Me to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Me’s Sun Trines Soulmate’s Mars (+1.77 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Me and Soulmate are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Soulmate and Me inspire creative passion in one another.

Soulmate’s Saturn Sextiles Me’s Neptune (+1.36 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Soulmate can stabilize Me to be practical. Me can inspire Soulmate to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Soulmate’s Uranus Trines Me’s Pluto (+1.11 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both will encourage and support each other’s causes. The relationship promotes the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals.

Me’s Uranus Trines Soulmate’s Neptune (+0.50 harmony) – Me’s respect for expression of individuality combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both surprise each other at how crazy and beautiful things can get. Soulmate and Me have a strong intuitive connection.

Soulmate’s Saturn Trines Me’s Uranus (+0.42 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Soulmate’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with Me’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of Me with the experience and caution of Soulmate toward a constructive goal. Me is spontaneous and creative while Soulmate is sensible and levelheaded.

Soulmate’s Venus Conjuncts Me’s Mars (neutral) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Me’s desire fuses with Soulmate’s loving nature. Both are magnetically attracted to each other. Me can be jealous or possessive. Soulmate has a soothing effect on Me.

Me’s Neptune Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – Me’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a happy combination of the spiritual and psychological values of Me and Soulmate. Both are on a spiritual path together. The relationship forms a compassionate outlook to make things a little better for everyone.

Me’s Jupiter Squares Soulmate’s Neptune (-0.12 discord) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a tendency to encourage bad habits of extravagance, gambling, or laziness. Me might unintentionally hurt Soulmate’s sensitive feelings. Soulmate may appear elusive to Me. There is friction in spiritual or philosophical beliefs.

Soulmate’s Moon Squares Me’s Pluto (-0.35 discord) – Soulmate’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in Soulmate’s defensive nature and Me’s nastiness. Me expects Soulmate to make all the adjustments creating deep antipathy instead of agreement in the relationship. There could be severe family issues and misunderstandings in marriage.

Me’s Jupiter Squares Soulmate’s Saturn (-0.58 discord) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Soulmate’s view of responsibility and Me’s dreams of expansion. Soulmate places too much responsibility on Me. Me feels confined and frustrated.

Soulmate’s Mars Opposes Me’s Saturn (-0.91 discord) – Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Soulmate’s impulsive attitude and Me’s instinct to be prudent. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Soulmate’s Sun Squares Me’s Jupiter (-1.83 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Me’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Soulmate and Me have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Me and Soulmate may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Me’s Jupiter Squares Soulmate’s Uranus (-2.10 discord) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in Me’s aspirations and Soulmate’s individualistic ideas. Soulmate will seem rebellious or unstable to Me. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Soulmate’s Moon Squares Me’s Venus (-2.13 discord) – Soulmate’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Soulmate and Me can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Me and Soulmate. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Me’s Moon Squares Soulmate’s Venus (-2.46 discord) – Me’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Me and Soulmate can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Soulmate and Me. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Me’s Saturn Squares Soulmate’s Pluto (-2.60 discord) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the struggle for power and authority in the relationship. Soulmate being a reformer might challenge Me’s attitude towards responsibilities of life.

Me’s Sun Squares Soulmate’s Sun (-2.70 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Me and Soulmate can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Me’s Sun Squares Soulmate’s Neptune (-4.12 discord) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Me and Soulmate can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Soulmate can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Me.

Me’s Mars Squares Soulmate’s Pluto (-4.90 discord) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

Soulmate’s Mars Squares Me’s Neptune (-5.38 discord) – Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Me’s elusive reaction to Soulmate’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Me’s Mars Conjuncts Soulmate’s Mars (-5.57 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine within the couple. Both have similar instincts regarding sex and intimacy. The tendency of action will be identical in Me and Soulmate. The same energy and desire may cause rivalry.

Me’s Sun Squares Soulmate’s Saturn (-5.67 discord) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Soulmate’s controlling nature and Me’s egocentric nature. Me struggles to break free from the limits set by Soulmate. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

Me’s Mercury Squares Soulmate’s Venus (-6.37 discord) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Me and Soulmate. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Me tends to disregard the emotional needs of Soulmate. Soulmate may find Me cold and calculative.

There are 5 mutual receptions in Me and Soulmate’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +50 harmony to the total score. The remaining -5.72 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Me and Soulmate don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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