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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -25

N born June 16, 1989
Gemini ♊

J born October 14, 1988
Libra ♎

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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N and J’s Relationship

J and N’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Libra and Gemini. No individual is a pure Libra or Gemini but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in N’s birth chart and the planets in J’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

J’s Venus Trines N’s Neptune (+12.32 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. J is willing to overlook N’s faults. N is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

J’s Sun Trines N’s Jupiter (+10.20 harmony) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very effortlessly with N’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in J and N’s goal of expanding their horizons. There are much optimism and enthusiasm in the relationship. J inspires N to plan big dreams. N will make J feel terrific. This aspect helps bring good luck and financial success in a business partnership.

N’s Venus Trines J’s Pluto (+9.09 harmony) – N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony when both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between N and J makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

N’s Sun Trines J’s Sun (+8.05 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. N and J can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

J’s Venus Trines N’s Saturn (+7.35 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. N’s protective trait is in harmony with J’s loving nature. Trust is a rare and precious part of the association. This aspect is good for a long-term relationship.

N’s Neptune Sextiles J’s Pluto (+6.77 harmony) – N’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of N stimulates the reforming urge of J. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

N’s Venus Sextiles J’s Venus (+6.28 harmony) – The individual sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly within the couple. There is natural stimulation in the way each other expresses affection. Social, cultural, and financial interests are the same. Both enjoy the same pleasures in life. N and J have the desire to help and encourage each other. The relationship is a romantic attraction.

J’s Venus Sextiles N’s Pluto (+6.07 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between J and N makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

N’s Mars Trines J’s Mars (+4.41 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the desires and dreams of N and J. The relationship is encouraging to achieve each other’s goals and ambitions. J and N are incredibly attracted to each other and are sexually compatible.

N’s Mercury Conjuncts J’s Jupiter (+4.14 harmony) – N’s mentality and powers of perception combine with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. N’s ideas combine with J’s dreams. J’s faith deepens N’s intellectual self-confidence. J sympathizes with N’s desire for mental advancement. N respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of J.

J’s Mercury Trines N’s Jupiter (+3.64 harmony) – J’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with N’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. J’s thoughts are in harmony with N’s dreams. N’s faith deepens J’s intellectual self-confidence. N sympathizes with J’s desire for mental advancement. J respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of N.

N’s Saturn Sextiles J’s Pluto (+3.44 harmony) – N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. N’s practical and hardworking nature stimulate J’s power of transformation. N can give stability to J’s feelings of loneliness. J can strengthen N’s sense of authority.

N’s Mercury Sextiles J’s Mars (+3.28 harmony) – N’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. N’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by J’s encouragement.

J’s Venus Trines N’s Uranus (+2.63 harmony) – J’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. N surprises J in one way or another. J has a pleasant way of toning down N’s eccentricity.

J’s Neptune Sextiles N’s Pluto (+1.88 harmony) – J’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with N’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of J stimulates the reforming urge of N. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

N’s Mars Sextiles J’s Jupiter (+1.84 harmony) – N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with J’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. The relationship stimulates mutual helpfulness in achieving prosperity. N provides a foundation for aggressive action for J’s dreams of development. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

N’s Sun Trines J’s Mercury (+1.28 harmony) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with J’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between N and J is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. J understands N’s intentions. N supports J’s intellectual excitement. J is able to discuss problems with N. Together they can work out a solution.

N’s Moon Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – N’s emotional needs combine with J’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion can be either very good or very bad depending on other aspects of the relationship. There is a powerful physical attraction between J and N. J expands the ideas, imagination, and viewpoints of N. Sometimes N will find J to be possessive, jealous, and domineering.

N’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both N and J complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

N’s Uranus Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – N’s respect for expression of individuality combines with J’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. There may be a similarity of social or political views between N and J. Each partner will share radical new ideas. The relationship gives a feeling that anything is possible when both are together. There is a creative union of rebellion and idealism. This can sometimes encourage J or N to evade responsibility.

N’s Neptune Conjuncts J’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both N and J share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in N or J.

N’s Pluto Conjuncts J’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. N and J enjoy the same cultural references. J and N have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

J’s Sun Squares N’s Neptune (-0.08 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between J and N can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. N can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards J.

J’s Sun Squares N’s Saturn (-0.63 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in N’s controlling nature and J’s egocentric nature. J struggles to break free from the limits set by N. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

J’s Sun Squares N’s Mars (-1.77 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with N’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of J and N. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between N and J is necessary for the union to work. N will have to work on patience while J will have to work on humility.

N’s Jupiter Opposes J’s Uranus (-1.95 discord) – N’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the radical views and differences in social or religious ideas. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

J’s Sun Squares N’s Venus (-2.28 discord) – J’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with N’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between N’s romantic sensibilities and J’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

N’s Sun Opposes J’s Neptune (-2.71 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The tense connection between J and N is fraught with possibilities of misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. Trust is lacking in the relationship. J can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards N.

J’s Saturn Conjuncts N’s Uranus (-2.93 discord) – J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. N is radical and rebellious while J is conservative and methodical. The relationship can show an excellent fusion of practicality and vision if both can respect each other’s differences.

N’s Venus Opposes J’s Neptune (-3.90 discord) – N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy confronts and challenges J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between N and J. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause tension and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

N’s Jupiter Opposes J’s Saturn (-4.62 discord) – N’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity confronts and challenges J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in J’s restrictive nature and N’s dreams of expansion. There can be disagreement on financial or business procedures.

J’s Mercury Squares N’s Neptune (-6.85 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with N’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. N’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in J’s method of thinking. Both J and N are capable of lying to each other. N’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

J’s Mercury Squares N’s Venus (-7.36 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with N’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between J and N. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. J tends to disregard the emotional needs of N. N may find J cold and calculative.

N’s Sun Squares J’s Mars (-7.74 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is friction in the individual ambitions of N and J. Hostility and aggression are easily aroused in the relationship. A compromise between J and N is necessary for the union to work. J will have to work on patience while N will have to work on humility.

J’s Mars Squares N’s Uranus (-9.29 discord) – J’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with N’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. J resents the quiet side of N. N dislikes the over emotional side of J. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

N’s Saturn Conjuncts J’s Neptune (-9.87 discord) – N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty may combine with J’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. This aspect is neither beneficial nor harmful to the relationship. J can add a degree of holiness to N’s practical goals in life. In some cases, there will be doubts, deceptions, and misunderstanding in the relationship.

J’s Mercury Squares N’s Saturn (-10.79 discord) – J’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with N’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in N’s criticism and disapproval of J’s achievements. J may seem careless and annoying to N. N may appear cold and bossy to J. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

N’s Sun Opposes J’s Uranus (-12.63 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of N and the independent nature of J. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted J and N together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

N’s Sun Opposes J’s Saturn (-20.72 discord) – N’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge J’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension and almost electric resistance between N and J. This can quickly become a love-hate relationship. N may feel J being too restrictive, cautious, conservative, and limiting. J may feel N being overbearing, uncooperative, and even refusing guidance.

There are 2 mutual receptions in N and J’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +20 harmony to the total score. The remaining -31.55 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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N and J don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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