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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -43

Melissa born February 12, 1979
Aquarius ♒

Gary born August 11, 1978
Leo ♌

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Melissa and Gary’s Relationship

Gary and Melissa’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Leo and Aquarius. No individual is a pure Leo or Aquarius but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Melissa’s birth chart and the planets in Gary’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Gary’s Sun Trines Melissa’s Neptune (+10.38 harmony) – Gary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Melissa’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in the abundance of warmth and artistic creativity in the relationship. Sharing of dreams with a sense of freedom is normal between Melissa and Gary. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Gary’s Sun Sextiles Melissa’s Pluto (+7.38 harmony) – Gary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Melissa’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates growth through unity and involves a lot of alterations. They are active in exploring each other’s deepest fears, desires, and motives. There is mutual enjoyment in exchanging ideas and solving mysteries together. Gary can bring out the psychoanalyst in Melissa.

Gary’s Venus Sextiles Melissa’s Jupiter (+7.07 harmony) – Gary’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Melissa’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Gary’s Mercury Trines Melissa’s Venus (+6.50 harmony) – Gary’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with Melissa’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. Gary’s communication style is in harmony with Melissa’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from Melissa makes Gary feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is very favorable in marriage.

Gary’s Mars Sextiles Melissa’s Jupiter (+3.99 harmony) – Gary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Melissa’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates mutual helpfulness in achieving prosperity. Gary provides a foundation for aggressive action for Melissa’s dreams of development. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Melissa’s Mars Trines Gary’s Pluto (+3.48 harmony) – Melissa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Gary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an impressive harmony between Melissa and Gary. Both can strengthen each other’s willpower to tackle any large-scale projects together. This aspect is perfect for a business partnership.

Melissa’s Sun Trines Gary’s Pluto (+3.35 harmony) – Melissa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with Gary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Melissa can bring out the psychoanalyst in Gary. There is harmony in the relationship that helps each other grow as individuals. It stimulates enterprise and ambition in both Gary and Melissa. There is mutual interest in magical and occult knowledge. The positive effect of this influence can lead Melissa and Gary to a long-term relationship.

Melissa’s Saturn Sextiles Gary’s Uranus (+3.19 harmony) – Melissa’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with Gary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both Melissa and Gary. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. Gary is spontaneous and creative while Melissa is sensible and rational.

Melissa’s Venus Sextiles Gary’s Uranus (+3.03 harmony) – Melissa’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Gary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. Gary surprises Melissa in one way or another. Melissa has a pleasant way of toning down Gary’s eccentricity.

Gary’s Jupiter Trines Melissa’s Uranus (+3.02 harmony) – Gary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Melissa’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Gary’s visions are in harmony with Melissa’s creative genius. Gary will expand Melissa’s goals and creativity. Melissa adds innovation and excitement to Gary’s projects. This aspect brings out humanitarian qualities in each other.

Melissa’s Venus Trines Gary’s Saturn (+3.01 harmony) – Melissa’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Gary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Gary’s protective trait is in harmony with Melissa’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

Gary’s Moon Sextiles Melissa’s Saturn (+2.83 harmony) – Gary’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Melissa’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The stimulation between Gary and Melissa is based on mutual needs. Melissa will be reliable, loyal, and can bring out the conservative qualities in Gary. Gary can expand the ideas of Melissa with practical imagination. Both complement each other nicely. There are mutual respect and practical support in the relationship. Melissa and Gary are in agreement in financial matters. The aspect encourages friendly contact when there is a big age gap between Gary and Melissa.

Melissa’s Mars Sextiles Gary’s Neptune (+2.80 harmony) – Melissa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with Gary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The initiative of Melissa stimulates the sacrificial tendency in Gary. Melissa and Gary will support each other to a significant degree, both emotionally and creatively.

Gary’s Neptune Sextiles Melissa’s Pluto (+2.53 harmony) – Gary’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Melissa’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Gary stimulates the reforming urge of Melissa. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Melissa’s Jupiter Conjuncts Gary’s Jupiter (+2.25 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. Melissa and Gary’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

Gary’s Moon Sextiles Melissa’s Venus (+2.13 harmony) – Gary’s emotional needs combine pleasantly with Melissa’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. The relationship stimulates deep mutual devotion and affection in each other. Both tend to be liberal on financial matters. Gary and Melissa have common interests in many things including social activities. There is a strong attraction for love and marriage between Gary and Melissa.

Melissa’s Neptune Sextiles Gary’s Pluto (+0.45 harmony) – Melissa’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with Gary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of Melissa stimulates the reforming urge of Gary. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

Melissa’s Sun Sextiles Gary’s Neptune (+0.44 harmony) – Melissa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with Gary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is a stimulating spiritual bond between Gary and Melissa. A profound soul connection that makes falling in love with each other seems natural. Sometimes Gary knows what Melissa is thinking. Both share an interest in performing arts and metaphysical matters.

Gary’s Moon Conjuncts Melissa’s Uranus (neutral) – Gary’s emotional needs combine with Melissa’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The fusion excites mutual interest and is intellectually stimulating. There’s a degree of spontaneous, unexpected, and magnetic attraction linking Gary and Melissa. Boredom is never a problem in the relationship. Sometimes Gary’s traditional attitude clashes with Melissa’s odd behavior. The union arouses romantic feelings that can be temporary unless other harmonious aspects support it.

Melissa’s Uranus Conjuncts Gary’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both Melissa and Gary complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

Melissa’s Neptune Conjuncts Gary’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both Melissa and Gary share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in Melissa or Gary.

Melissa’s Pluto Conjuncts Gary’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. Melissa and Gary enjoy the same cultural references. Gary and Melissa have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

Gary’s Jupiter Squares Melissa’s Pluto (-0.08 discord) – Gary’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with Melissa’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the individual aspirations, goals, and ideals. This can lead to misunderstanding or make cooperation difficult. It will be spiritually testing to Gary.

Gary’s Moon Squares Melissa’s Mercury (-0.53 discord) – Gary’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Melissa’s mentality and powers of perception. There is friction in the mismatch of tastes and interests. Gary is hypersensitive and tend to misinterpret Melissa’s intentions. Melissa pays no attention or ignores the sensitive nature of Gary. Arguments and debates are common in the relationship.

Melissa’s Sun Squares Gary’s Uranus (-1.33 discord) – Melissa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Gary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Gary produces friction with the selfishness of Melissa. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Gary might resent and even rebel against Melissa’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Melissa and Gary.

Melissa’s Saturn Conjuncts Gary’s Saturn (-2.06 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. Melissa and Gary share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if Melissa and Gary are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

Gary’s Mercury Conjuncts Melissa’s Saturn (-2.12 discord) – Gary’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with Melissa’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Gary may feel inadequate when Melissa imparts knowledge and wisdom. Melissa has the tendency to discipline Gary. Gary may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by Melissa. Gary can talk Melissa out of negative attitudes. Gary can encourage progressiveness in Melissa.

Melissa’s Venus Squares Gary’s Pluto (-2.55 discord) – Melissa’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Gary’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is an intense and sometimes uncomfortable sexual attraction in the relationship. There is friction in dealing with issues of jealousy, possessiveness, and volatile emotions. The association may breed anger and even hatred of one another.

Melissa’s Venus Squares Gary’s Venus (-2.83 discord) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully within the couple. Both have different romantic styles. There is friction in the different way each other expresses affection. Agreement on financial matters can be complicated. Both will occasionally challenge each other about morality, social life, or cultural sentiments. This can become a tense and uncomfortable relationship but with an active element of attraction.

Melissa’s Sun Squares Gary’s Moon (-3.06 discord) – Melissa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Gary’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. Melissa’s domineering personality can overwhelm Gary’s emotional and sensitive nature. Gary can appear moody to Melissa’s inconsiderate behavior.

Melissa’s Mars Squares Gary’s Uranus (-5.77 discord) – Melissa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Gary’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Melissa resents the quiet side of Gary. Gary dislikes the over emotional side of Melissa. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Melissa’s Venus Squares Gary’s Mars (-6.50 discord) – Melissa’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with Gary’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a strong sexual attraction between Melissa and Gary in the early stage of the relationship. Too much stimulation causes friction and disputes. Gary feels suffocated by Melissa’s possessiveness. Melissa can be deeply hurt by Gary’s thoughtless words.

Melissa’s Sun Opposes Gary’s Mercury (-7.04 discord) – Melissa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Gary’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of Melissa and Gary. Communication between Gary and Melissa is difficult. The mental energies of Gary are frequently opposed by the creative powers of Melissa. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

Gary’s Sun Opposes Melissa’s Mercury (-7.76 discord) – Gary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Melissa’s mentality and powers of perception. There is tension in the differing viewpoints and opinions of Gary and Melissa. Communication between Melissa and Gary is difficult. The mental energies of Melissa are frequently opposed by the creative powers of Gary. This aspect is challenging in a long-term relationship like marriage.

Melissa’s Sun Opposes Gary’s Saturn (-9.35 discord) – Melissa’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Gary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between Melissa and Gary. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. Melissa may feel Gary being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. Gary may feel Melissa being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

Melissa’s Saturn Squares Gary’s Neptune (-9.41 discord) – Melissa’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with Gary’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in Melissa’s realism and Gary’s idealism.

Gary’s Sun Squares Melissa’s Uranus (-9.53 discord) – Gary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Melissa’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The rebellious nature of Melissa produces friction with the selfishness of Gary. There is a natural tendency to an on-off relationship. Melissa might resent and even rebel against Gary’s display of authority. This is subtle and challenging to deal with. The union can sometimes cause a violent reaction between Gary and Melissa.

Melissa’s Mercury Opposes Gary’s Mercury (-9.57 discord) – The individual mentality and powers of perception confront or challenge each other. Differences in points of view can cause tension and misunderstanding. Both have a different method of solving problems. Agreeing with each other can be difficult.

Melissa’s Sun Opposes Gary’s Sun (-10.29 discord) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge each other. The different temperaments of Melissa and Gary can either cause tension or complement each other. Both can be attracted or repelled by the difference in perspective on life by the other.

Gary’s Moon Squares Melissa’s Mars (-10.43 discord) – Gary’s emotional needs interact stressfully with Melissa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction when Gary becomes indecisive when reacting to Melissa’s impulsiveness. The relationship can show signs of intense physical attraction and a negatively smothering emotional reaction. Nagging, abruptness, and even refusal to calmly talk things over will be a frequent irritation in the relationship. Serious personality conflicts can exist between Gary and Melissa.

Melissa’s Mercury Opposes Gary’s Saturn (-13.13 discord) – Melissa’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Gary’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Gary’s criticism and disapproval of Melissa’s achievements. Melissa may seem careless and annoying to Gary. Gary may appear cold and bossy to Melissa. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Gary’s Sun Opposes Melissa’s Mars (-18.03 discord) – Gary’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Melissa’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Gary and Melissa. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Melissa and Gary are together.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Melissa and Gary’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -9.46 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Melissa and Gary don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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