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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +182

Me born August 21, 1967
Leo ♌

Soulmate born July 8, 1990
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Me and Soulmate’s Relationship

Soulmate and Me’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Leo. No individual is a pure Cancer or Leo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Me’s birth chart and the planets in Soulmate’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Trines Me’s Neptune (+13.97 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Soulmate’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Me’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Pluto (+10.80 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Me and Soulmate. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Soulmate’s Mercury Trines Me’s Neptune (+10.76 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when Me inspires the creativity of Soulmate. Soulmate’s practical suggestions give form to Me’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Pluto (+10.49 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Soulmate and Me. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Uranus (+10.01 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Soulmate and Me are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. There are sparks of excitement and mischief in the air when Me and Soulmate are together. Me awakens and inspires ideas in Soulmate. Soulmate’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Me’s inventiveness and creativity.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Moon (+9.78 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s emotional needs. Me’s sensitive nature and Soulmate’s personality are in harmony. Me inspires and gives comfort to Soulmate. Soulmate supports, encourages, and revitalizes Me. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

Me’s Venus Trines Soulmate’s Neptune (+9.45 harmony) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Me is willing to overlook Soulmate’s faults. Soulmate is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Me’s Sun Trines Soulmate’s Mars (+8.59 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Me and Soulmate are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Soulmate and Me inspire creative passion in one another.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+8.45 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.

Me’s Mars Trines Soulmate’s Jupiter (+8.38 harmony) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Soulmate has a broad impact on Me’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Me challenges Soulmate to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Me’s Venus Trines Soulmate’s Uranus (+8.22 harmony) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Soulmate surprises Me in one way or another. Me has a pleasant way of toning down Soulmate’s eccentricity.

Soulmate’s Mercury Sextiles Me’s Uranus (+7.80 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. Soulmate and Me bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Mars (+7.79 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Soulmate and Me are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Me and Soulmate inspire creative passion in one another.

Soulmate’s Moon Sextiles Me’s Neptune (+7.45 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. Telepathic communication with each other is possible. Both Soulmate and Me have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Jupiter (+7.32 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in the right mood and feeling of comfort in the relationship. Me encourages and nurtures Soulmate’s expansive ideas. Soulmate is patient, tolerant, protective, and will not harbor any ill-will against Me. Both boost confidence and respect in each other. This aspect is conducive to fertility and childbearing if the wife’s health and age can support it. There’s a sense of luck and financial benefits from Soulmate to Me. An element of teacher and student energy is present in the relationship. The roles can reverse and both take a turn in learning from and teaching each other.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Sextiles Me’s Uranus (+7.32 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Soulmate’s visions stimulate Me’s creative genius. Soulmate will expand Me’s goals and creativity. Me adds innovation and excitement to Soulmate’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

Me’s Moon Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+7.25 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. Telepathic communication with each other is possible. Both Me and Soulmate have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Neptune (+6.41 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Me and Soulmate. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Mars (+5.45 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Me’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Soulmate’s encouragement.

Soulmate’s Mercury Trines Me’s Mars (+5.09 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Soulmate’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Me’s encouragement.

Soulmate’s Venus Sextiles Me’s Jupiter (+4.76 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Me’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Soulmate’s Mercury Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+4.71 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Me stimulates Soulmate to be open to new ways of thinking. Soulmate appreciates Me’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. Me’s influence on Soulmate is stronger than Soulmate’s on Me.

Soulmate’s Saturn Trines Me’s Uranus (+4.69 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Soulmate’s practicality and groundedness are in harmony with Me’s genius and inspirations. The relationship unites new ideas of Me with the experience and caution of Soulmate toward a constructive goal. Me is spontaneous and creative while Soulmate is sensible and levelheaded.

Soulmate’s Sun Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+4.46 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Soulmate can bring out the psychoanalyst in Me.

Me’s Venus Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+3.82 harmony) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Me and Soulmate makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Soulmate’s Saturn Trines Me’s Pluto (+3.56 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Soulmate’s steady and patient practicality is in harmony with Me’s quiet but immense power. Both Soulmate and Me are good in planning together big projects and will make good use of each other’s experience. This aspect is good for a business partnership.

Soulmate’s Neptune Trines Me’s Pluto (+3.50 harmony) – Soulmate’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a holy union between Soulmate and Me. The spiritual urge of Soulmate harmonizes with the reforming call of Me. Both will support and encourage each other’s causes.

Soulmate’s Moon Sextiles Me’s Mars (+3.43 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Me stimulates Soulmate’s imagination and self-confidence. Soulmate inspires the development of Me’s sexual fire. There is physical intimacy, sexual magnetism, and irresistible passion between Soulmate and Me. This aspect encourages reproduction if Me is male and Soulmate is female.

Soulmate’s Sun Sextiles Me’s Venus (+3.24 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Me’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates the natural love for one another. Me has a soothing and warm effect on Soulmate. Soulmate has the desire to please and support Me. Both share the same social interests and enjoy the same pleasures in life.

Soulmate’s Saturn Sextiles Me’s Neptune (+3.09 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Soulmate can stabilize Me to be practical. Me can inspire Soulmate to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Mercury (+2.95 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Soulmate and Me are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.

Me’s Sun Trines Soulmate’s Uranus (+2.50 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Soulmate’s unusual nature blends harmoniously well with Me’s highly creative life. The relationship stimulates each other’s innovation and exchange of progressive ideas. There is a smooth flow of encouragement and individualism between Me and Soulmate.

Me’s Pluto Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+2.44 harmony) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine pleasantly within the couple. Soulmate came from a different generation with different cultural references than Me. Both enjoy reminiscing about the past, on how each individual grew up.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Venus (+1.94 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is harmony in the deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Me’s cuteness charms Soulmate’s soul. Both are in agreement on creative undertakings and social engagements. Soulmate and Me can easily forgive each other on minor conflicts. This aspect boosts a strong physical attraction for love and marriage.

Me’s Mars Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+1.82 harmony) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of Me stimulates the sacrificial tendency in Soulmate. Me and Soulmate will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

Me’s Moon Sextiles Soulmate’s Uranus (+1.39 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There’s a degree of unpredictability linking Me and Soulmate. Both like and love each other in unexpected ways. Me and Soulmate are friends and romantic lovers at the same time. Soulmate awakens and inspires ideas in Me. Me’s natural instinctual mind stimulates Soulmate’s inventiveness and creativity.

Soulmate’s Mars Trines Me’s Jupiter (+1.39 harmony) – Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Me has a broad impact on Soulmate’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Soulmate challenges Me to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Soulmate’s Venus Sextiles Me’s Saturn (+1.35 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Me’s protective nature stimulates Soulmate’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Soulmate’s Sun Sextiles Me’s Uranus (+0.97 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both Soulmate and Me have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for Me and Soulmate.

Me’s Moon Sextiles Soulmate’s Moon (+0.74 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine pleasantly. Me and Soulmate’s attitudes are similar enough they tend to agree on almost anything under the sun. They stimulate each other so well they can resolve various lifestyle problems before they even pop up. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a long-term relationship.

Me’s Mars Sextiles Soulmate’s Saturn (+0.55 harmony) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Me stimulates Soulmate’s ambition and self-confidence. Soulmate restrains Me’s tendency to act impulsively.

Me’s Uranus Trines Soulmate’s Neptune (+0.01 harmony) – Me’s respect for expression of individuality combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both surprise each other at how crazy and beautiful things can get. Soulmate and Me have a strong intuitive connection.

Me’s Neptune Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – Me’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a happy combination of the spiritual and psychological values of Me and Soulmate. Both are on a spiritual path together. The relationship forms a compassionate outlook to make things a little better for everyone.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Squares Me’s Saturn (-0.86 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Me’s view of responsibility and Soulmate’s dreams of expansion. Me places too much responsibility on Soulmate. Soulmate feels confined and frustrated.

Soulmate’s Venus Squares Me’s Uranus (-2.20 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Me’s Venus Squares Soulmate’s Venus (-2.32 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully within the couple. Both have different romantic styles. There is friction in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Me’s Mars Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (-2.34 discord) – A delicate combination of Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is resistance to the display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. The relationship is extremely competitive for Me and Soulmate.

Me’s Jupiter Squares Soulmate’s Pluto (-2.37 discord) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Me.

Soulmate’s Moon Squares Me’s Saturn (-4.09 discord) – Soulmate’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between Me’s practicality and Soulmate’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Me can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward Soulmate. Soulmate can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward Me.

Soulmate’s Venus Squares Me’s Pluto (-4.82 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Me’s Saturn Squares Soulmate’s Uranus (-5.10 discord) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of Me and the progressive nature of Soulmate. Me will restrict Soulmate’s progress and expression of individuality. Soulmate will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of Me.

Me’s Moon Squares Soulmate’s Venus (-7.37 discord) – Me’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Me and Soulmate can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Soulmate and Me. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Me’s Saturn Squares Soulmate’s Neptune (-10.10 discord) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Me’s realism and Soulmate’s idealism.

Soulmate’s Sun Squares Me’s Saturn (-11.65 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Me’s controlling nature and Soulmate’s egocentric nature. Soulmate struggles to break free from the limits set by Me. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Me and Soulmate’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -22.87 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Me and Soulmate don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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