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Love Match Score

Birthday Compatibility Score: -36

R born August 30, 1979
Virgo ♍

M born September 12, 1979
Virgo ♍

Scoring Overview

A negative test score indicates discord in the relationship. The couple might be physically attracted to each other, but it is going to be rough. There might be a lot of disagreements and may even harm each other. The association will need many adjustments for it to work. Read the interpretation in the next section to find out what aspects cause harmony and discord.

A score of +20 and below indicates average harmony. This is a casual relationship from everyday people. The pair may say hi and hello to each other, but there is no deep connection between them. This is sometimes called the “friends zone.”

A score of +21 to +40 indicates greater harmony beyond friendship. A score of +41 to +60 is a sign of a good match. A score of +61 to +80 indicates general compatibility. +81 to +100 is an excellent score but is hard to find.

A score above +100 ranks high on the love compatibility meter. The pair has a lot of common grounds to enjoy. Whenever there is a conflict, the couple can easily overcome it without affecting their relationship.

A score above +200 is very rare to find. This is an extraordinary match! Both individuals are very committed to nurturing one another. Some will call this pair “soul mates.”

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R and M’s Relationship

M and R’s relationship is more than just Sun sign compatibility of Virgo and Virgo. No individual is a pure Virgo but instead is a unique combination of signs and planets. The following interpretation defines the synastry or interplanetary aspects between the planets in R’s birth chart and the planets in M’s birth chart. There is no evil planet in the combinations. No single combination can make or break the relationship. The list goes from the most harmonious (positive) to the most discordant (negative).

A neutral score means it can go both ways. If there are many positive elements, they can pull the neutral ones with them making the relationship a favorable one. The opposite can also happen where a lot of negative aspects can pull the neutral ones causing a general discord in the relationship.

R’s Neptune Sextiles M’s Pluto (+6.76 harmony) – R’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of R stimulates the reforming urge of M. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

M’s Neptune Sextiles R’s Pluto (+6.75 harmony) – M’s mystical or spiritual inclination combines pleasantly with R’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. The spiritual urge of M stimulates the reforming urge of R. Both will support and encourage each other’s spiritual enlightenment. The relationship inspires each other to meet the world with compassion and grace.

R’s Jupiter Trines M’s Neptune (+6.00 harmony) – R’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. R’s expansive dreams are in harmony with M’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

R’s Jupiter Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+5.93 harmony) – The individual sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines with ease within the couple. R and M’s ideals and beliefs are aligned. Both appreciate each other’s good qualities. Learning and education are essential in the relationship. The relationship encourages optimism, self-confidence, and humor.

M’s Mercury Sextiles R’s Uranus (+4.97 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with R’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. Both stimulate the intellectual and mental awakening in each other. M and R bring out each other’s innate genius and encourage its development. The relationship generates tremendous creativity. Communication flows smoothly. Both enjoy the frequent exchange of challenging ideas.

M’s Moon Trines R’s Pluto (+4.49 harmony) – M’s emotional needs combine very effortlessly with R’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is harmony in the magnetic mental attraction between M and R. Both are supportive and psychologically intimate with each other. The relationship can be profoundly sexual. This aspect is suitable for any political, professional, or business partnership.

M’s Sun Sextiles R’s Uranus (+4.32 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with R’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is a sense of mutual liberty that stimulates the relationship. Both M and R have the willingness to try out new ideas. Both are highly creative together and are open to an intelligent conversation. Sharing idiosyncrasies together is a fun experience for R and M.

R’s Mercury Trines M’s Neptune (+4.18 harmony) – R’s mentality and powers of perception combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is harmony when M inspires the creativity of R. R’s practical suggestions give form to M’s abstract ideas. Both can discover many interests through excellent communication. The relationship brings a feeling of great pleasure and happiness through sharing of creative projects.

R’s Mercury Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+4.02 harmony) – R’s mentality and powers of perception combine with M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity. Wit and humor are abundant in the relationship. Exchange of ideas is enthusiastic and friendly. R’s ideas combine with M’s dreams. M’s faith deepens R’s intellectual self-confidence. M sympathizes with R’s desire for mental advancement. R respects the moral, spiritual, and intellectual abilities of M.

R’s Mars Trines M’s Uranus (+3.30 harmony) – R’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

R’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+2.51 harmony) – R’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. There is a combination of great abundance and boundless possibilities in the relationship. Both R and M share similar values and philosophy in life. Each will protect and defend one another when threatened by others.

R’s Saturn Sextiles M’s Uranus (+2.49 harmony) – R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both R and M. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. M is spontaneous and creative while R is sensible and rational.

M’s Saturn Sextiles R’s Uranus (+2.48 harmony) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines pleasantly with R’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. The relationship stimulates progress in both M and R. Both can endure a lot of stress when working together. R is spontaneous and creative while M is sensible and rational.

M’s Mars Trines R’s Uranus (+2.24 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine very effortlessly with R’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is harmony in stimulating a productive sense of adventure. Both encourage confidence, aggressive drive, and initiative in each other.

R’s Jupiter Sextiles M’s Pluto (+1.79 harmony) – R’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is potential to build large-scale projects together. The relationship stimulates individual growth process and searches for meaning in life.

M’s Jupiter Trines R’s Neptune (+1.76 harmony) – M’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity combines very effortlessly with R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. M’s expansive dreams are in harmony with R’s intuitions. Both are spiritually compatible. The relationship encourages idealism and charitable instincts in each other.

R’s Mercury Sextiles M’s Pluto (+1.37 harmony) – R’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. M stimulates R to be open to new ways of thinking. R appreciates M’s intensity and emotional honesty. Both can understand the effect they have on each other. M’s influence on R is stronger than R’s on M.

M’s Mercury Sextiles R’s Mars (+1.37 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine pleasantly with R’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. Both stimulate the exchange of ideas and self-expression in each other. The relationship inspires a lively and productive conversation. M’s thoughts and opinions are set in motion by R’s encouragement.

M’s Sun Sextiles R’s Mars (+0.87 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine pleasantly with R’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion. The relationship stimulates each other’s self-confidence, energy, and enthusiasm. There is mutual growth, and both enjoy activities together or working toward a common goal. There is natural energy between M and R.

R’s Mars Sextiles M’s Saturn (+0.70 harmony) – R’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. R stimulates M’s ambition and self-confidence. M restrains R’s tendency to act impulsively.

M’s Venus Sextiles R’s Uranus (+0.53 harmony) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines pleasantly with R’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is stimulation that brings out the latent creative genius in each other. A mystical or glamorous aura is present in the relationship. R surprises M in one way or another. M has a pleasant way of toning down R’s eccentricity.

R’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Jupiter (+0.50 harmony) – R’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with M’s spirit of growth, expansion, or generosity. Both enjoy the same pastimes, cultural activities, and other forms of entertainment. There is fusion in the relationship that brings out good qualities like optimism and self-confidence in each other.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts R’s Venus (+0.35 harmony) – M’s mentality and powers of perception combine with R’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. M’s communication style combines with R’s emotions, visions, and needs. The graceful flow of tenderness from R makes M feel exciting and sexy. There is a fascinating exchange of ideas in the relationship. This aspect is useful in marriage.

M’s Sun Conjuncts R’s Venus (+0.19 harmony) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with R’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. M has the same social interests and cultural values as R. There is an increased understanding of one another. The relationship encourages love, happiness, contentment, and creativity. Both R and M enjoy each other’s company.

M’s Mars Sextiles R’s Saturn (+0.10 harmony) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine pleasantly with R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. This aspect is suitable for any kind of partnership including business, family, or marriage. M stimulates R’s ambition and self-confidence. R restrains M’s tendency to act impulsively.

R’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Sun (neutral) – The couple’s sense of identity, ego, and character can combine with ease or difficulty. R and M have many positive and negative traits in common. The similar qualities can combine to aid understanding of one another. It may also cause rivalry with each other.

R’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Mercury (neutral) – R’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s mentality and powers of perception. There is effective communication and fewer misunderstanding between R and M. Both can work together in their similar ideas and points of view. R supports the progressive ideas of M. M understands the unique individuality of R.

R’s Uranus Conjuncts M’s Uranus (neutral) – The individual sense of independence, freedom, and originality combine with ease between the couple. Both R and M complement each other’s individuality and independence. There is mutual appreciation in the relationship. Both bring out the eccentric side of one another.

R’s Neptune Conjuncts M’s Neptune (neutral) – The individual sense of spirituality, imagination, or mysticism combines with ease within the couple. Both R and M share the same tastes in art, music, or religion. The relationship encourages positive traits of creativity and dreaminess. It also has the tendency to promote negative characteristics of laziness or indecisiveness in R or M.

R’s Pluto Conjuncts M’s Pluto (neutral) – The individual sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny combine with ease within the couple. R and M enjoy the same cultural references. M and R have a great time talking about the good old days since both came from the same generation.

R’s Jupiter Squares M’s Uranus (-0.06 discord) – R’s sense of growth, expansion, or generosity interacts stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction in R’s aspirations and M’s individualistic ideas. M will seem rebellious or unstable to R. One or both will show extravagance and resistance to responsibility.

R’s Venus Squares M’s Neptune (-0.09 discord) – R’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between R and M. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

R’s Venus Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-0.60 discord) – R’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. M provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. R’s sympathy and affection stimulate M’s confidence. M can become possessive of R. R can feel restricted by M’s criticism and discipline.

R’s Sun Squares M’s Neptune (-0.76 discord) – R’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between R and M can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. M can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards R.

M’s Venus Conjuncts R’s Saturn (-0.96 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy combines with R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. Both will show love through practical means and material accomplishment. R provides the mental, emotional, and financial stability in the relationship. M’s sympathy and affection stimulate R’s confidence. R can become possessive of M. M can feel restricted by R’s criticism and discipline.

R’s Mars Conjuncts M’s Mars (-1.31 discord) – The individual sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion combine within the couple. Both have similar instincts regarding sex and intimacy. The tendency of action will be identical in R and M. The same energy and desire may cause rivalry.

R’s Sun Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-2.02 discord) – R’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. M has the tendency to criticize and judge R’s actions. M sometimes blames R when something goes wrong. R is more tolerant and forgiving towards M. R can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from M.

R’s Mercury Squares M’s Uranus (-2.30 discord) – R’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with M’s sense of independence, freedom, and originality. There is friction when both minds meet. M may seem unstable and erratic to R. R may seem elusive and contradictory to M. M stimulates, excites, and irritates R’s mind simultaneously. R can’t understand the complex mind of M. Understanding and adjustment to each other are difficult to achieve in the relationship.

M’s Venus Squares R’s Neptune (-2.77 discord) – M’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy interacts stressfully with R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There may be a one-sided attraction between M and R. There is likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion in one or both. Unfounded jealousies can cause friction and misinterpretation of each other’s attitudes toward the relationship.

M’s Mars Squares R’s Pluto (-3.83 discord) – M’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with R’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

M’s Sun Conjuncts R’s Saturn (-4.37 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character combine with R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. A sense of duty and responsibility weigh heavily in the relationship. R has the tendency to criticize and judge M’s actions. R sometimes blames M when something goes wrong. M is more tolerant and forgiving towards R. M can learn needed lessons of discipline and patience from R.

M’s Mercury Conjuncts R’s Saturn (-4.70 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception may combine with R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. M may feel inadequate when R imparts knowledge and wisdom. R has the tendency to discipline M. M may feel the pressure of responsibilities demanded by R. M can talk R out of negative attitudes. M can encourage progressiveness in R.

M’s Moon Opposes R’s Neptune (-7.29 discord) – M’s emotional needs confront and challenge R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is tension in the overly sensitive moods and feelings in the relationship. M can overreact to the confusion caused by R. R can be deceptive or dishonest to M. Both are capable of keeping secrets to each other that can lead to misunderstanding. This aspect is terrible in marriage.

M’s Moon Squares R’s Venus (-7.41 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with R’s sense of sexuality, attraction, or intimacy. There’s a strong possibility of recurring friction caused by petty jealousy and minor domestic quarrels. M and R can have different patterns in lifestyles involving social inclinations and recreational preferences. The adjustment will be easy if there is sincere affection between R and M. This aspect is not harmfully discordant in a relationship.

R’s Mars Squares M’s Pluto (-7.91 discord) – R’s sexual drive, temper, and powers of self-assertion interact stressfully with M’s sense of transformation, change, or power and destiny. There is friction in each other’s resistance to display of authority by the other. Both can be vindictive toward each other. There is a power struggle for dominance in the relationship.

R’s Sun Squares M’s Moon (-8.51 discord) – R’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with M’s emotional needs. There is friction in basic temperaments and personalities. R’s domineering personality can overwhelm M’s emotional and sensitive nature. M can appear moody to R’s inconsiderate behavior.

M’s Sun Squares R’s Neptune (-8.59 discord) – M’s sense of identity, ego, will, and character interact stressfully with R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. The friction between M and R can cause misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, distrust, deception, and sometimes infidelity. There is a lack of trust in the relationship. R can be elusive, misleading, or even deceptive towards M.

M’s Moon Squares R’s Saturn (-9.22 discord) – M’s emotional needs interact stressfully with R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty. The friction can easily create misunderstanding between R’s practicality and M’s emotions. Both have opposite ways of handling everything from finance, lifestyle, and stress. R can be restrictive, disciplinary, judgmental, inconsiderate, and selfish toward M. M can be moody, impractical, fretful, and oversensitive toward R.

M’s Mercury Squares R’s Neptune (-9.25 discord) – M’s mentality and powers of perception interact stressfully with R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. R’s indulgence in random thoughts can cause confusion in M’s method of thinking. Both M and R are capable of lying to each other. R’s willful dishonesty can lead to misunderstanding and friction in the relationship. One or both may keep secrets about past relationships as a method of self-preservation.

R’s Saturn Squares M’s Neptune (-12.15 discord) – R’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with M’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in R’s realism and M’s idealism.

M’s Saturn Squares R’s Neptune (-14.66 discord) – M’s sense of commitment, necessity, or duty interacts stressfully with R’s sense of spirituality, imagination, or mystical inclination. There is friction in M’s realism and R’s idealism.

R’s Saturn Conjuncts M’s Saturn (-14.86 discord) – The individual sense of commitment, necessity, or duty combines with ease within the couple. R and M share the same ideas regarding security and ambitions. Both want things to be the same way and can understand each other’s problems. This aspect can have a devitalizing effect if R and M are a young couple who are doing the same wrong things together.

There is 1 mutual reception in R and M’s planet combinations. Planets in mutual reception enhance each other. This will add +10 harmony to the total score. The remaining +7.65 harmony are due to some minor aspects or planets in parallel.

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