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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: +9

Pam born January 18, 1968
Capricorn ♑

Tom born September 9, 1954
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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Pam and Tom’s Relationship

Tom and Pam’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Capricorn. No individual is a pure Virgo or Capricorn but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in Pam’s birth chart and the planets in Tom’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

Tom’s Jupiter Trines Pam’s Neptune (+10.70 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with Pam’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Tom’s expansive dreams are in harmony with Pam’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

Tom’s Uranus Trines Pam’s Neptune (+9.68 harmony) – Tom’s respect for expression of individuality combines very effortlessly with Pam’s mystical, spiritual inclinations. Both surprise each other at how crazy and beautiful things can get. Pam and Tom have a strong intuitive connection.

Tom’s Jupiter Sextiles Pam’s Pluto (+8.24 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Pam’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.

Tom’s Mars Trines Pam’s Jupiter (+8.03 harmony) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Pam’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is harmony in sharing outdoor activities like sports and travel. Pam has a broad impact on Tom’s vigor and erotic enthusiasm. Tom challenges Pam to expand further. This aspect is also favorable in business partnerships.

Pam’s Sun Trines Tom’s Mercury (+7.57 harmony) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very easily with Tom’s mentality and powers of perception. The flow of communication between Pam and Tom is in harmony. There is a stimulating conversation in the relationship. Tom understands Pam’s intentions. Pam supports Tom’s intellectual excitement. Tom is able to discuss problems with Pam. Together they can work out a solution.

Tom’s Venus Sextiles Pam’s Jupiter (+6.52 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Pam’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is natural stimulation in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

Pam’s Jupiter Sextiles Tom’s Saturn (+4.83 harmony) – Pam’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Tom’s practicality stimulates Pam’s expansive ideas. Pam provides vision while Tom creates structure. Both work better as a team to achieve a common goal. This aspect is also favorable in a business partnership.

Pam’s Venus Trines Tom’s Pluto (+3.66 harmony) – Pam’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony when both enjoy moving forward and growing through the relationship. There are feelings of relief and enlightenment after a relationship challenge. The magnetic attraction between Pam and Tom makes it impossible to separate them permanently.

Pam’s Mercury Trines Tom’s Mercury (+3.54 harmony) – The individual mentality and powers of perception combine very comfortably between the couple. There is harmony in the way ideas flow naturally between Pam and Tom. Both like playing mind games with one another. Words have magical power in the relationship. Communication is never a problem and both never run out of topics to discuss.

Tom’s Venus Trines Pam’s Mars (+3.32 harmony) – Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines very effortlessly with Pam’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is harmony in the desire of Pam and loving nature of Tom. Both are strongly attracted to each other. This aspect is favorable in marriage and offers a fulfilling relationship.

Pam’s Uranus Sextiles Tom’s Uranus (+3.29 harmony) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with the couple. Pam and Tom stimulate each other’s strange ideas. There is a feeling of openness. Both enjoy their own craziness. The relationship encourages one another to have a broader view of the changes affecting society in general.

Pam’s Mars Sextiles Tom’s Mars (+2.58 harmony) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly within the couple. Both have a fierce loyalty to each other and can cooperate effectively. The relationship stimulates each other’s courage and ambition. There is a unity of desire between Pam and Tom. Both enjoy sports and other physical activities together.

Tom’s Uranus Sextiles Pam’s Pluto (+2.30 harmony) – Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine pleasantly with Pam’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The relationship stimulates the expression of individuality or spiritual unfoldment in one or both individuals. Both help each other to stand up for their beliefs.

Tom’s Mercury Sextiles Pam’s Neptune (+2.19 harmony) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with Pam’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. Pam stimulates the imagination of Tom. Tom’s practical suggestions give form to Pam’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. There seems to be a healthy mental and empathic connection between Pam and Tom. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction through the sharing of creative projects.

Pam’s Venus Sextiles Tom’s Neptune (+1.98 harmony) – Pam’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is stimulation in each other’s mutual interest in nature, religion, art, music, or arcane studies. The relationship brings out kindness, sympathy, and generosity toward each other. Pam is willing to overlook Tom’s faults. Tom is delighted to be loved in such a sophisticated manner.

Pam’s Mars Trines Tom’s Saturn (+1.69 harmony) – Pam’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. There is harmony in Tom’s patience and Pam’s aggressiveness.

Pam’s Sun Trines Tom’s Sun (+0.81 harmony) – The individual sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine very comfortably between the couple. There is a natural tendency to energize and encourage each other. Pam and Tom can easily understand the goals they want to achieve together. Both are natural allies in many ways. There are harmony and mutual respect to form a healthy relationship.

Pam’s Jupiter Conjuncts Tom’s Pluto (+0.36 harmony) – Pam’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Tom can be possessive and domineering. Pam will inspire and encourage Tom. The combination can either be in harmony or discord depending on other aspects. This aspect helps deepen the connection between Pam and Tom.

Tom’s Jupiter Sextiles Pam’s Uranus (+0.14 harmony) – Tom’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with Pam’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Tom’s visions stimulate Pam’s creative genius. Tom will expand Pam’s goals and creativity. Pam adds innovation and excitement to Tom’s projects. Freedom and self-expression are the primary focus of the relationship.

Tom’s Mercury Conjuncts Pam’s Uranus (neutral) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Pam’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a fusion of intellectual and mental awakening in Tom and Pam. Both bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity in each other. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

Tom’s Sun Conjuncts Pam’s Pluto (neutral) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with Pam’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The fusion of traits without envy or competition can be powerful. The relationship has a natural ability to build or to destroy. If Tom and Pam are both strong-willed, it can lead to a struggle for authority. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and control are frequent problems in the relationship.

Tom’s Mercury Conjuncts Pam’s Pluto (neutral) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception combine with Pam’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. Pam can have an explosive effect on Tom’s viewpoints. Tom can expand Pam’s range of interest in various areas of life. Pam’s influence on Tom is stronger than Tom’s on Pam. Pam has a natural tendency to dominate the mind of Tom and could be ruthless in doing so.

Tom’s Mars Squares Pam’s Uranus (-1.09 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Pam’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both are strong-willed, and this causes friction in the relationship. Tom resents the quiet side of Pam. Pam dislikes the over emotional side of Tom. Both have an irritating effect on one another which in time can affect their health.

Tom’s Sun Opposes Pam’s Mars (-2.27 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Pam’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. There is a competitive bond between Tom and Pam. Tension and power struggle is typical in the relationship. Cooperation is difficult to achieve, and there is a tendency to fight over objectives. There is a natural level of irritation when Pam and Tom are together.

Pam’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Venus (-3.04 discord) – Pam’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an exciting exchange of ideas that later on can cause friction in the relationship. There may be occasional small misunderstandings between Pam and Tom. One listening to the other is a hit or miss. Pam tends to disregard the emotional needs of Tom. Tom may find Pam cold and calculative.

Tom’s Sun Squares Pam’s Venus (-3.22 discord) – Tom’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Pam’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Pam’s romantic sensibilities and Tom’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Pam’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Jupiter (-4.34 discord) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is tension between Pam and Tom’s philosophy of life. Tom and Pam are having difficulty recognizing their differences. They expect too much from each other. Both have the tendency to encourage over-indulgence in some form or another. There is less give-and-take in the relationship.

Pam’s Sun Squares Tom’s Venus (-5.30 discord) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s understanding of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There is an attraction but also friction between Tom’s romantic sensibilities and Pam’s creativeness. There can be conflict in how to handle finance, cultural, and social issues.

Pam’s Sun Squares Tom’s Saturn (-5.43 discord) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Tom’s controlling nature and Pam’s egocentric nature. Pam struggles to break free from the limits set by Tom. Both will want to achieve their goals in life but may find it challenging to meet the demands of one another. There is a particular element of responsibility and criticism in the relationship.

Pam’s Sun Squares Tom’s Neptune (-8.93 discord) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between Pam and Tom can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. Tom can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards Pam.

Pam’s Neptune Squares Tom’s Pluto (-9.30 discord) – Pam’s mystical or spiritual inclination interacts stressfully with Tom’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in the religious or philosophical beliefs of Pam and Tom. Tom will likely have a more forceful personality that Pam. Pam attempts to give Tom spiritual advice about the personal or psychological journey. Tom in return will psychoanalyze Pam’s religious or philosophical beliefs.

Pam’s Mercury Squares Tom’s Saturn (-11.23 discord) – Pam’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with Tom’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Tom’s criticism and disapproval of Pam’s achievements. Pam may seem careless and annoying to Tom. Tom may appear cold and bossy to Pam. The friction in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

Tom’s Mars Squares Pam’s Saturn (-12.57 discord) – Tom’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with Pam’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is friction in Pam’s constructive ideas and Tom’s enthusiasm. Pam may have unreasonable demands for Tom. This makes Tom impatient, angry, and defiant. The relationship has many problems of adjustment.

Pam’s Sun Opposes Tom’s Uranus (-13.95 discord) – Pam’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character confront and challenge Tom’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is tension in the selfish nature of Pam and the independent nature of Tom. Both are out of touch with the need for space in the relationship. The bond that initially attracted Tom and Pam together becomes a confusing tug of war between togetherness and individuality.

Tom’s Mercury Opposes Pam’s Saturn (-20.86 discord) – Tom’s mentality and powers of perception confront and challenge Pam’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. There is tension in Pam’s criticism and disapproval of Tom’s achievements. Tom may seem careless and annoying to Pam. Pam may appear cold and bossy to Tom. The tension in the relationship can be a challenge to help each other grow in wisdom.

There are 3 mutual receptions in Pam and Tom’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +30 harmony to the total score. The remaining -0.90 discord is due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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Pam and Tom don’t let the discordant aspects become a discouragement. It merely indicates the level of difficulty, but it’s not impossible to overcome. A firm determination can overcome any obstacle no matter how big it is. As the saying goes “love can conquer all.”

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