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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +155

Me born October 1, 1975
Libra ♎

Soulmate born July 26, 1977
Leo ♌

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Me and Soulmate’s Relationship

Soulmate and Me’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Leo and Libra. No individual is a pure Leo or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Me’s birth chart and the planets in Soulmate’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Jupiter (+14.90 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Me’s thoughts are in harmony with Soulmate’s dreams. Soulmate’s faith deepens Me’s intellectual self-confidence. Soulmate sympathizes with Me’s desire for mental advancement. Me respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Soulmate.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Venus (+13.18 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Me’s communication style is in harmony with Soulmate’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Soulmate makes Me feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Soulmate’s Venus Sextiles Me’s Jupiter (+11.40 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Me’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Soulmate’s Mercury Trines Me’s Jupiter (+9.00 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Soulmate’s thoughts are in harmony with Me’s dreams. Me’s faith deepens Soulmate’s intellectual self-confidence. Me sympathizes with Soulmate’s desire for mental advancement. Soulmate respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Me.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Neptune (+7.14 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Me and Soulmate. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Soulmate’s Moon Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+6.95 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between Soulmate and Me. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Me’s Jupiter Trines Soulmate’s Saturn (+6.88 harmony) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Soulmate’s practicality is in harmony with Me’s expansive ideas. Me provides vision while Soulmate creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve significant goals. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Trines Me’s Uranus (+6.02 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Soulmate’s visions are in harmony with Me’s creative genius. Soulmate will expand Me’s goals and creativity. Me adds innovation and excitement to Soulmate’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Me’s Jupiter Sextiles Soulmate’s Jupiter (+5.98 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly within the couple. Both stimulate each other to expand their horizons and are protective of each other. Soulmate and Me have the same view about ethics, philosophy, or religion. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Neptune (+5.91 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Me and Soulmate. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Me’s Mars Conjuncts Soulmate’s Jupiter (+5.74 harmony) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates aspirations and ambitions in one another. This aspect may also encourage extravagance in one or both individual. Soulmate enjoys teasing Me which Me doesn’t find amusing.

Me’s Sun Sextiles Soulmate’s Moon (+5.66 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s emotional needs. There is a natural stimulation and flowing compatibility between Me and Soulmate. Reconciliation after a disagreement is ordinary. This is an ideal aspect to have in a romantic relationship.

Soulmate’s Mars Trines Me’s Pluto (+5.29 harmony) – Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between Soulmate and Me. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

Me’s Sun Trines Soulmate’s Mars (+4.83 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Me and Soulmate are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Soulmate and Me inspire creative passion in one another.

Me’s Venus Sextiles Soulmate’s Jupiter (+4.56 harmony) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Soulmate’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Soulmate’s Mercury Sextiles Me’s Mars (+4.20 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Soulmate’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Me’s encouragement.

Soulmate’s Mercury Sextiles Me’s Uranus (+4.00 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. Soulmate and Me bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Me’s Mercury Sextiles Soulmate’s Mercury (+3.95 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly between the couple. Stimulating and exciting conversations are frequent in the relationship. Ideas flow naturally between Me and Soulmate. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Me’s Sun Sextiles Soulmate’s Sun (+3.69 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with the couple. The similar temperaments of Me and Soulmate can stimulate each other to achieve their goals in life. There is a strong sense of compatibility between Soulmate and Me. Both are supportive of each other’s basic needs. This aspect is mutually beneficial for marriage.

Me’s Jupiter Trines Soulmate’s Neptune (+3.51 harmony) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Me’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Soulmate’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Soulmate’s Mercury Conjuncts Me’s Venus (+3.40 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Soulmate’s communication style combines with Me’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Me makes Soulmate feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.

Me’s Neptune Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+2.73 harmony) – Me’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Me stimulates the reforming urge of Soulmate. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Moon (+2.56 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine very comfortably. Soulmate and Me’s hearts and souls share a basic understanding of each other. There are sympathy and agreement in both big and small things. The dispositions and temperaments are the same between Me and Soulmate. Their moods are in harmony. They comfort and nourish each other naturally. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a serious relationship.

Soulmate’s Neptune Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+2.47 harmony) – Soulmate’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Soulmate stimulates the reforming urge of Me. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Soulmate’s Sun Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+2.31 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Soulmate can bring out the psychoanalyst in Me.

Me’s Moon Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+2.27 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between Me and Soulmate. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Me’s Moon Sextiles Soulmate’s Venus (+2.15 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. Me and Soulmate have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between Me and Soulmate.

Me’s Mercury Sextiles Soulmate’s Saturn (+1.47 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Soulmate helps give form to Me’s ideas. Me learns a lot from Soulmate’s knowledge and wisdom. There is natural stimulation when Soulmate offers practical guidance that improves Me’s life. Both tend to solve relationship problems through careful and logical communication. This is a favorable aspect for long-term relationship including business partnership.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Saturn (+1.09 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is a sense of quiet harmony when the emotions of Soulmate are stabilized by Me. Soulmate expands the ideas of Me with practical imagination. Me will be dependable, loyal, and offers counsel when Soulmate is depressed. Soulmate and Me complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support for each other. Both are in agreement when it comes to financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Soulmate and Me.

Soulmate’s Saturn Trines Me’s Neptune (+0.67 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Soulmate’s practical instincts are in harmony with Me’s visions and dreams. Soulmate has a good sense of reality that Me might not have. Me is aware of a different dimension that can help Soulmate.

Soulmate’s Venus Trines Me’s Uranus (+0.61 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Me surprises Soulmate in one way or another. Soulmate has a pleasant way of toning down Me’s eccentricity.

Me’s Sun Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+0.08 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Soulmate and Me. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Soulmate knows what Me is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Me’s Mars Sextiles Soulmate’s Saturn (+0.07 harmony) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Me stimulates Soulmate’s ambition and self-confidence. Soulmate restrains Me’s tendency to act impulsively.

Me’s Sun Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Me and Soulmate are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

Soulmate’s Sun Conjuncts Me’s Moon (neutral) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Me’s emotional needs. The encouraging and vitalizing energies of Soulmate connect with the comforting and inspiring strengths of Me. The fusion of powers is beneficial to a long-term relationship when supported by other aspects in harmony.

Me’s Moon Conjuncts Soulmate’s Mercury (neutral) – Me’s emotional needs combine with Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception. There is a mutual expression of feelings in the relationship. Me intuitively knows what Soulmate is thinking. Soulmate can clearly describe Me’s emotions. Soulmate can be an excellent listener to any weird things that Me has to say. Both can work together to find a solution to their relationship problems.

Me’s Mercury Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Soulmate can have an explosive effect on Me’s viewpoints. Me can expand Soulmate’s range of interest in various areas of life. Soulmate’s influence on Me is stronger than Me’s on Soulmate. Soulmate has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Me and could be ruthless in doing so.

Soulmate’s Venus Conjuncts Me’s Mars (neutral) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Me’s desire fuses with Soulmate’s loving nature. Both are magnetically attracted to each other. Me can be jealous or possessive. Soulmate has a soothing effect on Me.

Me’s Uranus Conjuncts Soulmate’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Me and Soulmate complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Soulmate’s Moon Conjuncts Me’s Neptune (neutral) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The fusion offers strong compatibility with each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Soulmate and Me. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

Me’s Neptune Conjuncts Soulmate’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Me and Soulmate share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Me or Soulmate.

Me’s Pluto Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Me and Soulmate enjoy the same cultural references. Soulmate and Me have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Me’s Venus Conjuncts Soulmate’s Saturn (-0.37 discord) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. Soulmate provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. Me’s sympathy and affection stimulate Soulmate’s confidence. Soulmate can become possessive of Me. Me can feel restricted by Soulmate’s criticism and discipline.

Me’s Venus Squares Soulmate’s Mars (-0.54 discord) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Me and Soulmate in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Soulmate feels suffocated by Me’s possessiveness. Me can be deeply hurt by Soulmate’s thoughtless words.

Me’s Mars Opposes Soulmate’s Neptune (-0.93 discord) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Soulmate’s elusive reaction to Me’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Soulmate’s Mars Sextiles Me’s Saturn (-0.93 discord) – Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Soulmate stimulates Me’s ambition and self-confidence. Me restrains Soulmate’s tendency to act impulsively.

Me’s Jupiter Opposes Soulmate’s Pluto (-1.24 discord) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Personal struggles between Me and Soulmate can’t be avoided. There will be conflicting ideas that can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult.

Me’s Moon Squares Soulmate’s Uranus (-1.26 discord) – Me’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between Soulmate and Me. Soulmate is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Me is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Soulmate’s Sun Squares Me’s Mercury (-1.83 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Me’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction due to improper communication between Me and Soulmate. Misunderstanding and conflict of ideas are common in this aspect. Me might be too aggressive in communicating with Soulmate.

Me’s Saturn Squares Soulmate’s Uranus (-5.23 discord) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in the conservative principles of Me and the progressive nature of Soulmate. Me will restrict Soulmate’s progress and expression of individuality. Soulmate will rebel against the traditional and controlling character of Me.

Me’s Moon Conjuncts Soulmate’s Saturn (-5.67 discord) – Me’s emotional needs combine with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Whether the fusion will work for good or ill will depend on other aspects. Soulmate tends to discipline that can adversely affect the feelings of Me. Me may feel restricted and resentful of the limitations that Soulmate imposes in the relationship. This aspect usually forms when there is a wide age gap between Me and Soulmate.

Soulmate’s Sun Conjuncts Me’s Saturn (-9.66 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. Me has the tendency to criticize and judge Soulmate’s actions. Me sometimes blames Soulmate when something goes wrong. Soulmate is more tolerant and forgiving towards Me. Soulmate can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from Me.

Soulmate’s Mars Opposes Me’s Neptune (-9.73 discord) – Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion confront and challenge Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in Me’s elusive reaction to Soulmate’s unexpected behavior. The relationship can cause emotional disturbance and extravagance in one or both.

Soulmate’s Sun Squares Me’s Uranus (-9.88 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Me produces friction with the selfishness of Soulmate. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Me might resent and even rebel against Soulmate’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Soulmate and Me.

There are 7 mutual receptions in Me and Soulmate’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +70 harmony to the total score. The remaining -22.40 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Me and Soulmate don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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