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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +137

Me born October 13, 1976
Libra ♎

Soulmate born July 12, 1949
Cancer ♋

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Me and Soulmate’s Relationship

Soulmate and Me’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Cancer and Libra. No individual is a pure Cancer or Libra but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Me’s birth chart and the planets in Soulmate’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Me’s Jupiter Trines Soulmate’s Jupiter (+15.99 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very comfortably with the couple. Me and Soulmate’s point of view about philosophy, ethics, or religion are in harmony. Both support each other to expand their horizons. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor. Usually, the older person will guide the younger.

Soulmate’s Sun Trines Me’s Venus (+13.25 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Me’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There are wealth and material bond between Me and Soulmate. Me’s power of attraction is in harmony with Soulmate’s confidence and abilities. There is a strong romantic and magnetic attraction with each other. The relationship offers financial security and generosity in sharing everything with one another.

Soulmate’s Venus Trines Me’s Neptune (+11.36 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Soulmate is willing to overlook Me’s faults. Me is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Moon (+10.23 harmony) – The couple’s individual emotional needs combine very comfortably. Soulmate and Me’s hearts and souls share a basic understanding of each other. There are sympathy and agreement in both big and small things. The dispositions and temperaments are the same between Me and Soulmate. Their moods are in harmony. They comfort and nourish each other naturally. This is an excellent booster if there are conflicts in other areas of the relationship. One of the best aspects to have in a serious relationship.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Pluto (+7.99 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between Soulmate and Me. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Soulmate’s Mercury Trines Me’s Uranus (+7.73 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in the intellectual and mental awakening between Soulmate and Me. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Me’s Sun Trines Soulmate’s Moon (+7.67 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s emotional needs. Soulmate’s sensitive nature and Me’s personality are in harmony. Soulmate inspires and gives comfort to Me. Me supports, encourages, and revitalizes Soulmate. This is a favorable aspect of marriage.

Soulmate’s Venus Sextiles Me’s Pluto (+7.66 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Soulmate and Me makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Soulmate’s Mercury Trines Me’s Mars (+6.76 harmony) – Soulmate’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the exchange of ideas and self-expression between each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. Soulmate’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by Me’s encouragement.

Me’s Mars Trines Soulmate’s Uranus (+6.57 harmony) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

Me’s Neptune Trines Soulmate’s Pluto (+6.53 harmony) – Me’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a holy union between Me and Soulmate. The spiritual urge of Me harmonizes with the reforming call of Soulmate. Both will support and encourage each other’s causes.

Me’s Mercury Trines Soulmate’s Jupiter (+6.34 harmony) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. Me’s thoughts are in harmony with Soulmate’s dreams. Soulmate’s faith deepens Me’s intellectual self-confidence. Soulmate sympathizes with Me’s desire for mental advancement. Me respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of Soulmate.

Me’s Uranus Trines Soulmate’s Uranus (+5.51 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine very comfortably between the couple. It is easy to let loose, be comfortable, and be yourself in this relationship. Me and Soulmate can harmoniously understand each other’s ideas and desire for independence. In a few words, the connection can be summed up as an “odd couple” or “wacky duo.”

Me’s Moon Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+4.65 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is stimulation in the magnetic mental attraction between Me and Soulmate. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

Me’s Neptune Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+4.41 harmony) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines pleasantly with the couple. The relationship stimulates a beautiful romance between Me and Soulmate. Both share similar ideas, and each one knows what the other one is thinking. Soulmate and Me appreciate each other’s company. There is a feeling of love and unity in the relationship.

Me’s Venus Squares Soulmate’s Venus (+4.35 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully within the couple. Both have different romantic styles. There is friction in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Me’s Sun Trines Soulmate’s Mars (+4.18 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Me and Soulmate are in harmonious agreement in achieving mutual goals or meeting challenges together. The partnership creates a powerful sense of ambition, energy, and enthusiasm in each individual. Both Soulmate and Me inspire creative passion in one another.

Soulmate’s Moon Sextiles Me’s Neptune (+3.95 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Me’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. Telepathic communication with each other is possible. Both Soulmate and Me have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other.

Me’s Pluto Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+3.57 harmony) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine pleasantly within the couple. Soulmate came from a different generation with different cultural references than Me. Both enjoy reminiscing about the past, on how each individual grew up.

Me’s Moon Sextiles Soulmate’s Venus (+3.52 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. Me and Soulmate have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between Me and Soulmate.

Me’s Moon Trines Soulmate’s Neptune (+2.77 harmony) – Me’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the mutual inspiration and devotion to each other. A robust psychic connection exists between Me and Soulmate. There is a minor irritation when both seem distant or aloof to the other. Both have an affinity in mystical, esoteric, or even occult studies.

Me’s Sun Sextiles Soulmate’s Pluto (+2.09 harmony) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Me can bring out the psychoanalyst in Soulmate.

Soulmate’s Saturn Sextiles Me’s Uranus (+2.01 harmony) – Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both Soulmate and Me. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. Me is spontaneous and creative while Soulmate is sensible and rational.

Me’s Saturn Sextiles Soulmate’s Neptune (+1.72 harmony) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The relationship stimulates each other to adopt new ways of thinking. Me can stabilize Soulmate to be practical. Soulmate can inspire Me to have a vision and be more imaginative.

Soulmate’s Moon Trines Me’s Mercury (+0.09 harmony) – Soulmate’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with Me’s mentality and powers of perception. There is harmony in the intuitive knowledge of each other’s ideas and views. The relationship facilitates good communication and understanding. Both have many similar interests and encourage each other’s mental development. Me and Soulmate are often in complete agreement with each other. Sometimes they can interpret each other’s dreams.

Me’s Sun Conjuncts Soulmate’s Neptune (neutral) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Soulmate’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The spiritual tie between Soulmate and Me is deep and unbreakable. The fusion of understanding, romance, dedication, sympathy, idealism, and personal sacrifice in the relationship is remarkable. Both can read each other’s mind frequently. Me may find Soulmate hard to comprehend or elusive in some way.

Soulmate’s Neptune Conjuncts Me’s Pluto (neutral) – Soulmate’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is a happy combination of the spiritual and psychological values of Soulmate and Me. Both are on a spiritual path together. The relationship forms a compassionate outlook to make things a little better for everyone.

Soulmate’s Venus Squares Me’s Mars (-0.35 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Soulmate and Me in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Me feels suffocated by Soulmate’s possessiveness. Soulmate can be deeply hurt by Me’s thoughtless words.

Soulmate’s Jupiter Squares Me’s Uranus (-0.93 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in Soulmate’s aspirations and Me’s individualistic ideas. Me will seem rebellious or unstable to Soulmate. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

Me’s Sun Squares Soulmate’s Jupiter (-1.00 discord) – Me’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Soulmate’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Me and Soulmate have the tendency to encourage each other’s self-indulgence, extravagance, and recklessness. There is friction in individual ego, ambition, and belief. Both Soulmate and Me may see each other as demanding or overbearing. They expect too much from one another.

Me’s Uranus Squares Soulmate’s Pluto (-1.04 discord) – Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in spiritual goals between Me and Soulmate. The relationship is a mixture of power and rebellion. It will take a lot of work to keep the partnership firm.

Me’s Mars Sextiles Soulmate’s Saturn (-1.49 discord) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. Me stimulates Soulmate’s ambition and self-confidence. Soulmate restrains Me’s tendency to act impulsively.

Me’s Moon Conjuncts Soulmate’s Mars (-1.50 discord) – Me’s emotional needs combine with Soulmate’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Soulmate arouses the imagination and instinctual mind of Me. This aspect stimulates physical attraction between opposite sex. The attraction between Me and Soulmate will be healthy if other aspects of the relationship are generally harmonious. Sometimes the aggressive nature of Soulmate can be unbearable to the emotional character of Me. Both Soulmate and Me are intimate and dynamic in supporting each other.

Soulmate’s Venus Conjuncts Me’s Saturn (-2.44 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. Me provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. Soulmate’s sympathy and affection stimulate Me’s confidence. Me can become possessive of Soulmate. Soulmate can feel restricted by Me’s criticism and discipline.

Soulmate’s Moon Squares Me’s Uranus (-2.46 discord) – Soulmate’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The friction can arouse irritations between Me and Soulmate. Me is eccentric, inconsiderate, and unpredictable. Soulmate is hypersensitive and moody. Any romantic attraction can lead to an unusual relationship that may not last long unless other aspects stabilize the connection.

Soulmate’s Venus Squares Me’s Uranus (-2.70 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Me’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Occasional disappointments in each other can cause friction and temporary separations. Both may be fickle toward each other and cannot depend on one another. The relationship has an erratic, unstable, but intoxicating quality.

Me’s Venus Squares Soulmate’s Pluto (-3.13 discord) – Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Me’s Mars Squares Soulmate’s Jupiter (-3.83 discord) – Me’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is friction in Me’s instincts and Soulmate’s ethical point of view. There is a natural tendency to be extravagant in one or both individual.

Soulmate’s Sun Squares Me’s Pluto (-4.15 discord) – Soulmate’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Me’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the random testing of loyalty and tolerance in the relationship. Both will resist any attempted change imposed by the other. The aggressive personalities of Soulmate and Me can cause damage to the relationship.

Me’s Jupiter Squares Soulmate’s Saturn (-4.85 discord) – Me’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Soulmate’s view of responsibility and Me’s dreams of expansion. Soulmate places too much responsibility on Me. Me feels confined and frustrated.

Soulmate’s Moon Squares Me’s Venus (-5.07 discord) – Soulmate’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Me’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. Soulmate and Me can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between Me and Soulmate. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

Me’s Saturn Conjuncts Soulmate’s Pluto (-5.84 discord) – Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with Soulmate’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The bond between Me and Soulmate is repeatedly tested in this aspect. Soulmate may try to reform Me’s severe and strict attitudes toward life.

Me’s Mercury Squares Soulmate’s Uranus (-5.88 discord) – Me’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Soulmate’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. Soulmate may seem unstable and erratic to Me. Me may seem elusive and contradictory to Soulmate. Soulmate stimulates, excites, and irritates Me’s mind simultaneously. Me can’t understand the complex mind of Soulmate. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

Me’s Mercury Squares Soulmate’s Mercury (-7.90 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully within the couple. Differences of opinion can cause friction and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. One will criticize everything the other does. The relationship lacks intellectual inspiration and encouragement.

Me’s Sun Squares Soulmate’s Sun (-11.51 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character interacts stressfully within the couple. Clash of values between Me and Soulmate can happen. They have different goals and objectives in life. There is friction in individual temperaments, and neither person is willing to adapt nor change for the other. Competitiveness and ego wars can be a real problem in the relationship.

Soulmate’s Moon Opposes Me’s Saturn (-21.14 discord) – Soulmate’s emotional needs confront and challenge Me’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The tension can easily create misunderstanding between Me’s practicality and Soulmate’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. Soulmate resents Me’s constant discipline. Me is frustrated by the moody disposition of Soulmate. Me sees the conservative and safe side of any situation. Soulmate sees the intuitive and magical side.

There are 8 mutual receptions in Me and Soulmate’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +80 harmony to the total score. The remaining -6.69 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Me and Soulmate don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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